How Do You Sleep?
Orianthi Lyrics


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Boy, you tried to make a mess of me
Tear me down and make me believe
Thank God, I didn't fall too deep
Why'd you try to make a mess of me
There was something 'bout the things you said
Just to try to get into my head
Go lie in that empty bed
Boy, you know now just what you did

So tell me why are you trying so hard
Whoa, just to break my heart
Kept on pulling me in
Thought I would give in
So tell me before I leave (tell me)
How do you sleep

Wish I could erase you from my mind
Take away the pain I feel inside
Like a fool, you didn't bring a light
Boy, you know I saw right through your lies
I'm gonna throw all those things away
You gave to me to make me wanna stay
I heard you never, never cared anyway
Don't think that I'll be coming back someday

So tell me why are you trying so hard
Whoa, just to break my heart
Kept on pulling me in
Thought I would give in
So tell me before I leave (tell me)
How do you sleep

Ooh, yeah, yeah

So tell me why are you trying so hard
Whoa, just to break my heart
Kept on pulling me in
Thought I would give in
So tell me before I leave (tell me)
How do you sleep

Sleep
How do you sleep
Sleep
Sleep




Sleep
How do you sleep

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Orianthi's "How Do You Sleep?" are about a relationship that is toxic and emotionally damaging. The singer of the song, presumably Orianthi herself or a character she is portraying, is reflecting on a past relationship with someone who tried to manipulate and control her. The song starts with the singer accusing the former partner of trying to mess with her and bring her down. The singer, however, is grateful that she did not fall too deeply into the trap of the other person's manipulation.


The chorus is a plea to the former lover, asking why they tried so hard to break the singer's heart. The other person is characterized as someone who was constantly trying to pull the singer back into the relationship, despite their manipulative behavior. The singer has decided to leave this toxic relationship behind, but not before asking the other person how they can sleep at night, given all the hurt they have caused.


Overall, "How Do You Sleep?" is a song about standing up to someone who has hurt you and, ultimately, finding the strength to move on.


Line by Line Meaning

Boy, you tried to make a mess of me
You attempted to ruin me


Tear me down and make me believe
You broke me down and manipulated me


Thank God, I didn't fall too deep
I'm grateful I didn't get in too deep


Why'd you try to make a mess of me
What was your reason for trying to ruin me?


There was something 'bout the things you said
Your words had an effect on me


Just to try to get into my head
You spoke to manipulate my thoughts


Go lie in that empty bed
You deserve to be alone in your bed


Boy, you know now just what you did
You're aware of the harm you caused


So tell me why are you trying so hard
Why are you putting so much effort into hurting me?


Whoa, just to break my heart
You're trying to hurt me emotionally


Kept on pulling me in
You repeatedly reeled me in


Thought I would give in
You assumed I would cave in to your demands


So tell me before I leave (tell me)
Let me know before I go


How do you sleep
How do you rest with the guilt?


Wish I could erase you from my mind
I desire to forget about you


Take away the pain I feel inside
I want to eliminate the emotional pain you caused me


Like a fool, you didn't bring a light
You failed to bring clarity to the situation


Boy, you know I saw right through your lies
I caught on to your deception


I'm gonna throw all those things away
I will get rid of everything you gave me


You gave to me to make me wanna stay
You used gifts as a way to keep me around


I heard you never, never cared anyway
I found out you were never invested in me


Don't think that I'll be coming back someday
I won't be returning to you


Sleep
Rest with the awareness of what you did


How do you sleep
How do you rest with the knowledge of your actions?




Lyrics © WORDS & MUSIC A DIV OF BIG DEAL MUSIC LLC
Written by: DAVE STEWART, ORIANTHI PANAGARIS

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Толя Киевський

Восхитительно! Потрясающе! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🎸🎶🔥💥

mastershredder78

She's such an amazing musician. So much heart and feeling in her guitar playing and vocals. She's the perfect combination of Soul and Shred!

Melanie Coleman

mastershredder78 BIGtime!!

Bianca Dal Santo

Agreed!!

Warren Lambert

Orianthi is awesome on any song she plays and she has awesome guitar skills! I love watching her play because she puts 100% of her feelings and emotions into anything she plays! She most definitely one of the Best musicians on the planet and she's so easy on the eyes... absolutely beautiful! To sum Orianthi up in a single word... "AWESOMENESS"!

kaye mclaren

Absolutely love the tone and tune of the guitar on this. I prefer this to her shredding it. Her voice really stands out here too. My fave of her original tracks.

kornfreak78

Orianthi is truly amazing!  Beautiful, Great voice, and one hell of a guitar player!  A real talent!

Melanie Coleman

kornfreak78 Amen on that!

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Everett Cox

As someone who went to his funeral in Dallas, and whose granddaughter is named for him, you are absolutely right.

Joe Robbins

Excellent well written and played 🥰

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