That's Just the Way It Is
Phil Collins Lyrics


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All day long he was fighting for you
And he didn't even know your name
Young men come and young men go
But life goes on just the same

And I don't know why
Why do we keep holding on
I don't know why
Pretending to be oh so strong
Oh why
Is there something I don't know
Or something very wrong, with you and me
Or maybe

That's the way it is, there's nothing I can do,
That's just the way it is.

They've been waiting for word to come down
They've been waiting for you night and day
They won't wait any longer for you
It may already be too late

And I don't know why.

You see the dying, you feel the pain
What have you got to say
If we agree that we can disagree
We could stop all of this today

It's been your life for as long as you can remember
But you cannot fight no more
You must want to look your son in the eyes
When he asks you what you did it for

'Cos all day long he was fighting for you
And he didn't even know your name
Young men come and young men go
But life goes on just the same





I don't know why...

Overall Meaning

The song "That's Just the Way It Is" by Phil Collins sheds light on the ongoing problem of violence and injustice, emphasizing the timeless nature of these problems. It starts with the singer observing a young man who fights for others despite not knowing their names – this emphasizes how individuals can often suffer or strive without recognition. The chorus of the song expresses the singer's frustration about the way things are and how people tend to hold onto things that are not beneficial to them. The singer expresses confusion about why people tend to hold on to things that do not benefit them, rather than addressing the root cause or taking action to make a change.


The second verse highlights the waiting game people suffer while waiting for things to happen. The singer emphasizes that waiting does not solve problems, and if people continue waiting, the situation can get much worse. The chorus is repeated, emphasizing the powerlessness people feel, unable to do anything to change the situation. The third verse speaks of the tragic consequences of violence – death and pain. The singer urges for people to speak out and act to change things rather than waiting for someone else to take the initiative. The next verse talks about how some people are forced to fight even though they would rather not, and how the burden of fighting can wear people down. The song ends with the chorus, emphasizing the futility of fighting against a system they cannot change.


Line by Line Meaning

All day long he was fighting for you
He fought for you all day without knowing who you are


And he didn't even know your name
He fought for you without even knowing your name


Young men come and young men go
Young men enter and leave our lives


But life goes on just the same
Life continues even after people leave


And I don't know why
I don't understand


Why do we keep holding on
Why do we hold on to things that cause us pain


Pretending to be oh so strong
Faking strength to hide our vulnerability


Oh why
Why


Is there something I don't know
Is there something I am unaware of


Or something very wrong, with you and me
Something is off in our relationship


Or maybe
Perhaps


That's the way it is, there's nothing I can do,
This is how things are and I cannot change it


That's just the way it is.
This is the reality


They've been waiting for word to come down
They have been waiting for news


They've been waiting for you night and day
They've been waiting for you constantly


They won't wait any longer for you
They can't wait anymore


It may already be too late
It might already be too late


You see the dying, you feel the pain
You witness death and feel the agony


What have you got to say
What can you say about it


If we agree that we can disagree
If we acknowledge that we can have different opinions


We could stop all of this today
We can put an end to it today


It's been your life for as long as you can remember
It has been a part of your life for as long as you can recall


But you cannot fight no more
You can't fight anymore


You must want to look your son in the eyes
You want to face your son and tell him the truth


When he asks you what you did it for
When he asks about your actions and motives


'Cos all day long he was fighting for you
He fought for you all day


I don't know why...
I still don't understand why




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: Phil Collins

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@maximegagne5979

Here are the lyrics:
All day long he was fighting for you
And he didn't even know your name
Young men come and young men go
But life goes on just the same
And I don't know why
Why do we keep holding on
I don't know why
Pretending to be oh so strong
Oh why
Is there something I don't know
Or something very wrong, with you and me
Or maybe
That's the way it is, there's nothing I can do,
That's just the way it is.
They've been waiting for word to come down
They've been waiting for you night and day
They won't wait any longer for you
It may already be too late
And I don't know why.
You see the dying, you feel the pain
What have you got to say
If we agree that we can disagree
We could stop all of this today
It's been your life for as long as you can remember
But you cannot fight no more
You must want to look your son in the eyes
When he asks you what you did it for
'Cos all day long he was fighting for you
And he didn't even know your name
Young men come and young men go
But life goes on just the same
I don't know why.



All comments from YouTube:

@wendyimrei2353

So tragic that the world wide human race can’t find peace, acceptance and true respect for each other. Phil Collins portrays it all; so many poignant and meaningful songs, just beautiful

@wendyimrei2353

.that’s just the way it is, unfortunately. As a Disability, Mental Health & Aged Care Worker, just makes me more mindful to care!

@wendyimrei2353

Surely, kindness and compassion isn’t fading into oblivion?

@SoftRockMusic88

Já ouvi muitas vezes, mas é uma versão mágica que não pode faltar Quem ouvir por favor me dê um joinha

@margaridamarquesdonascimen5957

Ouvir o Phil é tudo de bom. Obgd Phil. Suas obras, além de nos emocionarem, nos passam boas informações. 👋👋👋Um abraço.

@gilscorner2813

Most of Phil's songs brings tears to my eyes because ALL of his music comes from the heart, Thanks Phil!

@memorialgardens1664

Hopefully you have stopped crying …me no but I laugh a lot too…. 🤝💕sending good thoughts 🧠🙋‍♂️🇬🇧

@kellydangelo4300

My father is losing his memory. This song reminds me of his struggle.

@memorialgardens1664

@Kelly D'Angelo 🧠💪💕🙏

@rosekuassi798

Me toi😍😍😍😍😍😍this IS true

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