The Reason
R.C. Lyrics

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I need you by my side
You never give me a big shot
I need you by my side
You never give me a big shot
新しい朝今日も一日が始まる
何気ない事
それだけでも嬉しく感じる
TVを観れば暗いニュースが流れてた

窓の景色は何も変わらなくて
街を歩いて時計ばかりを気にしてる
灰色の空なんだか青空にも見えた
答え探しにいつも夢中になってて
大事な事もわからずにいた
くだらなくてもつまらなくても
いいと思った今があるなら
明日が来なくても焦らなくても
いいと思った
君がいるからそう思えた
I need you by my side
You never give me a big shot
I need you by my side
You never give me a big shot

二人で見てた遠く懐かしい光
大事な物も探せずにいた
言えない事も癒えない傷も
あると思えた今があるから
追いかける事も問いかける事も
恥ずかしくない
君がいたからそう思えた
I need you by my side
You never give me a big shot
I need you by my side
届かなくても何も見えてこなくても
君がいたから忘れずにいれた
I need you by my side
You never give me a big shot

I need you by my side
You never give me a big shot

Overall Meaning

In R.C.'s song "The Reason," the lyrics express the overwhelming sense of being surrounded by the goodness, mercy, and grace of God. The singer is in awe of the unexplainable and incomprehensible nature of God's goodness. They emphasize that they cannot fully grasp or understand the depth of God's goodness, but they are fully enveloped in it.

The lyrics then shift towards personal testimony, as the singer acknowledges that they would have lost all hope if it weren't for God's intervention. God has taken their weaknesses and transformed them into strengths. The brokenness in their heart has been renewed and restored by God's power. The singer further declares that the sole reason they continue to live is God, highlighting the deep sense of gratitude and reliance on Him.

Throughout the lyrics, there is a sense of profound gratitude, recognition, and surrender to the transformative power of God's love and mercy. The singer acknowledges their own inadequacy and the immense impact God has had on their life, leading them to a sense of completeness in His perfect love.

Line by Line Meaning

I am surrounded by the goodness of God
I am completely enveloped in the infinite kindness of God

I am surrounded by His mercy
I am encircled by His boundless compassion

And I cannot fathom, the goodness of God
And I cannot comprehend, the immeasurable benevolence of God

And I would have lost all heart if it weren't for You
And I would have completely despaired if it were not for Your presence

And You turned my weakness into Your strength
And You transformed my vulnerabilities into Your power

You took this broken heart and made me new
You redeemed and revitalized this shattered heart

And the only reason I live is You
And the sole explanation for my existence is You

I am surrounded by the grace of God
I am completely encircled by the unmerited favor of God

Oh His everlasting mercy
Oh, His eternal compassion

With His perfect love He changed my heart
Through His flawless love, He transformed my inner being

With His perfect love I'm complete
With His flawless love, I am whole and fulfilled

Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: SHOGO

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Comments from YouTube:

@devinagrace1999

2y↑703

Women are sexually unsatisfied, and yet, we sill create soul ties, children, and heart ache with disrespectful men. I SUPPORT ABSTINENCE %100. THANK YOU!

@Zulubone

2y↑25

🎯🎯🎯

@meonly6454

2y↑11

💯

@elizabethferrari1346

2y↑24

Dudes of all ages don't know what their doing in the sex arena. It amazes me. It's 🤪 crazy.

@devinagrace1999

2y↑11

@@elizabethferrari1346 Okay yes! Its not worth a woman lying to a man and selling her soul for

@devinagrace1999

2y↑1

@@elizabethferrari1346 They dont teach men anything correct about a woman's body

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@ladyzinada5341

2y↑467

I'm here for this message. I stopped disrespecting myself, and now Men don't know how to approach me. I dress modestly, I stopped clubbing in 2004 fresh after graduating college. I stopped giving my body away to guys I was dating freely, I stopped being manipulated by no good guys, I stopped tolerating ignorance periodt. I don't entertain ignorance of Men nor women, I set boundaries for everyone who not on my Frequency Spiritually. I TOLERATE NO DISRESPECT ANYMORE. PERIODT.

@lightbulb3406

2y↑14

Amen woman spiritual I agree may God protection be covered from woman and men.

