Too Young to Go Steady
Pharoah Sanders Lyrics


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Too young to go steady, too young
I hear him (her) say.
He (she) says I'm (we're) not ready
But then why am I (are we) feeling this way?

Too young so he (she) tells me
He (she) says we'll have to wait.
Why wait till it may be too late?

Can't he (she) realize he (she) drive me wild
Is he (she) made of stone?
Must he (she) always treat me (act just) like a child?

Won't he (she) ever own up
I'm (we're) grown up?
Some day he'll (she'll) be sorry




Some day just wait and see
He'll (she'll) wish he'd (she'd) gone steady with me!

Overall Meaning

The song "Too Young to Go Steady" by Pharoah Sanders is about the frustration of young love. The singer, likely a young woman, is in love with someone who tells her that she is too young and not ready for a serious relationship. However, in her heart, she knows that she is ready and the object of her affection is unable to see that. She wonders if he is made of stone, as he treats her like a child and cannot understand her feelings.


The singer desires to have a deeper connection with the person she loves, but is told that they must wait until they are older. The frustration in the lyrics is palpable, as she wonders why they must wait until it is too late. She believes that the person she loves will someday regret not taking a chance on a serious relationship and will wish that they had "gone steady" with her.


Overall, the song conveys the confusion and heartache of young love, where the two parties may not be on the same page about the intensity and seriousness of their feelings. The singer believes that they are "too young" to be taken seriously, but wishes that they could move past that barrier and be together.


Line by Line Meaning

Too young to go steady, too young
I'm (we're) not mature enough for a serious relationship.


He (she) says I'm (we're) not ready
He (she) thinks we're not prepared for a committed relationship.


But then why am I (are we) feeling this way?
Our emotions are contradicting his (her) statement.


Too young so he (she) tells me
He (she) thinks we're not yet mature.


He (she) says we'll have to wait.
He (she) suggests we delay the relationship.


Why wait till it may be too late?
Why not start a relationship now when we are interested in each other?


Can't he (she) realize he (she) drive me wild
He (she) should know that I (we) am (are) crazy about him (her).


Is he (she) made of stone?
Does he (she) not have any emotions?


Must he (she) always treat me (act just) like a child?
Does he (she) have to patronize me (us) all the time?


Won't he (she) ever own up
Will he (she) ever take responsibility?


I'm (we're) grown up?
I (we) think I (we) am (are) mature enough for a relationship.


Some day he'll (she'll) be sorry
He (she) will regret his (her) decision.


Some day just wait and see
It's only a matter of time before he (she) realizes his (her) mistake.


He'll (she'll) wish he'd (she'd) gone steady with me!
He (she) will regret not starting a committed relationship with me (us).




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Written by: HAROLD ADAMSON, JIMMY MC HUGH

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Comments from YouTube:

Sandile Nyanda

Is it me or did they shortly go from ballad to swing nearing the end of the piano solo?

harvey1954

Tastesful !

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