And So It Goes
On the Rocks Lyrics


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In every heart there is a room
A sanctuary safe and strong
To heal the wounds from lovers past
Until a new one comes along

I spoke to you in cautious tones
You answered me with no pretense
And still I feel I said too much
My silence is my self defense

And every time I've held a rose
It seems I only felt the thorns
And so it goes, and so it goes
And so will you soon I suppose

But if my silence made you leave
Then that would be my worst mistake
So I will share this room with you
And you can have this heart to break

And this is why my eyes are closed
It's just as well for all I've seen
And so it goes, and so it goes
And you're the only one who knows

So I would choose to be with you
That's if the choice were mine to make
But you can make decisions too
And you can have this heart to break





And so it goes, and so it goes
And you're the only one who knows

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to On the Rocks's song And So It Goes are about the fear of being hurt in love, and the struggle between wanting to open up to someone and the instinct to protect oneself. The first verse reflects the idea of everyone having a "sanctuary safe and strong" where they can heal from past relationships until a new one comes along. The second verse focuses on the fear of saying too much and being vulnerable, and therefore uses silence as a "self defense." The third verse shows the acceptance that holding back would be a mistake, and therefore they will share their heart with this person, even if it means being hurt again. Finally, the chorus repeats the idea that this is just how love goes, and only the person they are opening up to truly knows what they are feeling.


Line by Line Meaning

In every heart there is a room
Each person has a personal, private space within them.


A sanctuary safe and strong
This space is a safe haven where they can recuperate and heal from heartbreak and other pains.


To heal the wounds from lovers past
It's where one goes to recover from the traumas and hurts of past relationships.


Until a new one comes along
It's only when they're ready to move on that they open themselves up to new love.


I spoke to you in cautious tones
I approached you cautiously and with care.


You answered me with no pretense
You responded honestly, without any hidden agendas.


And still I feel I said too much
Even though I was careful, I think I may have revealed too much of myself.


My silence is my self defense
I'm reluctant to speak further because I feel it may put me in a vulnerable position.


And every time I've held a rose
Whenever I've opened myself up to love, it's ended in pain.


It seems I only felt the thorns
The negative aspects of love are what stand out and linger in my memory.


And so it goes, and so it goes
This is the pattern I've come to expect in love-related situations.


And so will you soon I suppose
I'm afraid the same cycle will repeat itself with you.


But if my silence made you leave
If my hesitation caused you to lose interest and leave,


Then that would be my worst mistake
I would regret having let my fears ruin a potentially good relationship.


So I will share this room with you
I'm willing to let you in and share that private space with you.


And you can have this heart to break
If things don't work out, you will be the one to hurt me.


And this is why my eyes are closed
I'm guarded and closed off because I'm trying to protect myself from getting hurt.


It's just as well for all I've seen
In my experience, love has led more to pain than to happiness.


And you're the only one who knows
I'm sharing this with you so that you're aware of where I'm coming from.


So I would choose to be with you
If given the choice, I would want to be with you.


That's if the choice were mine to make
The decision is ultimately not mine, however; it's up to both of us.


But you can make decisions too
You have agency in this as well.


And you can have this heart to break
Even though I'm guarded, I'm willing to be vulnerable and give you a chance to hurt me if it comes to that.


And so it goes, and so it goes
This is how love often plays out.


And you're the only one who knows
I'm letting you in on my fears and apprehensions so that you can better understand me and our situation.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BILLY JOEL

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@Lanynhams

This voice is so amazing!!!

@shartbutter

The end of a legacy of legends, and an amazing end at that. No idea where you guys are now but I wish you all the best.

@mixingmadesimple

Im the soloist. Thank you :).

@shartbutter

@@mixingmadesimple no problem brother, you have great talent and you deserve recognition <3

@jvandystadt

This is absolutely beautiful, the soloist voice is mesmerizing. Come down to Brazil guys, really. There`s a lot of acappella activity going on down here, specially here in Rio.

@arturojoe1

The best on the rocks generation!

@music_works

+Arturo Ruiz amen

@supernerdization

I LOVE THIS SOLOIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@isasmakeup

Incredible!!!!

@Megan12music

I think this is an awesome version! I can tell the soloist is really connected to the song, and I think ya'll are amazing! :)

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