@kymjoy3964

2y↑13

Me too sis 😩 good job 👏 👌

@lightbulb3406

2y↑19

I agree with what you said but men need to stop as well I'm tired of being lonely we need to pray for men 🙏🏻

@JessicaJLatfi

2y↑6

I'm proud BEST FEELING in the world

@ivelawthomas4246

Its due to the decadence of society, "Westernized" one at best...; materialism, etc... I suspects single parenting...

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@selairarokobu9017

2y↑114

I got so tired of being emotionally abused that I just woke up one morning and leave
Was a prisoner in my own home

@anndavis2920

2y↑11

my exes were like this and i had to leave for my own mental n physical health. They passed away from their own devices.

@lala5061

25w↑3

That is the worst feeling! Being disrespected in your own house! Im proud of u getting him outta there 🤗

@tracysnipes2144

20w

@@anndavis2920mines did the same.31yrs of disrespect and cheating. Never acknowledged or claim me and he passed from Covid-19 in 2021 and just found out that he was in a 4 yr affair partner as he was neglecting me sexually and emotionally and physically. Well I had to take care of him and care of him and buried him as I was tired and mentally emotionally disrespectful.

@kathyevans9067

12w

Yes felt like this !

@biblequeen4sure823

2y↑67

Pastor you are on point. When a woman tells a man she's not interested in him, instead of him moving on he decides that it's his job to destroy her. I've had this man run me down, threaten me, harass me, and act like a little boy. I have a right to say NO, and I'm not going to change my mind. This message should be posted on every media site in the world. Thank you Pastor.

@missjaszmine1068

2y↑7

Unfortunately this epidemic is also occurring in our high schools with our teen girls. Say No and be pursued for an eye for an eye, retaliatory, destruction.

@sandramoore5769

2y↑96

Love yourself and let no one disrespect you

@kenyacarl3626

2y↑669

Men who don't like women, don't like themselves! You can't treat people bad, needlessly, if you truly love yourself.

@cyndigooch1162

2y↑14

Kenya Carl I totally agree with you!!! 😊

@aubreybryan5332

2y↑10

Accurate 💯

@dcaramelone

2y↑12

On the contrary, they LOVE themselves more because they feel women are less than. Men like that only want women for sex, and resent them for it when they dont give them what they want or ask for something in return. Hence the name calling, verbal and physical abuse.Whenever they cant get over on a woman- that woman is almost always referred to as a B****!!!

@mutra9711

2y↑9

But there is no reason to treat bad anyone even your enemy. This the challenge

@peaceofmindofpeace1650

2y↑2

That's it!

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@fstblk5

2y↑57

I'm 63 and been celibate for 10 years. I refuse to allow just anybody into my life because I live alone and have to be careful. I'm so glad to be post menopausal because I don't think under the influence of hormones. A good nurse co-worker told me back in 2005 that when hormones decrease, discernment fills in. It's so true, and I'm fine being alone. A companion would be nice but I'm not looking as I'm just fine being alone.

@sinceresong9907

2y↑3

lols...omg..so true

@superiorvessel8496

1y↑3

Intuition💜🙏🏽

@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644

2y↑120

Wow, this is why this false man has been coming after me:
1) mother wounds
2) frustrated sexuality
3) raised by pimps, no good role models
4) bitterness and self-hatred

@brendaorozco1195

2y↑15

Abusive men also look for women who have anxious attachments. There are anxious and avoidant attachments and the avoidant will usually attract an anxious women.

@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644

2y↑13

@@brendaorozco1195 interesting. I think I'm more avoidant attachment, the only place an abusive man can see me is in court. I run far from them.

@anndavis2920

2y↑7

yes i agree. Ive experienced all this toxic behavior from guys, black n white and some women also. I stay alone n unattached. My feelings and my pride get too injured by the wrong guys taking me for granted and mistreating me. I like to be with one man, if he can be w/just me alone and doesnt get bored w/me and wants to pursue other women. Its a lot of duds out here in the world now. They can pretend perfectly and hide the truth so well that i have vowed to stay celibate before God and myself because i am frustrated and fed up. No guys are true, loyal n honest. Im better by myself. Thank u Jesus!

