Not Gonna Be The One
Olivia Newton-John Lyrics


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Here we are in a room full of broken hearts
Lovers once, but in the end, we never really had a chance
You wanted to be free, now that you're lonely, you want me back again

But I'm not gonna be the one that you call
Not gonna take the fall, for all your indecision
Not gonna put my back to the wall
Not gonna take the fall, for all the pain you've given

Me and you, we were a dream that never could come true
In time you'll see, that our love was never really meant to be
And if you discover, you need a lover, someone to break your fall

But I'm not gonna be the one that you call
Not gonna take the fall, for all your indecision
Not gonna put my back to the wall
Not gonna take the fall, for all the pain you've given

You wanted to be free, now that you're lonely, you want me at your arm

But I'm not gonna be the one that you call
Not gonna take the fall, for all your indecision




Not gonna put my back to the wall
Not gonna take the fall, for all the pain you've given

Overall Meaning

In "Not Gonna Be The One," Olivia Newton-John sings about a former lover who wants to come back into her life after leaving her to be free. They had once been lovers, but their relationship never had a chance to thrive. Olivia doesn't want to be the person her former lover calls when they are lonely, nor does she want to take the fall for all the indecisions that led to their separation. The song is about standing ground and refusing to be a victim of someone else's actions.


Olivia's strong voice and the driving beat of the drums are the driving force behind this powerful message. The lyrics are straightforward, but the emotion behind them is evident in every word. It's an anthem for anyone who has been hurt by someone they once loved and refused to be a victim of their past.


Line by Line Meaning

Here we are in a room full of broken hearts
We're in a place with people who have had their hearts broken, including ours.


Lovers once, but in the end, we never really had a chance
We used to be in a romantic relationship, but ultimately it was doomed to fail.


You wanted to be free, now that you're lonely, you want me back again
You chose to leave the relationship to be free, but now that you're lonely, you want me back.


But I'm not gonna be the one that you call
I'm not going to be your first choice or the person you rely on.


Not gonna take the fall, for all your indecision
I won't be held responsible for any negative consequences of your uncertainty or hesitation.


Not gonna put my back to the wall
I am not going to let myself be in a vulnerable or defenseless position.


Not gonna take the fall, for all the pain you've given
I refuse to suffer the consequences for any hurt or harm you may have caused me.


Me and you, we were a dream that never could come true
We had a vision of a wonderful future together, but it's always been unrealistic.


In time you'll see, that our love was never really meant to be
Eventually you'll realize that our love was never inevitable or fated.


And if you discover, you need a lover, someone to break your fall
If you ever find yourself in need of a partner who can help you, catch you, or support you.


But I'm not gonna be the one that you call
I won't be your first choice or the person you rely on.


You wanted to be free, now that you're lonely, you want me at your arm
You chose to leave the relationship to be free, but now that you're lonely, you want me back at your side.


But I'm not gonna be the one that you call
I'm not going to be your first choice or the person you rely on.


Not gonna take the fall, for all your indecision
I won't be held responsible for any negative consequences of your uncertainty or hesitation.


Not gonna put my back to the wall
I am not going to let myself be in a vulnerable or defenseless position.


Not gonna take the fall, for all the pain you've given
I refuse to suffer the consequences for any hurt or harm you may have caused me.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: SETH SWIRSKY, SETH A SWIRSKY

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Jarma

It's funny. It's definitely 90s, but the John Farrarness of it is UNMISTAKEABLE.
I can hear heart attack, tied up, and physical. Even I paralyze. I can hear the John Farrar in this.
The way she executes the chorus. The way the verses are a little... Unconventional, then a melodic prechorus.
So Farrar.
I know he didn't write it but you can hear his influence all over it.
I thought this one was way better than the other two.
I want to be wanted is given such a hopelessly devoted tint....it's really the strongest one, even if it's a little bit of a simp anthem.
But deeper than a river is just ...eeghad
For a Diane Warren song it's just dreadful.
Olivia's voice is beautiful but that electric piano is just so ...bleh.
I like ALittleMoreLove. Olivia needs an edge sometimes.
With Disco, MakeAMoveOnMe is my favorite.
But I always felt the new tracks on this album were unimpressive.
Really didn't like deeperthansriver.
IWantToBeWanted is great but it conjures images of Meg Ryan in New York lol
I need love is just ...
Eh
If you have a spoken word part where it's all about attitude, you can't really be saying something so wholesome. It's not a great song. It's okay.
I could drop 1&4 and put MakeaMoveOnMe and Xanadu on this.
This and IWantToBeWanted could be the singles.



All comments from YouTube:

HenryMurphy Chronicles

One of the best best songs Olivia has ever recorded! This is soooo underrated!

James Warner

Totally agree! One of her best!!

joeljack1

Should have been released as a single. One of her best. I remember a review telling Wilson Phillips to take notes. This was how harmonies were done.

Ty

I remember first hearing this song and fell in love with it. It struck me as classic Olivia going back to her roots that made her a star.

Rich O Hanna

The reprise at the end of the song with the strings is a total goose bump moment. Olivia's BV's are sublime. The Bee Gees had become unfashionable at this point (always a result of Uber Fame) so that didn't help the success of the song. Also Olivia had more important things to think about than promote her music . Still all these years later it sounds like a hit song.

Steven Anda

my thoughts exactly

Grant Walters

The Bee Gees had absolutely nothing to do with this song, so
I’m not sure why their fashionability had any bearing on its success…

James Warner

Yes total goosebumps! I have always wished the ending would go on longer. Fantastic song!

James Warner

I think he just means that it sounds like The Bee Gees. By this time their sound was considered not current. Not that it isn’t great though.

Steven Anda

Massively underrated song.

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