Hateful
No Doubt Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

Kill that drama
Well I got a friend who's a man
Who's a man? What man?
The man who keeps me from the lovely lovely

He gives me what I need
What you need? What you got?
I need it all so badly

Oh anything I want he gives it to me
Anything I want he gives it but not for free
It's hateful it's hateful
And it's paid for and I'm so grateful to be nowhere

This year I've lost some friends
Some friends? What friends?
I dunno, I ain't even noticed

You see, I gotta go out again
Again? My friend
I gotta go see that mainman

[Chorus x2]
Oh, anything I want he gives it to me
Anything I want he gives it, but not for free
It's hateful, It's hateful
And it's paid for and I'm so grateful to be nowhere

I killed all my nerves
My nerves? What swerves?
And I can't drive so steady

Oh, I've lost my memory
My mind? Behind!
I can't see so clearly

Oh, anything I want he gives it to me
Anything I want he gives it, but not for free
(its not for free) he gives it to me
Anything I want he gives it, but not for free
He gives it to me
He gives it to me

Not for free
Not for free
Not for free
Not for free





Its not for you...its for me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Hateful" by No Doubt convey a complicated and toxic relationship dynamic. The song revolves around the singer's reliance on a manipulative man for emotional and material support. The opening lines, "Kill that drama, well I got a friend who's a man," suggest that the singer wants to end the drama in her life, and her only source of support is this man.


Throughout the song, the singer questions and is questioned about her relationship with this man. The repetition of the question "Who's a man? What man?" highlights her uncertainty and the lack of stability in the relationship. The man in question seems to satisfy her needs, but not without a cost. The lyrics, "Anything I want he gives it to me, but not for free," suggests that she receives what she desires from him, but there are underlying conditions and a sense of obligation.


The chorus emphasizes the ambivalence the singer feels towards this dynamic. She describes it as "hateful," acknowledging the toxicity and manipulation, while also expressing gratitude for what she receives. It's a conflicting sentiment, as she is both aware of the negative aspects and appreciative of the benefits.


In the latter part of the song, the singer mentions losing friends and her memory, which could imply the toll this relationship has taken on her personal life. Despite the sacrifices, she still prioritizes the connection with this man, which is made clear by the repeated refrain, "It's not for you... it's for me."


Overall, "Hateful" explores the complex emotions involved in a relationship where one person relies on another for fulfillment but realizes the damaging nature of that reliance.


Line by Line Meaning

Kill that drama
Put an end to the unnecessary conflicts and disagreements


Well I got a friend who's a man
I have a powerful and influential ally


Who's a man? What man?
Who is this man? What is his significance?


The man who keeps me from the lovely lovely
He protects me from the temptations and distractions of a luxurious lifestyle


He gives me what I need
He provides me with the essential things I require


What you need? What you got?
What are your specific needs? What possessions do you currently have?


I need it all so badly
I desperately desire everything


Oh anything I want he gives it to me
Whatever I desire, he grants it to me


Anything I want he gives it but not for free
Although he provides everything I want, it comes at a cost


It's hateful it's hateful
This situation is unpleasant and distressing


And it's paid for and I'm so grateful to be nowhere
I am appreciative of the fact that I am not trapped in this undesirable situation


This year I've lost some friends
During this year, I have experienced the loss of some companions


Some friends? What friends?
Who are these friends? I failed to even notice their absence


I dunno, I ain't even noticed
I am unaware because I did not pay attention to their departure


You see, I gotta go out again
You understand, I must venture outside once more


Again? My friend
Once more? Are you serious, my friend?


I gotta go see that mainman
I need to visit the influential person I mentioned earlier


Oh, anything I want he gives it to me
Once again, whatever I desire, he grants it to me


Anything I want he gives it, but not for free
However, these gifts come with a price attached


It's hateful, It's hateful
This situation is detestable and distressing


And it's paid for and I'm so grateful to be nowhere
Although the cost is significant, I am thankful to not be stuck in a worse situation


I killed all my nerves
I numbed my emotions and sensations


My nerves? What swerves?
What happened to my ability to respond and react?


And I can't drive so steady
I am unable to maintain a stable and controlled path


Oh, I've lost my memory
I have suffered from the loss of my recollections


My mind? Behind!
My thoughts and rationality are lagging behind, not functioning properly


I can't see so clearly
My vision and understanding have become blurry and unclear


Not for free
There is always a cost associated with obtaining what I desire


Its not for you...its for me
These gifts are not intended for others; they are meant solely for my benefit




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS

Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found
Comments from YouTube:

yamammiwammi

i dont get why people think covers have to be "better" than the originals. they arent supposed to and usually never are. its just that band's "style" of playing it, they arent trying to 1-up it. I love this cover.

Gabriel Valdetaro I Vim Pra China

i love The Clash and No Doubt.. and this cover is awesome!

Daniel Mchenry

No Doubt are very good at covers.

mataformigues2

If this song was No Doubt's original, I'm sure there wouldn't be so many assholes criticising and saying how much it sucks, nor even having a reason to say it. Covers are covers; if you don't like them, don't listen to them nor, specially, bother fans with your needless slights which no one care about.

Ohterwise, amazing cover! Even though I really couldn't imagine what in the world the lyrics meant until I heard the original performers playing it; then for some unknown reason the truth lit me as a revelation. AHAHA

max Vicious

no doubt and billy idol = awesome

Susan Connolly

When Strummer wrote this, he based it loosely on the enable/dependent relationship between Sid Vicious and Malcom Mclaren / heroin dealers

Rachel Robinson

That’s interesting! I have to pass that on to my friend who loves The Pistols

TheTwotonic

likes been said already, i think they were just havin' fun with a favorite of theirs. obviously they'd be different - this was their take on one of my clash faves. one thumb raised for the effort, as it doesn't do it for me like the original.

Kyle Adamson

I'm gonna have to disagree here. I did hear this version before i heard the original and it did make me want to hear the original

Héber Bensi

This cover is ok.....this is in a great album tribute to The Clash...there are good bands like Silverchair and Might Might Bosstones singing in this abum too

More Comments

More Versions