@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644

2y↑7

@@anndavis2920 Well, if you're a good person, out of billions of people on the planet, God has many more. Be patient dear, and when those dogs come, go the opposite direction! Never look back. Actions speak louder than words. Don't give up just yet, the right one will come in due season. Keep being the best you as possible, don't grow cold or shady due to their mistreatment, continue to love everyone. God has a special way of rewarding you😊

@Medietos

14w

@@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644: Good to start healing that maybe?

@travellady2783

2y↑64

Just blocked a guy I was really into, I refuse to be disrespected any longer.

@livefromtheground7274

2y↑10

We tolerate too much by avoiding rudeness. Glad you kicked him to the curb.

@soniawilliams2412

2y↑5

same here

@nmania3

How was he disrespectful?

@tajthegreatone9326

2y↑479

Once I moved out of poverty, I noticed a huge difference in relationships between men and women. While there's some misogyny everywhere, men in this environment are more focused on working with or for women instead of against them. Men also seem more capable of handling things without falling apart. The women are still strong but more feminine in this environment. I can honestly say since I received EFFECTIVE COUNSELING, stopped getting on social media and going into spaces with angry grown boys, stopped listening to offensive rap music and carry myself in a respectful way...I experience more peace in my life. I thank you for your wonderful work Pastor and continue to pray especially for the black community as a whole.🙏

@hymnodyhands

2y↑26

Yes, ma'am ... circle is important ... sometimes it is time to stop struggling in a bad circle and ready ourselves to move on up a little higher ...

@Point_BlankwithDrdee

2y↑8

Awesome wisdom 😘

@yaphacurington3316

2y↑29

People don’t understand that everything is vibrations, energy. The music is all of that and listening to certain types of music depending on its hertz becomes and affects your life, mentality.

@rgw1380rw

2y↑4

@@yaphacurington3316 I've been listening to specific music for decades, but never was known to be rude or disrespectful to women. My character didn't work for me in the suburbs that was much different than the notorious ghetto that I'm originally from.

@claudiabell4234

2y↑1

Amen to that

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@mscotchery9861

2y↑156

Wow. I appreciate this message. I'll be 32 next month and all my life I've been around disrespectful men. The only one who wasn't was my step dad. Even every mate I've had disrespected me. I've just recently came across a man who doesn't give me an ounce of disrespect, ignorance or impatience. He the most calm patient and respectful man I've ever met. It's funny because it didn't happen until I started loving myself and putting myself on a pedestal. As in actually having confidence in myself. Considering myself to be valuable. I left the most difficult relationship of 7 years. I had to let go. And love me. Then I met someone who finally showed me what it's like to be treated as I should.

@soiledskin

1y↑11

Congratulations! May it last a lifetime 💫

@naimam3976

1y↑5

Hi sweet dear, how is it going for you know its been almost a year since you wrote this?

@AmaLoveGoddessTV

1y↑7

Same. My dad and brother are disrespectful but not my step dad. He’s a preacher.

@DianeRoche-mk7oi

20w

Beautiful 🙏

@sylviamontero6030

2y↑301

Personally I disrespected myself because I was sexually abused my entire childhood by grandfather. My mother was abusive as well. I learned that abuse was okay and I abused myself and disrespected myself when I was coming of age. I didn’t have role models or Jesus in my life. I dated disrespectful men and ended up in a lot of bad situations. I don’t think us women choose to disrespect ourselves I think we are taught that at a very young age specially when abuse is involved. Thanks for your message pastor.

@giftedwithmelanin6849

2y↑25

Sad to say you wrote out the story of my childhood word for word. Smh

@MegaLadylove2012

2y↑27

I hope you know what happened to you as a child is not your responsibility. Please stop beating yourself with a hammer for something out of your control; and I’m so sorry that happened to you

Fix your crown and move on

@jennifermartin630

2y↑18

Yes, abuse almost feels normal. We have to self love and self nurture to break this cycle. For me, I need learn to walk away.

