Sexme?sexmenot
Prince Lyrics


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Sex me baby
Sex me not

Sex me baby
Sex me not
Come 2 the afterparty
Let's make it hot
Leave your sister & your underwear at home
Ain't gonna stop until everybody gone

Mmmm
Front row center
With the out-stretched hands
More chill around your wrist
Than the ice-cream man
Speaking of which
U say u like it
U say u like it when I SCREAM
I like it when u do 2
Ooohhhh, uh huh

Looky here now
Looky here now
Ungh
Look at my hips
(look at my hips)
I'm about 2 do something
2 make your backbone slip
Ungh, ungh, ungh
And when I get through
U will be confused
Should u take another pill after morning?
Or play the fool?

Sex me baby
Sex me not
Come 2 the afterparty
(Come on)
Let's make it hot
(hot hot hot)
Leave your sister & your underwear at home
Ain't gonna stop until everybody gone

Come & get happy
When I know u are here
Make you go down in the back of the bus
It's got a big ol' rear
Everybody that came 2 see me dance
Jump back, watch me, I'm about to wet your pants

Chorus

Made a lot of money
Give it all 2 u
(sex me)
If u choose right
U can do what you're supposed 2 do
Fly, black pepper
Grind u, grind u please
Make a brother happy
On your knees
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
(sex me)
Hold me tight
Check the burn
And when the needle drop
The groove u gonna hear
Will never want 2 make u stop ya heard?

Chorus

Everybody
Hot Hot Hot
' Til everybody gone




What ' cha gonna do?
SEX ME BABY SEX ME NOT

Overall Meaning

In "Sexme?sexmenot," Prince juxtaposes the desire for sexual intimacy with the possibility of rejection, playing with the boundary between consent and refusal. The lyrics contrast the desire for physical pleasure ("sex me baby") with the fear of being rejected ("sex me not"). The song has a strong focus on the body, with references to hips and chill bracelets, emphasizing the physicality of the sexual experience. The chorus, "Come to the afterparty/Let's make it hot/Leave your sister & your underwear at home/Ain't gonna stop until everybody gone," reinforces the idea of an all-night gathering where sexual exploration is the main attraction.


Prince's message in "Sexme?sexmenot" is complex, as he both invites and denies sexual advances. He also plays with power dynamics, with lines like "Make a brother happy/On your knees" suggesting a controlling attitude towards his partner. The song challenges traditional sexual roles and expectations, as Prince subverts the idea that men are the main initiators of sexual advances, and instead welcomes women in that role. Ultimately, Prince's lyrics and the song's musical energy celebrate individuality and sensual pleasure, while also being mindful of the importance of respect and consent in sexual encounters.


Line by Line Meaning

Sex me baby
I want you to have sex with me


Sex me not
I don't want you to have sex with me


Come 2 the afterparty
Join me after the party


Let's make it hot
Let's make it exciting and passionate


Leave your sister & your underwear at home
Don't bring your sister or your underwear with you


Ain't gonna stop until everybody gone
I won't stop until everyone else has left


Front row center
The best seat in the house


With the out-stretched hands
Hands out as if reaching for something


More chill around your wrist
Expensive jewelry on your wrist


Than the ice-cream man
More expensive than ice cream


Speaking of which
Changing the subject


U say u like it
You have expressed that you enjoy it


U say u like it when I SCREAM
You have expressed that you like it when I scream


I like it when u do 2
I also enjoy it when you do that


Looky here now
Take a look at this


Ungh
An expression of pleasure or excitement


Look at my hips
Pay attention to my hips


I'm about 2 do something
I am going to do something


2 make your backbone slip
To make you feel weak or overwhelmed with pleasure


And when I get through
After I'm finished


U will be confused
You will be unsure what to do


Should u take another pill after morning?
Should you take another pill after the morning?


Or play the fool?
Or act foolish?


Come & get happy
Come and have a good time


When I know u are here
When I know you have arrived


Make you go down in the back of the bus
Make you feel weak or overwhelmed with pleasure


It's got a big ol' rear
The back of the bus is big


Everybody that came 2 see me dance
Everyone who came to see me dance


Jump back, watch me, I'm about to wet your pants
Watch me closely, I'm about to make you feel overwhelmed with pleasure


Made a lot of money
I have earned a lot of money


Give it all 2 u
I will give it all to you


(sex me)
A plea to have sex with me


If u choose right
If you make the right decision


U can do what you're supposed 2 do
You can fulfill your obligation


Fly, black pepper
A reference to drugs


Grind u, grind u please
Bring you to a state of pleasure


Make a brother happy
Make me happy


On your knees
A request for oral sex


Hold me tight
Embrace me tightly


Check the burn
A reference to checking a drug's quality


And when the needle drop
And when the record begins to play


The groove u gonna hear
You will hear a great song


Will never want 2 make u stop ya heard?
You will want to keep dancing


Everybody
Everyone


Hot Hot Hot
Very hot


' Til everybody gone
Until everyone else has left


What ' cha gonna do?
What are you going to do?


SEX ME BABY SEX ME NOT
A back-and-forth plea for sex




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