Family Man
Nitzer Ebb Lyrics


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Family man

He's a family man, his wife laments
Never broken any of the Ten Commandments
Either pushing rock, selling for cock
Or rubbing out, rubbing out, rubbing them out

Seeing ass fly by in the drive by, fly by night
He'll give you a fright taking out your cash
He'll stuff it in his stash, leaving by the back door
Settling up your old score

He's a family man, his wife laments
Never broken any of the Ten Commandments
Either pushing rock, selling for cock
Or rubbing out, rubbing out, rubbing them out

He knows it all so well
From a spell in the cell
Now can't you tell this is hell
But just think of the cash
And the friends you can smash

If they're crossing your path
You'll get the last laugh
As you're driving away
Yes, it's been a good day
To die as you try to get by

Buy to get high and he'll lend so that you spend
Your life will depend on your money made friend
Your friend till the end, he knows no wrong from right
Best keep out of his sight

He's a family man, his wife laments
Never broken any of the Ten Commandments
Either pushing rock, selling for cock
Or rubbing out, rubbing out, rubbing them out

Yeah, and you know his girls love him too
Even when you're dropping your goo
And you think, "Well, if the judge only knew"
But then, do you really think that he hasn't been there too?

With his leather strap, clap trap
And a dolly bird sitting on his lap
Her fingertips trips across him like on a road map
Leading down to his old chap

Family man
Family man
Family man
Family man
Family man
Family man

He's a family man, his wife laments
Never broken any of the Ten Commandments
Either pushing rock, selling for cock
Or rubbing out, rubbing out, rubbing them out

Seeing ass fly by in the drive by, fly by night
He'll give you a fright taking out your cash
He'll stuff it in his stash, leaving by the back door
Settling up your old score

Family man
Family man
Family man




Family man
Yeah, he's a family man

Overall Meaning

The song "Family Man" by Nitzer Ebb showcases a man who is a criminal, but whose wife believes him to be a good family man and believes he hasn't broken any of the Ten Commandments. The lyrics suggest that the man is involved in illegal activities such as selling drugs or guns, and committing violent crimes such as murder. The song talks about the man always being in trouble with the law and having spent time in jail. The lyrics of the song suggest that his involvement with crime might have something to do with the desire for money and power, as well as his circle of friends who are also involved in illegal activities.


The song also suggests that women are attracted to this man despite his violent and criminal nature. The lyrics suggest that he has many women and engages in casual sex. The lyrics mention his "dolly bird sitting on his lap" and "leading down to his old chap," indicating sexual relationships. The repeated phrase "family man" throughout the song juxtaposes his criminal nature with his family life, indicating a contrast between his public persona and his private life.


Overall, "Family Man" portrays a man who is involved in criminal activities, who is able to maintain a public facade of being a good family man, despite his violent and criminal nature.


Line by Line Meaning

Family man
The singer of the song is a family man


He's a family man, his wife laments
Despite being involved in illegal activities, his wife sees him as a family man


Never broken any of the Ten Commandments
He has not committed any sin under the Ten Commandments


Either pushing rock, selling for cock, or rubbing out, rubbing out, rubbing them out
He is either selling drugs or using a gun to perform unlawful murders


Seeing ass fly by in the drive by, fly by night
Witnessing an unsuspecting victim in the drive by, but the perpetrator gets away easily


He'll give you a fright taking out your cash
He scares people so they will give him their money


He'll stuff it in his stash, leaving by the back door
After stealing, he will hide the money and make his getaway


Settling up your old score
He takes revenge to settle disputes


He knows it all so well
He is experienced in his illegal activities


From a spell in the cell
He was imprisoned for a period


Now, can't you tell this is hell
Despite enjoying illegal activities, his life is equivalent to hell


But just think of the cash, and the friends you can smash
The money he makes allows him to have control over people


If they're crossing your path, you'll get the last laugh
If someone goes against him, he will have the upper hand in the end


As you're driving away, yes, it's been a good day
After a successful heist, it is a gratifying feeling


To die as you try to get by
Involvement in illegal activities is risky and can be deadly


Buy to get high and he'll lend so that you spend
He sells drugs and loans money to people to keep them addicted


Your life will depend on your money made friend
Your livelihood depends on your illicit business


Your friend till the end, he knows no wrong from right
He will always have your back and does not adhere to moral principles


Best keep out of his sight
It's better to steer clear of illegal activities, or else he will take advantage of you


Yeah, and you know his girls love him too
Despite being a criminal, women are still attracted to him


Even when you're dropping your goo
He engages in sexual acts with women outside of his marriage


And you think, "Well, if the judge only knew"
He believes that if his illegal activities were discovered, the consequences would be significant


But then, do you really think that he hasn't been there too?
He is not afraid of the legal repercussions since he has already been to prison before


With his leather strap, clap trap, and a dolly bird sitting on his lap
He is seen as a tough guy with a beautiful woman in his company


Her fingertips trips across him like on a road map, leading down to his old chap
She caresses him intimately


Family man
Repeating the title of the song




Lyrics Β© Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ANTHONY ROCHESTER, ANTHONY CORNELIUS CAMERON, NOEL DAVEY

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Comments from YouTube:

@hdufort

This is by far the most "pop" song they ever did. While it doesn't sound like anything else they've done, it's a uniquely fun and catchy song. Well done!

@Nightmike1989

This has remained a favorite of mine from them after many years, hardly anything beats the guitar, not to mention how it works into their style.

@Mr._E_5042

Flash back! My garage band did a heavy cover of this back in 1992ish.

@shapetwist

ya basically nitzer ebb is legendary whether or not you want to be apart of that. your belief doesnt dictate the knowledge of others.

@fortheloveoftunes

This song was, is and always will be cool! .-)

@westonhuffman7908

This is one hard to find 1991 classic!!

@westonhuffman7908

Happy 25th Anniversary to this song!

@EANDM71

Weston Huffman WHAT?? Wow!! I’m old as fuck! Love NE!!

@Viclask

El grupo de mi vida

@rubenv101

I can’t wait to see them in May in Dallas.

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