@marylamb7031

I agree 100% with your outcome of why you disrespected yourself. I did the same thing. I think most of us do. Now the people who are disrespecting, abusing, and neglecting us are the spoiled brats. And they were taught it's okay to be mean, you're number one, weren't taught to share, and were handed everything they wanted as a child. You know mommy's little boy or give that kid what she wants just to shut her up! They learned how to be fakes and manipulators. We grew up with them, played with them, and we married them. I'm 67 yrs. old now. I divorced when I was 38 and never remarried. It's hard having a good heart in this mean nasty greedy world. I wouldn't want to come back here for all the treasures on earth. Thank God for Jesus and the Holy Spirit!

@audreyhopfner2823

2y↑20

I so agree with you. It is taught. Where were our fathers? Did they not have a role in teaching us daughters how to be treated by a man?🤔🙄. As a child I didn't know what self respect was. I certainly wasn't respected.

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@faith5217

2y↑1.5K

My only regret is NOT discovering Pastor Blake's earlier. His teachings are such a blessing.

@vashtikelly6837

2y↑25

I AGREE TOTALLY.....

@Jujumimi937

2y↑21

Yes !!! I ignored BUT GOD KEPT KNOCKING ✊ ON MY DOOR 🚪 TO LISTEN 👂🏼 TO MR.BLAKE ❤️🤍❤️🤍

@bunnyboo6295

2y↑25

Yes 100% agree if I found him sooner could have saved me from an abusive relationship. When you have no one in life to support you it's good to have someone like him to encourage you to take care of yourself and not feel trapped in disrespect.

@Dr.J1972

2y↑8

I agree wholeheartedly Faith. I was thinking the EXACT same thing.

@preciousmcfarland5265

2y↑8

Same💯💯💯

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@marymalloy2848

2y↑321

Yes, we women must first learn to Respect ourselves.

@katyarnold6757

2y↑7

100% agree with your comment Mary Malloy.

@larrywolenskimechanical1951

2y↑10

Thank you Mary. As a woman you have to be able to see disrespect from a mile away. These boys will test you. No boy starts disrespecting you from the jump. When a woman has clear boundaries boys will stay away. She won't even attract boys.

@achiengcaroline5920

2y↑10

@@larrywolenskimechanical1951 sometimes they're narcissistic and might not know initially.

@dafnenoel9825

2y↑1

Yes 👑👑👑

@ashantithevocalist

2y↑4

@@achiengcaroline5920

I agree with you, we no longer want to PLAY THEIR PART, cover up 4 them, COMPENSATE, make excuses or PLAY DUMB and they are retaliating & as a result we are leaving here.

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@yulezzz7044

2y↑113

Thank you for this divine knowledge. Some men are so twisted that they claim their harm isn't "intentional" and that they don't mean to hurt you. They are simply "sorry" for hurting you but continue to break you down repeatedly.

@aayeander2306

2y↑18

Well, if they are sorry, then they will go get the help they need to heal and do better. Just saying you're sorry is not enough anymore. They need to put action to their words.

@jeneanegrotewiel4184

2y↑3

I’ve been through this

@user-ow8hf8wv3t

11w

...the same thing that you womens doing

@AD-hh6dd

2y↑95

I’m an atheist so I doubted Id get anything out of this but I decided to be open minded and listen and boy am I glad I did. I wish everyone would listen to this. It has immense value regardless of your religious background.

@lethalviolet

1y↑13

I am atheist as well…I tend to always keep an open mind with many things I am glad I did with this as well! He is a great speaker!

@smileyglitter852

45w↑1

@@lethalviolet I'm glad ladies that you enjoyed this. I love Bishop Blake's myself. I'm tired of the disrespect in this world towards human beings. I hope this helps, p.s a women who loves Christ ...

@lyrical_love

45w↑4

Praying The Most High reaches you. 🙏

@kristiansingle784

37w

God bless you

@user-fj8bt4zo3x

32w

@@lethalvioletbut would a leader mentor mentor who was atheist speak this way

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@isabelm6198

2y↑636

Men have disrespected me not because of how I dress or talk, but by not stopping them when they have said mean things to me. I learned my lesson and showed the last man who was gaslighting me and saying mean things to me the door. I told him "you're mean and I don't want you in my house any more I want you gone". (I was helping him recover in my home from colon cancer surgery to remove a cancerous tumor. He was from out of town, didn't have family, had a dog needing care, and lived on the second floor apartment. I was dating him at the time of his diagnosis and felt bad for him. I took a leave of absence to help him recover.) Even in his vulnerability he showed his mean, ugly, ungrateful self. I hardened my heart to remove him from my life. It was hard because I felt so bad for him but he was this dark presence in my home.

