The Early Days
Old Man Luedecke Lyrics


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I was standin' out at Stanfield, had to go away
Saw a brand new baby and the mother's face
I knew that it was over, all those early days
Our babies are not babies, we'll never be the same

Shopping cart full of toddlers at the Superstore
They were eatin' Goldfish, askin' for more
An old man lined up behind us, and he shis head
The kids were strangely quiet
I heard him when he said

You've got to hold on, it goes so fast
These early days, well, they don't last
Got to enjoy them, they go so fast
The baby days, well, they don't last

Look forward to the evenin' when the monkeys go to bed
Then we talk all night about 'em, we feel half dead
We used to be too tired to eat in but it's a total crap shoot to eat out

You've got to hold on, it goes so fast
These early days, well, they don't last
Got to enjoy them, they go so fast
The baby days, well, they don't last

Oh you're gettin' rid of diapers that you washed every night
And we're saving up for date night so we can have our fight
If its quiet for a moment, oh you better run upstairs!
‘Cause the toothpaste in the bathroom is redefining everywhere

You've got to hold on, it goes so fast
These early days, well, they don't last
Got to enjoy them, they go so fast
The baby days, well, they don't last

Oh, I like the way you talk now, you talk like me
All the funny things you're saying, you're real good company
Oh, the odds are strong and crazy, and our love profound
you make our messy house feel like holy ground

You've got to hold on, it goes so fast
These early days, well, they don't last
Got to enjoy them, they go so fast
The baby days, well, they don't last

Shopping cart full of toddlers at the superstore
They were eatin' goldfish asking for more
An old man lined up behind us, and he shis head




The kids were strangely quiet
I heard him when he said….

Overall Meaning

The song “The Early Days” by Old Man Luedecke is a touching and emotional ballad about the bittersweet nature of early parenthood. The lyrics describe the fleeting moments of babyhood and the transformative process of watching children grow up, all while providing a universal message to hold onto the present moment, which will inevitably pass too soon.


The first verse describes the moment when the singer realizes that his child is no longer a baby, and he will never be able to return to those early days. The scene with the shopping cart of toddlers and the old man’s quiet admonition to enjoy the present moment is another reminder of the fact that time is fleeting. The second verse wistfully describes the exhaustion of early parenthood, and how even the act of eating out can be a gamble. The chorus ties these themes together, emphasizing the need to cherish the present, and the closing lyrics underscore the joy and love found within this messy and beautiful stage of life.


Overall, “The Early Days” captures the momentousness and poignancy of watching children grow up, with a sweet and melancholy melody that lingers long after the song has ended.


Line by Line Meaning

I was standin' out at Stanfield, had to go away
I was in a place called Stanfield, but I had to leave.


Saw a brand new baby and the mother's face
I saw a newly born baby with the mother's rejoicing face.


I knew that it was over, all those early days
I realized that the early days of parenthood were over, and things had changed forever.


Our babies are not babies, we'll never be the same
Our babies have grown up, and nothing is the same anymore, as we have entered a new phase of life.


Shopping cart full of toddlers at the Superstore
We were at a store with our young children, and the cart was full of them.


They were eatin' Goldfish, askin' for more
The children were eating Goldfish crackers and demanding more.


An old man lined up behind us, and he shis head
An elderly gentleman lined up behind us and shook his head in disapproval at our children.


The kids were strangely quiet
The children became unexpectedly quiet.


I heard him when he said
I overheard what he said and listened carefully.


You've got to hold on, it goes so fast
It is essential to hold onto these moments as they slip away too quickly.


These early days, well, they don't last
The early days of parenthood do not linger for long, but they do leave their everlasting imprints.


Got to enjoy them, they go so fast
One must relish and bask in the good moments, as they fly by in a flash.


The baby days, well, they don't last
The glorious baby days are ephemeral and short-lived.


Look forward to the evenin' when the monkeys go to bed
We look forward to the evening when our children go to bed to have some quiet time.


Then we talk all night about 'em, we feel half dead
We discuss our children and their activities endlessly, draining half our energy.


We used to be too tired to eat in but it's a total crap shoot to eat out
We were too exhausted to cook before, but now, eating out is a gamble with children.


Oh you're gettin' rid of diapers that you washed every night
We are getting rid of the diapers that we used to wash every night.


And we're saving up for date night so we can have our fight
We are saving money for a date night so we can argue away from the kids and have some peace.


If it's quiet for a moment, oh you better run upstairs!
If there is a moment of silence, it is an alarm to rush to check your children.


‘Cause the toothpaste in the bathroom is redefining everywhere
The toothpaste in the bathroom has left its mark everywhere, and it is impossible to get rid of.


Oh, I like the way you talk now, you talk like me
I like the way my child talks now, as they sound like me.


All the funny things you're saying, you're real good company
The funny things my child says make them a great companion.


Oh, the odds are strong and crazy, and our love profound
The odds of parenthood are insane, but our love for our children is deep and meaningful.


You make our messy house feel like holy ground
Our messy house becomes a sacred place with the laughter and love of our children.




Writer(s): old man luedecke

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@coffeegrace4490

This song came on the radio, when my father was driving home from work. He is a mans man, meat and potatoes kind of guy who has worked his whole life. It made him cry.

@russellhaley6901

+Coffee Grace I've got little kids right now. This damn song makes me cry every time I hear it! I've never been accused of being a wuss either...

@karimkassam6874

​@@russellhaley6901 A man becomes a father when he cries for his kids.

@reneelalala7690

@@russellhaley6901 I cant get through it without crying. Even on the 10,000 time through.

@johntobin2819

If you think this hits home when your child is young wait till they adults and or parents themselves. Time sure flies when you have kids

@lothropstoddard8691

John Tobin
It's brutal, for sure.

@tonybenn1000

I Remember that 2am. feeding and changing, did not like it much at the time. I am in my 70s now, and i realize how lucky i was. I Have 3 beautiful healthy children today in their 3os. I Haven't won the lottery yet, but then, maybe i have,

@Slumpen

But in a way, you have. :)

@ojibwayne2896

Well said!

@kirstennielsen4697

heard this on CBC driving home from errands, baby finally asleep in the back and mommy and daddy a little sleep deprived. Well tears rolled down both our cheeks. Thanks for writing an honest, straight and simple and even funny song about parent life.

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