I Betray My Friends
Orchestral Manoeuvres in the Dark Lyrics


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Now it's the way, all the time
Life's not fair, it's just melted away
Sorrow to hell, all the time
Choose death
And this song is dead
How do they stand to be with you?

Just, just, just the way
Just the way, just the way to be
Just the way, just the way you treat me all the time
Just the way, just the way all the time

You've never seen me
You've never hoped, too fair to say
You just can't explain yourself




You can't explain yourself
I can't explain this pain

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Orchestral Manoeuvres in the Dark's "I Betray My Friends" explore themes of betrayal, unfairness, sorrow, and death. The opening lines, "Now it's the way, all the time/Life's not fair, it's just melted away," express a sense of hopelessness and resignation to the difficulties of life. The chorus repeats the phrase "just the way" four times, with slight variations each time, suggesting that the singer is trapped in a cycle of mistreatment and unable to break free.


The final lines, "You've never seen me/You've never hoped, too fair to say/You just can't explain yourself/You can't explain yourself/I can't explain this pain," suggest that the singer feels unseen and misunderstood by someone who has betrayed them. The repetition of "you can't explain yourself" underscores the frustration and incomprehension of the singer, who cannot understand why someone they trusted would hurt them. The final line, "I can't explain this pain," is a powerful expression of the singer's emotional turmoil and highlights the deep hurt and confusion caused by betrayal.


Overall, "I Betray My Friends" is a haunting meditation on the pain of betrayal and the difficulty of understanding why someone would turn against you. The lyrics are simple, yet powerful, and the repeating chorus emphasizes the sense of stuckness and repetition that the singer feels in their situation.


Line by Line Meaning

Now it's the way, all the time
Things have changed permanently and we are stuck in this new reality


Life's not fair, it's just melted away
Life is tough and it's slipping away from us


Sorrow to hell, all the time
We are constantly experiencing misery and pain


Choose death
Death seems like a better option to escape the pain


And this song is dead
The music and emotions have faded away


How do they stand to be with you?
I can't understand why anyone would want to be close to you


Just, just, just the way
Exactly, precisely, and undeniably the manner in which


Just the way, just the way to be
This is the expected way to behave or act


Just the way, just the way you treat me all the time
This is how you consistently treat me


Just the way, just the way all the time
This is how it always is


You've never seen me
You don't know me at all


You've never hoped, too fair to say
You don't have any expectations, so you can't be disappointed


You just can't explain yourself
You are unable to clarify or justify your actions


You can't explain yourself
You are unable to clarify or justify your actions


I can't explain this pain
I am unable to articulate the depth of agony I feel




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Written by: PAUL DAVID HUMPHREYS, ANDREW MC CLUSKEY

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