@Girlintheewild

2y↑98

You had to do what was best for you! He can hire a home health service.

@Sara-wz6gn

2y↑65

It’s crazy, I know a man in wheel chair, I work for them and he disrespects his wife, like… sir you are in wheel chair and this lady didn’t have to give up her life to take care of you! Poor girl is 33 years old and he is 36. He got into a car accident and now he is in a wheelchair! Yeah he was tall and good looking but now he is stuck in a wheelchair.

@bunnyboo6295

2y↑50

You're a strong woman I crumble when it comes to pity making accuse for people suffering but perhaps I need to be wising up and realize there was likely a reason he had no one to go to. But you got the right Idea being in pain is not an excuse to disrespect someone helping.

@Dr.J1972

2y↑46

@@Sara-wz6gn Lord Jesus help us. The things we tolerate.

@diamondgold5277

2y↑16

@@Sara-wz6gn ungrateful she will wake up one day

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@dawnallen3536

2y↑706

This message hit home for me. The disrespect from my spouse has me walking away from our marriage. His words hurt and destroyed me over the years. I’m trying to heal.

@yolandamiles7221

2y↑20

Same here @ Dawn Allen.

@ayodejiokoloba9849

2y↑11

Find out why he's abusive ask him questions and get him to adjust it's not easy don't let your marriage go but if u are an abusive person too you need to adjust aswell

@sexygabby30

2y↑81

@@ayodejiokoloba9849 sorry that doesn’t work. Abuse is abuse and it’s a choice. That’s the mind of evil and will never get answers if so it’s blanket crap. Lies. So no point. Life is too short to allow a person to hurt you it never gets better. It’s their character it’s their whole makeup to want to live in chaos.

@brittneyberry4934

2y↑44

@@ayodejiokoloba9849 respect your opinion but its evident you are new here. Pastor Blakes teaches the total opposite of what you just told this Domestic violence survivor. DV is verbal physical emotional or financial. IT'S A NON NEGOTIABLE. PLEASE DO THE FOLLOWING:
- APOLOGIZE FOR YOUR WRECKLESS ADVICE.
- KEEP LISTENING TO THE TEACHINGS OF PASTOR BLAKES
- DELETE YOUR COMMENT

@brittneyberry4934

2y↑7

@@sexygabby30 i agree

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@MeNonya

2y↑31

I walked away from my ex recently. When he was angry, he called me the most vile things and it escalated. Happy that I said no more. I am still dealing with hateful emails though.

@liahknowsbest5092

2y↑7

Praying for you and sending love your way💯💪🏽🙏🏽🤗

@nafisajingi2386

42w

Be strong dear, you got this💜👍🏾.

@chrissemenko628

17w↑1

That's what's headed my way.
I walked away tonight.
New Years Eve 2023.
No assholes allowed in 2024.
He'll be in my Gmail soon.

@gypsygurlgypsygurl3284

2y↑16

Just went thru a tirade of vile verbal abuse by a co worker for NO REASON. All I said was "be careful" when he was fixing something. Oh...the names I was called, him saying he hated me over and over. It came out of nowhere. The customers were appalled, disgusted and terrified.

@rhondajohnson5978

2y↑365

Amen. As a woman I thank you. I raised my son as a single mother. A few years ago he asked me, " Mom why did you raise me to be a gentleman? These girls want the bad boys " I laughed and replied," Son I raised you to be a gentle man. A woman will always want to be with a true man. In this world, music and the male propaganda is teaching them that women are less than human. A wise man knows the value of himself and knows that he will only become the greatest version of himself is to have, love, and respect his woman." So preach on my fellow brother.

@sylviaj270

2y↑37

He may also be attracted to the women that like the bad boys. He may need to examine who he is attracted to. He may be overlooking the women that would appreciate him.

@rhondajohnson5978

2y↑28

@@sylviaj270 I told him that he is a quality man and deserves a quality woman. He is 26 years old now and that was when he was a teenager when he asked me that question. I told him that the bad boys take quantity over quality.

