Is It Safe?
Our Lady Peace Lyrics


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Time can't fix it fast enough, so we won't
Notice what it was that went wrong, went wrong
I saw something there much too familiar
A butterfly with a broken wing

She's fallen under, she's past the end
Communication is down and down and down
The scars have healed but they're back again
We've got to believe this man must bend

'Cause if you could you'd try and destroy her
And there we'd be with nothing at all

Is it safe to be a man
When you're tired and lonely?
Only the confident know where to stand
Is it safe to be a man
When the world is loaded?
Thousands can't figure out just what they did
Just what they did

Time can't fix it fast enough, so we won't
Measure just how far below, below
You kept on pushing her
You'll have to pay back all of the years that you stole

She's walking backwards, she's spun around
Her ears are ringing loud and loud and loud
She's on her knees, please understand
It's obvious this man, he must bend

'cause if you could you'd try and destroy her
And there we'd be with nothing at all

Is it safe to be a man
When you're tired and lonely?
Only the confident know where to stand
Is it safe to be a man
When the world is loaded?
Thousands can't figure out just what they did
Just what they, just what they did

Is it safe to be a man
When you're tired and lonely?
Only the confident know where to stand
Is it safe to be a man
When the world is loaded?
Thousands can't figure out just what they did

Is it safe to be a man
When you're tired and lonely?
Only the confident know where to stand
Is it safe to be a man
When the world is loaded?
Ten thousand figure out just what they did

Is it safe for my soul?
Is it safe for my soul?
Is it safe for my soul?
Is it safe for my soul?
Is it safe for my soul?




Is it safe for my soul?
Is it safe for my soul?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of “Is It Safe?” by Our Lady Peace reflect on the issue of domestic abuse and its impact on victims. The song describes how time cannot heal the wounds inflicted by abuse and how the scars keep reappearing. The lyrics also suggest that the abuser will have to pay for all the years they stole from their victim. The metaphor of a butterfly with a broken wing represents the fragility of victims of abuse.


The chorus questions whether it is safe to be a man, especially when feeling tired and lonely. It suggests that only those who are confident enough to know where to stand can feel safe. The song addresses the issue of accountability, stating that thousands cannot figure out what they did wrong, implying that it is difficult for people to take responsibility for their actions. In the end, the lyrics ask if it is safe for the soul to stay in an abusive relationship.


Overall, the lyrics of “Is It Safe?” highlight the issue of domestic abuse and the impact it has on victims. It also reflects on the need for accountability and self-reflection to prevent such abuse from happening again.


Line by Line Meaning

Time can't fix it fast enough, so we won't
We know time won't heal the damage that has been done and we won't even try.


Notice what it was that went wrong, went wrong
We failed to realize what caused the problem in the first place.


I saw something there much too familiar
I recognized something very familiar in the situation.


A butterfly with a broken wing
The situation was like a butterfly that couldn't fly because its wings were damaged.


She's fallen under, she's past the end
She's overwhelmed and has reached the point of no return.


Communication is down and down and down
Communication has deteriorated significantly and continues to worsen.


The scars have healed but they're back again
The wounds have mostly healed, but they have been reopened and are painful again.


We've got to believe this man must bend
We need to acknowledge that the responsible party needs to change and make amends.


'cause if you could you'd try and destroy her
If given the chance, you would harm her and we would have nothing left.


And there we'd be with nothing at all
If we allow her to be destroyed, we would have nothing left.


Is it safe to be a man When you're tired and lonely?
Being a man facing fatigue and loneliness is not easy, and it may not feel safe to confront and handle problems properly.


Only the confident know where to stand
Only those who are self-assured know how to handle these situations correctly.


Thousands can't figure out just what they did
Countless people struggle to understand their mistakes and what led to the current situation.


Measure just how far below, below
Recognize how far the situation has fallen and how much needs to be done to improve it.


You kept on pushing her
You kept pressuring her, causing her to feel overwhelmed and helpless.


You'll have to pay back all of the years that you stole
The responsible party will have to make restitution for all the time and opportunities they took away through their harmful actions.


She's walking backwards, she's spun around
She feels like she's moving backward and has been turned around by the situation.


Her ears are ringing loud and loud and loud
She is under extreme stress and feels a constant, deafening noise in her mind.


She's on her knees, please understand
She is now completely vulnerable and needs her plight to be recognized and acknowledged.


It's obvious this man, he must bend
It is clear that the responsible party needs to change their ways and make amends.


Ten thousand figure out just what they did
Countless people have come to realize what they did wrong and how they contributed to the current situation.


Is it safe for my soul?
Is it safe for me to confront these issues and seek a resolution that aligns with my values and principles?




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: EACRETT, LANNI, MAIDA, TURNER

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Comments from YouTube:

@patrickgrondines6751

love this song

@jonathanboulay1989

Listening to this song through a cancel culture lens all I can ask is "raine maida what did you do?"

@BigSplenda1885

It really has garnered all new meaning in 2022....man the 90s were an innocent time

@patrickgrondines8240

2:27 sounds like he's screaming help

@BigSplenda1885

That's Raines old voice for ya...so fun

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