Selfish
Ojerime Lyrics


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I don’t wanna be down
I don’t like being out
I don't fight I spark up
When I don’t feel the vibe
Got Clyde by my side
But now it’s more Jekyll and Hyde
I don’t wanna feel uptight
Picture me rollin’
I’m in so deep
Riding 4U while you ain’t ridin’ 4Me
Everything I did it revolved around you
Ooo but did you ever think of me
Did you ever think of me
Did you ever think of me




Did you ever think of me
Did you ever ever

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of Ojerime's "Selfish" immediately set the tone for the song as she expresses her discomfort of not feeling included in something. She doesn't enjoy being alone, but at the same time, she doesn't fight for her inclusion or attention. She prefers to "spark up" to cope with the feeling of being left out. She may be referencing lighting a joint, which makes sense given that the next line mentions her friend Clyde, who may be someone she usually smokes with. However, it seems like their bond has changed, and their relationship has become more complicated, as indicated by the reference to the literary characters Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.


The chorus of the song is where her emotions truly come to the surface. Ojerime is in deep, emotionally invested in someone who doesn't seem to reciprocate her feelings. She's willing to ride for this person but wonders if they'd do the same for her. The haunting repetition of "Did you ever think of me" illustrates her longing for validation and affection. She's finally expressing how she feels even though the other person may not be aware of it. The use of repetition throughout the song emphasizes her emotional state and conveys the feeling of desperation she's experiencing.


Overall, "Selfish" by Ojerime is a vulnerable and emotional song that speaks to the uncertainty that comes with relationships. Ojerime's lyrics demonstrate her deep-seated longing for validation and recognition, and her hesitancy to fight for it. She's conveying the difficulty of navigating relationships when feelings aren't reciprocated and how it can lead to loneliness and confusion.


Line by Line Meaning

I don’t wanna be down
I don't want to be sad or depressed


I don’t like being out
I don't like feeling left out or excluded


I don't fight I spark up
I don't like confrontations, I prefer to resolve the issue by sparking up a joint


When I don’t feel the vibe
When the atmosphere or energy around me isn't positive or comfortable, I feel unhappy


Got Clyde by my side
I have a loyal friend or partner who is always with me


But now it’s more Jekyll and Hyde
Our relationship has changed for the worse, it's become unpredictable and unstable like the characters Jekyll and Hyde


I don’t wanna feel uptight
I don't want to feel anxious or stressed


Picture me rollin’
Imagine me driving around, enjoying life


I’m in so deep
I'm emotionally invested or involved in this relationship


Riding 4U while you ain’t ridin’ 4Me
I support and care for you, but you're not reciprocating the same level of love and attention for me


Everything I did it revolved around you
I based my decisions and actions around you and your needs


Ooo but did you ever think of me
Did you ever consider my thoughts, feelings, and desires in this relationship?


Did you ever think of me
Did you ever take me into consideration or acknowledge my contributions to this relationship?


Did you ever think of me
Did you ever show me the same level of care and attention that I showed you?


Did you ever think of me
Did you ever realize how your actions or decisions affected me, or did you only focus on yourself?


Did you ever ever
Did you ever really care about me?




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Written by: Ojerime Smith

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