@623katjc

2y↑29

Thank you. For raising your son to help make this a BETTER world, not an uglier one.

@rhondajohnson5978

2y↑9

@@623katjc I tried my best to raise my son and two daughters to be the best they can be. Maybe they will find away to do just that

@toriyt2714

2y↑7

Tell him he said it right, GIRLS like bad boys. You raised him for a woman.

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@stephanie1611

2y↑222

Some of these men are horrible. Recently, I met a guy in Grad school and I thought he seemed so nice. He had his own business and was active in church. He was so disrespectful to me the first week we talked. I just couldn’t believe it. He made jokes all the time and when I told him to stop, he made it seem like I was the problem. When I confronted him, he said “ I like peace in my life”. It was horrible. I ended things that week.

@ak-47intelligence75

2y↑46

Typical . It's the deflecting strategy to make you absorb the blame and stick around like a sitting duck while he dogs you out. Next.

@wisdomknowledgelover6293

2y↑40

Yea he wanted to take peace away from you!

@MoralOrder1

2y↑51

He sound like he was narcissistic.

@latinagibbs2770

2y↑8

Good

@lynettecaballero1660

2y↑27

He didn't want true peace,,,just wanted his own narcisstic selfish way. Distorted thinking and beliefs. Good for you to see through him and dump him,dust your feet...

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@lisarochester2978

2y↑9

My daughter have been on a first date the guy asked her, have you got a beard, you look older than I thought you were , she wore leather pants, he said do you were jeans?
She came home feeling sad, what a jerk. She blocked him

@nadinedaoud2538

2y↑13

That disrespect is more prevalent with American men, sadly. My husband was extremely respectful to me and my children but he was born in Jerusalem and grew up in the Middle East. He passed two years ago but I was very lucky and I chose it that way. ❤️

@imjustmarilyse

2y↑152

I will never forget hearing a narcissistic man say that the only reason he will ever need a woman is to make babies! That is seriously how they view us and it’s so sad and sickening!

@patriciamalemikia2743

36w↑5

😢

@Screech911

33w↑6

That’s what the guys at my school say too…

@imjustmarilyse

33w↑3

@@Screech911 I believe it!

@y2kkitten

25w↑12

The creepier part is why do they want kids more than a wife?

@user-ow8hf8wv3t

11w

Dont get me wrong sista' but you lookin us as a somebody who just need to pay for your need...all you lookin on a man iz money...sad but true

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@otiamartin3261

2y↑396

I needed to hear this. I'm tired and I will not tolerate anymore disrespect. 😪

@momminainteasy5710

2y↑21

Me too

@SL-ez5rv

2y↑18

Same here

@414_kiaraaa3

2y↑14

You go girl 🥳🥳🥳❤️❤️❤️💅🏽

@ayodejiokoloba9849

2y↑8

You all need to take things easy with your men it's not easy try to find out why he's the way he is don't fight with him or disrespect him in return it goes vise versal when you disrespect your man you are a little girl ....little girls humiliate little boys bcuz they haven't grown up

@otiamartin3261

2y↑27

@@ayodejiokoloba9849 when a man disrespects a woman he is a little boy and little boys can humiliate women because he hasn't grown up.

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@judisnyder4868

2y↑76

I had a great grandfather that taught me how I should me treated by men by his example. I’m 49 and still unmarried by choice unless I find someone who meets those standards. 🙏🏼💜🦋💖 Amen for this message! My generation beyond has deteriorated humanity with no basic manners and principles. But, if you respect yourself as a woman, be aware you might never marry because they’ll always be a woman who will be willing and less than!

@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed

2y↑11

Same! I will never forget my grandfather walking with me down the street and I would try to walk by the curb. He said a woman should ALWAYS walk on the inside and a man should be between her and the street. If a man doesn't do this, don't be with him. I still live by this rule.

@soiledskin

1y↑3

So true!

@Lxxtz_GarZ

14w↑2

I'm not your age yet but I have to agree. It's so sad because they are really choosing less of themselves but bishop spoke nothing but truth. What real men argue with women?Make it make sense🙃🙃🙃 I once had a man tell me that many many yrs ago and he was right....

