Familiarity
Punch Brothers Lyrics


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It's on
Again you hate it but you know it then
You know it and so do your friends
And you can sing together when
It's on
Pretend you love it because you love them
As you explode out of your phones (amen)
to make some music of your own (amen)
You can hate it softly to yourself alone
A man among amens

A ringing bell, or programmed drums or both
I couldn't tell but I rejoice

A smoke machine or a swinging thurible
it was hard to see but I lifted up my voice
We've come together over we know not what

A call to prayer, or the last for alcohol
we didn't care; We knelt and bowed our heads

Or did we dance? Like we may never get another chance to disconnect
We've come together Over we know not what to say I love you

I love you, I love you
I mean it, I want feel it
God help me feel it
I love you
God knows I mean it
God help me feel it
God knows we mean it
God help us feel it

We lie in bed
The wireless dancing through my head
Until I fear the space between my breath
I see an end to where I don't love you like I can
Cause I've forgotten how it feels (amen)
To love someone or thing for real (amen)
Darling when you wake, remind me what we've done
That can't be shared, or saved, or even sung
It's on
Again you nod your head and take my hand
Though I'm not sure where we'll go (amen)
To worship more than what we know (amen)




As long as you're there I won't be alone
A man among amens

Overall Meaning

The song "Familiarity" by Punch Brothers speaks about the power of music to bring people together, even when they do not know exactly what they are gathering for. The first stanza talks about how people pretend to love the music that they actually hate just because they love the people they are with. The second stanza talks about the effect of music on the listeners, whether it is a ringing bell or programmed drums, everyone rejoices together. The third stanza highlights how music unites people irrespective of their beliefs, whether it is a call to prayer or the last call for alcohol, people come together, kneel and bow their heads or dance, forgetting all their differences.


The chorus "I love you, I love you, I mean it, I want feel it, God help me feel it, I love you, God knows I mean it, God help me feel it, God knows we mean it, God help us feel it" showcases the power of music to remind us of our loved ones or things we love, giving us the strength to believe in our love and feel it. The last stanza concludes with the singer lying in bed, realizing that he has forgotten how it feels to love someone or something for real, but he has faith in his loved one to remind him of what they have done together and what they will do in the future.


Overall, the song highlights the power of music to unite people, make them forget their differences, and remember what they love.


Line by Line Meaning

It's on
The music has started and we're all joining in


Again you hate it but you know it then
Even if you don't like the music, you're familiar with it and you know what to expect


You know it and so do your friends
You and your friends are familiar with the music and can appreciate it together


And you can sing together when It's on
When the music starts, you can all come together and sing along


Pretend you love it because you love them
Even if you don't really like the music, you pretend to enjoy it because you love the people you're with


As you explode out of your phones (amen)
You're so into the music that you can't help but share it with others, whether through your phone or in person


to make some music of your own (amen)
This music inspires you to create something of your own


You can hate it softly to yourself alone
Even if you don't like the music, you can quietly keep that to yourself


A man among amens
You can still appreciate the music even if you don't fully believe in it


A ringing bell, or programmed drums or both
It's hard to tell what's making the music, but it makes you happy regardless


I couldn't tell but I rejoice
Even if you don't understand what's going on, you can still enjoy the experience


A smoke machine or a swinging thurible
The atmosphere is hazy and surreal, creating a unique ambiance


it was hard to see but I lifted up my voice
Even if you can't see what's happening, you can still participate by singing along


We've come together over we know not what
We're united in our shared love of music, even if we don't know exactly what we're celebrating


A call to prayer, or the last for alcohol
The music reminds us of a variety of experiences, from religious rituals to late-night parties


we didn't care; We knelt and bowed our heads
Regardless of our individual beliefs, we're all brought together by the music


Or did we dance? Like we may never get another chance to disconnect
The music makes us want to let loose and lose ourselves in the moment


We've come together Over we know not what to say I love you
We may not know exactly what we're celebrating, but we're all connected by our shared love and appreciation


I love you, I love you
The music makes you feel deeply emotional and connected to those around you


I mean it, I want feel it
You're not just saying you love someone, you truly mean it and want to feel that love more deeply


God help me feel it
You want a divine force to assist you in feeling that love more fully


God knows I mean it
Even if others don't believe you, you know that you truly mean what you're saying


God help me feel it
You continue to seek divine assistance in feeling and expressing your love


God knows we mean it
All of us here mean what we're saying and feeling, regardless of any doubts or disbelief


God help us feel it
We all need help to truly feel and express our love for one another


We lie in bed
You and your loved one are together, still feeling the afterglow of the music


The wireless dancing through my head
The music is still playing in your mind, even after the event is over


Until I fear the space between my breath
You become acutely aware of the silence and the distance between you and your loved one


I see an end to where I don't love you like I can
You worry that your love for your partner will fade


Cause I've forgotten how it feels (amen)
You worry that you'll forget how to truly love someone, like you did during the music event


To love someone or thing for real (amen)
You want to feel that intense, raw love for someone or something again


Darling when you wake, remind me what we've done
You want your partner to help you remember the intense emotions you felt during the music event


That can't be shared, or saved, or even sung
The intensity of that moment can never fully be communicated or recaptured


Again you nod your head and take my hand
Your partner reassures you and helps you feel less alone in your fears


Though I'm not sure where we'll go (amen)
You're not sure what the future holds, but you're willing to face it together


To worship more than what we know (amen)
You're willing to explore new experiences and emotions together, even if you don't fully understand them


As long as you're there I won't be alone
You know that you can face anything as long as you have your partner by your side


A man among amens
You may have doubts and questions, but you're willing to participate and connect with others through the power of music




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Christopher Curtin Eldridge, Christopher Scott Thile, Gabriel John Witcher, Noam David Pikelny, Paul Frederick Kowert

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Comments from YouTube:

Colorado Paul

I have listened to this song at least one hundred times and I am still stunned by its complexity and beauty.

Orteza, C.

It's on, again.

And this song counts as a beautiful exception.

Jimbus Crust

What's so neat about it is that it's complex, but it doesn't feel busy. There are hundreds of 10 minute songs that feel extremely cluttered and busy (I.e. Dream theater, or almost any 70s progressive epic.) few have ever matched this when it comes to really long songs!

Mark Tyson

+Justin Leatherwood I saw this comment months ago and thought those were the lyrics. I finally looked them up after I saw them in concert and now it makes sense. :) Alone, a man among Amens.

Justin Leatherwood

@Colorado Paul Alone, Amen, Amon, Amen!

Front Row Boston

@Colorado Paul here, here! Couldn't agree more

Steve Zolis

The fact that they can execute a fade out LIVE is just outrageous.

grey

A lot of that was on the sound engineering. A few of the mics/instruments were turned down for the fade. But still, it's a really cool and unusual thing to see happen live, for sure.

BitterladVEVO

I'm almost convinced that these guys are all vampires with over a century of musical experience.

ChrisTopher

Lol right?!

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