Advice
Paradise Fears Lyrics


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I'm taking advice on love and how to make it
And I'm trying not to break it
Before it even starts
My favorite distraction
She's making failure fashion
The cameras roll, we lose control
Of where tonight will end
We trade our confidences
And lower our defenses
But in the final scene
I leave the screen to leave me wondering
Why do I get so bored,
Why can't I just find a love that's worth the wait
Instead of wasting time
With every line rehearsed and every smile so fake
And in the end I leave much more than I take
And now I see that we can never be
I was breaking hearts and you were dashing dreams
Now I learned one thing:
That we don't believe the promises we keep (the promises we keep)
Here's what sins are made of
She cannot be persuaded
I missed her heart a million times
And God knows I have tried
To shoot her with an arrow
Of Cupid's own design
The problem is I always miss and hit a passerby
Why do I get so bored,
Why can't I just find a love that's worth the wait
Instead of wasting time
With every line rehearsed and every smile so fake
And in the end I leave much more than I take
And now I see that we can never be
I was breaking hearts and you were dashing dreams
Now I learned one thing:
That we don't believe the promises we keep
She's so alone
She's so alone
It's taking everything in me to leave
It's taking everything in me just to say your name
It's a constant reminder to me
That I will never be whole again
I'm taking advice on love and how to make it (make it)
And I'm trying not to break it (break it)
Before it even starts
Why do I get so bored,
Why can't I just find a love that's worth the wait
Instead of wasting time
With every line rehearsed and every smile so fake
And in the end I leave much more than I take
And now I see that we can never be
I was breaking hearts and you were dashing dreams




Now I learned one thing:
That we don't believe the promises we keep (the promises we keep)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Paradise Fears's song "Advice" are about the struggles of finding true love and maintaining a relationship. The singer expresses his desire to seek advice on how to make love work, but he fears breaking it before it even starts. He is distracted by a girl who makes "failure fashion," implying that she has a history of failed relationships. They lower their defenses and trade confidences, but eventually, the relationship comes to an end. The singer wonders why he gets so bored and why he cannot find a love that is worth the wait instead of wasting time with fake lines and smiles.


The second verse talks about the singer's attempts to win the girl's heart through various methods, including shooting her with Cupid's arrow. Despite his efforts, he always misses and hits a passerby. The singer acknowledges that the girl is so alone, but leaving her is taking everything in him. He realizes that he needs advice on how to make love work and not break it before it even has a chance to start. In the end, he learns that promises are not always believed, and relationships are not always worth the wait.


Overall, the song's message is about the difficulties of finding and maintaining a fulfilling relationship, the consequences of fake lines and false smiles along the way, and the need for advice that can help us achieve real love.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm taking advice on love and how to make it
I'm seeking out guidance on how to maintain a successful relationship


And I'm trying not to break it
I'm attempting to avoid damaging the relationship before it even begins


Before it even starts
I'm concerned that the relationship may not work out before anything significant has even occurred


My favorite distraction
The girl I'm interested in is the main thing that occupies my thoughts and time


She's making failure fashion
She seems to be embracing and celebrating relationship failures


The cameras roll, we lose control
When we're in the spotlight, we tend to forget ourselves and behave differently


Of where tonight will end
We're unsure of how this night and our relationship will progress


We trade our confidences
We share our personal secrets and stories with one another


And lower our defenses
We allow ourselves to be vulnerable and open with each other


But in the final scene
At the end of it all, when everything is said and done


I leave the screen to leave me wondering
I'm left with unanswered questions and doubts about our relationship


Why do I get so bored,
I'm easily uninterested in and dissatisfied with relationships


Why can't I just find a love that's worth the wait
I'm struggling to find a meaningful and fulfilling relationship that is worth the effort and time invested


Instead of wasting time
Rather than investing time in a false or unsuccessful relationship


With every line rehearsed and every smile so fake
The conversations and emotions shared are insincere and planned out in advance


And in the end I leave much more than I take
I leave behind a trail of disappointed and unhappy partners


And now I see that we can never be
I've come to realize that our relationship is simply not meant to work out


I was breaking hearts and you were dashing dreams
I caused emotional pain and disappointment while she built up a false hope for a successful relationship


Now I learned one thing:
I've gained a valuable lesson


That we don't believe the promises we keep
We often make false promises of love and commitment that we struggle to uphold


She's so alone
She exists in a state of loneliness and isolation


It's taking everything in me to leave
I feel a strong urge to stay despite the knowledge that it's best to go


It's taking everything in me just to say your name
I'm struggling to even vocalize her name because of the emotional attachment and conflict


It's a constant reminder to me
The thought of her is a continuous and painful reminder of a lost opportunity


That I will never be whole again
I feel like a part of me is missing and that the relationship has left an emptiness within me


I'm taking advice on love and how to make it (make it)
I'm willing to listen to and actively pursue guidance to create a lasting and meaningful relationship


And I'm trying not to break it (break it)
I'm making an effort to not let my own flaws or past experiences damage the relationship


Before it even starts
I'm committed to building a solid foundation for a successful relationship from the very beginning




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Comments from YouTube:

Fuzzy MONKEYPanda

AWESOME SONG

Drew Music

I think I really need an ADVICE because I always miss and hit a passerby :D

Greg Wagner

They look so young and freaking adorable in this picture.

Naultyy

0 dislikes.. it better stay that way

Cindi S.

August !3th: my b-day ;) such a great advice for my birthday ;)

Sudo bZ - Leaditor (Comeback?) ♥

6 months later and only one dislike. xD

J T

Optic merk was in this band but because he didnt wanna play the triangle he got kicked out

backsfx

cuss of u there was 1 there was a troll

iMKBH

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