@maureenbernard8848

2y↑91

I've had the same thoughts recently. Men hate women! I've felt it to the core. Even in a professional setting, I have noticed it.

@andreaberryman5354

There are toxic tubers pitching HORRIBLE things and men LISTEN and AGREE! We are all entitled, money-grubbing whores using men for EVERYTHING, and we get PREGNANT to trap them. These men are so MAD!😭

@devinagrace1999

2y↑7

They are treating us like dirt

@user-rx7uh9mg4f

36w

They hate us because they so desperately need us women.

@Screech911

33w

I’m 14… and a bunch of guys at school have literally told me on discord that the only thing they will ever need women for is to have babies.

@user-gb9uk6du9m

25w

Some men hate women; there are those who love, appreciate and respect women.

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@anabautista8071

2y↑36

1. Childish perspectives of men; 2. Men hate women; 3. The woman doesn't respect herself; 4. The respect of a man is rarely celebrated by a woman, but the disrespect of a man is pursued with passion.

@andreaviola8675

2y↑486

People can only do to you what you allow. From the man you date, friends, family, co-workers and your boss. If you do not call out the disrespect and set the boundaries then you will get more of it. You must define what your boundaries are and stick to them.

@talkswithjas7959

2y↑59

Exactly! I literally have a 0 tolerance policy when it comes to disrespect. Idc how old you are, if you’re family etc. you have one time to disrespect me and you will be checked. The second time you disrespect me you will be blocked and cut off indefinitely. Ppl think I’m mean an unforgiving, but I think that most people don’t understand that forgiveness doesn’t mean reconciliation. Imo the church keeps a lot of women in bondage with how they present the idea of forgiveness and loving thy neighbor.

@rasta487

2y↑4

Amen

@nightswan1234

2y↑4

Amen, amen, amen!

@icequeen491

2y↑19

@@talkswithjas7959 you are literally my twin flame. I couldn’t have said it better. I will check that man on the slightest disrespect, don’t care how built or hefty he is! To be quite honest, I have taught a few men how to be respectful and thoughtful, Hell I have even had an ex seek therapy when I was done with him. We as women need to be stronger to speak up. Speak and not tolerate disrespect from our dates, husbands, sons, brothers etc

@mysteryandmeaning297

2y↑26

Kinda true but at same time you can't control everyone. At work you can't always walk away. And I noticed that if you demand respect sometimes they disrespect you anyways still. So calling it out doesn't really work in many situations. Can a leopard change his spots. "What you allow" comment puts all the blame on the woman.

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@mediakingsmediakings9982

2y↑25

Not all women crave toxic men. Many of us inherit them.

@flyingdutchman2442

Zero accountability

@user-rx7uh9mg4f

36w↑1

@@flyingdutchman2442If you grew up under male figures that made you think toxic is "love" then you would be confused too.

@flyingdutchman2442

36w

@@user-rx7uh9mg4f Again, zero accountability.

@brickecharga1102

17w

Wow! That's poignant! You should've gotten hundreds of "likes" like the other commenters.

@PeaceDayCortez

2y↑6

He was 38ys old, he was a grown man throwing tantrums like a child. I didn’t deserve the verbal and emotional abuse he put me through. I kept giving him the benefit of a doubt. I kept making excuses for his actions. I couldn’t see myself living the rest of my life on eggshells. I got to the point where I no longer liked the monster he became when he would verbally assault me. He thought I would never walk away, he found out the hard way. It’s going to take me years to heal from his abuse. I’m pagan but the message you gave has no boundaries thank you good sir. 🌹

@maryford5940

2y↑46

Unfortunately, too many of these men secretly hate their mothers and treat women with the same hate and disgust! It's psychological and spiritual! Dr. Ford

@chasidyjoy

2y↑584

RC Blakes is by far one of the BEST teachers out here. This is very enlightening!

@pamelastewart7128

2y↑8

You teach what you’ve learned, what you know, by experience.

@kieshamiller8255

2y↑6

Man of God!🤗

@chasidyjoy

2y↑2

@@pamelastewart7128 Agreed!

