I Betcha Wouldn't Hurt Me
Quincy Jones Lyrics


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Loving you came easily
Yet it made me blind to all there was to see
Now my heart is filled with pain

You understand I never will
How did it come to be that you donÂ′t love me still?
Now itÂ's getting to be plain
*If you really cared about anyone else
I know you wouldnÂ′t hurt me
If you cared about more than yourself
I bet ya wouldnÂ't go
If you really cared about anyone else
I know you wouldnÂ't hurt me
If you cared about more than yourself
You wouldnÂ′t walk out the door

Though some days the blues was our parade,
Still we marched through all the tears we made
Now I find that it wasnÂ′t no game of charades that you played

I did my best to bring you joy
How can you just leave me like a broken toy?
WhereÂ's the man that once was you?

If I could be within your mind




I would never think to treat you this unkind
The pain you caused will come to you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Quincy Jones’s song I Betcha Wouldn't Hurt Me explore the idea of love being blind and the betrayal that follows when one’s love is taken for granted. The opening lines illustrate how the singer fell in love easily, ignoring any red flags or negative aspects of the relationship. However, this blindness resulted in pain and now he is unable to understand how his lover could fall out of love so easily. The singer feels hurt, and the pain he feels seemingly intensifies when he realizes his lover didn't care enough about him and that their love was not mutual. The chorus of the song emphasizes the importance of consideration and highlights the idea that if the lover cared for him, they would not hurt him. The repeated lyrics, “If you really cared about anyone else/I know you wouldn’t hurt me/If you cared about more than yourself/I bet ya wouldn’t go/If you really cared about anyone else/I know you wouldn’t hurt me/If you cared about more than yourself/You wouldn’t walk out the door” emphasizes the need for mutual respect, kindness, and trust in a relationship and that selfishness has no room in it.


The second verse highlights how the couple's relationship was not easy, and they had their fair share of struggles, yet they managed to get through it all and march together. The chorus repeats here, with the singer making it clear that if the partner cared as much as he did, he would not hurt him. The last verse focuses on how the singer was committed to bringing his partner joy, and he feels confused and abandoned when his partner does not reciprocate. The singer is unable to understand how his lover would want to hurt him. He wants to be in his lover’s mind to understand what went wrong. The song ends by stating that the pain caused will come to the partner, highlighting the idea of karma.


Line by Line Meaning

Loving you came easily
I easily fell in love with you


Yet it made me blind to all there was to see
But in doing so, I overlooked important things


Now my heart is filled with pain
And it hurts me deeply now


You understand I never will
You realize that I won't ever come to terms with what has happened


How did it come to be that you donÂ′t love me still?
How did we get to a point where you don't love me anymore?


Now itÂ's getting to be plain
It's becoming increasingly clear


If you really cared about anyone else
If you had genuine concern for others


I know you wouldnÂ′t hurt me
You wouldn't cause me pain


If you cared about more than yourself
If you thought about others beyond what you want


I bet ya wouldnÂ't go
You wouldn't leave me behind


If you really cared about anyone else
If you had genuine concern for others


I know you wouldnÂ't hurt me
You wouldn't cause me pain


If you cared about more than yourself
If you thought about others beyond what you want


You wouldnÂ′t walk out the door
You wouldn't just leave and abandon me


Though some days the blues was our parade,
Although there were some difficult times


Still we marched through all the tears we made
We got through them together regardless of the pain


Now I find that it wasnÂ′t no game of charades that you played
But it turns out it wasn't a game we were playing together


I did my best to bring you joy
I tried my hardest to make you happy


How can you just leave me like a broken toy?
Why would you abandon me without a second thought?


WhereÂ's the man that once was you?
What happened to the person I once knew and loved?


If I could be within your mind
If only I could understand your thoughts and feelings


I would never think to treat you this unkind
I would never treat you with such cruelty


The pain you caused will come to you
The hurt and harm you inflicted on me will come back to you




Writer(s): Stevland Morris, S. Andrews

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Comments from YouTube:

@nicolagiacopelli214

Stevie Wonder + Quincy Jones + Patti Austin = THE PERFECTION

@broskimedula5300

+ Louis Johnson on Bass = perfection +

@danablake9349

No Stevie on this monster piece!

@conalma7560

@@danablake9349 Witten by Stevie wonder and Quincy Jones 🙄

@elizabethjones3963

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@oholm09

@@conalma7560 it was Stephanie andrews

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@stevechabalik6985

Patti Austin is THE BOMB. Stevie and Quincy found the perfect singer to bring this masterpiece to life.

@brusselssprouts560

Always a great album. There isn't a single track on this masterpiece of an album that I wouldn't enjoy time and again.

@peterathwal9402

got that right have the album when it first came out

@RFProductions09

Stevie Wonder co-wrote and on synths. Michael Jackson on background vocals. Patti Austin killing it on vocals. Louis Johnson thumping on bass. Quincy on the boards. Legendary.

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