@zoejaiattoh1243

2y↑9

Sister I say this with every teaching .. I’m trying to get into his classes .. he is the Truth.. HE TELLS IT ON BOTH SIDES !! WHAT BOTH MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO HEAR !! And APPLY .. TO MAKE CHANGES!

@nightswan1234

2y↑7

@@zoejaiattoh1243 He’s the real deal man! He covers faults of both men and women.

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@jennifermartin630

2y↑75

Been listening for a few months and this is so enlightening. I’ve been in a pattern of seeming weak, self hating men trying to heal them and when they project it onto me, I internalized it as something wrong with me. No, it’s a reflection of their immaturity and self hate.

@imanimarie8172

2y↑2

In that position now!! Working on it 🙌🏾🙏🏾

@educationstation3853

43w

@@imanimarie8172lets work together

@juliehardy9723

31w↑1

Dealing with this now. I told him he acts like a 5 year old. His 6 year old even said why do you talk to her like that daddy? I'm done.

@heidebillings8890

2y↑3

The old adage:Find out what kind of relationship the man has with his mother. This gives great insight.

@nightswan1234

2y↑150

I do agree. There is a large number of men who really have a deep down disdain for women in general. Just a terrible experience now days to encounter one of these immature men anywhere. They're some real haters loose among society.

@Bright-It

2y↑3

Wait to see ...
Near future most of men will have their
own Artificial Intelligence sexdoll.

@nightswan1234

2y↑4

@@Bright-It Ya know E nothing this group of guys do won't surprise me but just when you think you've heard and seen it all they surely come up with something else more absurd like this MGTOW! ( men going their own way) movement. Truly the whole notion is so sad and messed up! Since they appear to be seeking out women who aren't aware of their hateful antics they're sure slow by taking their leave! I'm yet to see one successful whole package from one of those deals! They may achieve some level of success in certain areas but it will never ever be as good as it could be without a woman in it. This seems to be what they secretly realize and hate but will never bring themselves to admit, Oh well. I try to avoid this type of man at all cost!! They are real bad news to anything you may have going that is positive!!

@reginasemenenko148

@@Bright-It great.

@kra2051

2y↑2

Yes, that rap culture that goes hand in hand with that prison system has birthed homosexuals that hate women & caused so much disrespect. No moral compass whatsoever.

@user-ed1vg9vd8s

40w

It has been discovered that Black women are not safe in relationships with Black men

@kingdomkid444

2y↑328

Women are God given GIFTS🙌🏾 Alot of us need this reminder thank you sir Your like the natural father I never had🥰 Thank God for you🙏🏾

@RCBlakesJr.

2y↑22

This warms my heart. Thank you 🙏🏽 😊♥️

@shamoo260

2y↑4

@@RCBlakesJr. Pastor you have have a congregation of mostly women so you are capping or placating to that constituency. You should be looking at the cultural environment of society to see what is influencing the mind and soul of people in a unproductive way because nothing happens in a vacuum. We all play a role in making sure our society is healthy but it must first start with family structure

@larrywolenskimechanical1951

2y↑7

If only women believed they are a gift. That they are the PRIZE. Truth is they don't believe it.

@shamoo260

2y↑2

No , human beings that have excellence hearts , minds are very sincere in their intentions that's God gift

@kingdomkid444

2y↑5

@@shamoo260 You should check out his book KINGOLOGY 🥰

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@dayciajtalk88

2y↑7

The root, of it is not having boundaries!!! Once more women start having boundaries and Morals things will change!!!

@brendamathis9722

2y↑42

Amen I’ve been abstinent for 3 years now and loving myself so much. Thanks Pastor Blakes

@anndavis2920

2y↑2

ive been abstinent since 2013 and still counting. Its hard but i want respect from a mature man and no players/haters are allowed in my life no more. This happened in my past and its a waste of my time and energy. I value my time and i want a man that i can be proud of.

@devinagrace1999

2y↑1

Good to hear, I cant even count how many years for me, I haven't been with anyone in years tho 😂

@blackkjuice

2y↑151

Trent Shelton says (and I agree) to stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person your best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand why now, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of Why things didn't work out. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.

@chastitylampkin6028

2y↑1

Yea, this is so true what black juice has typed 💓💓💓💓💜💜💜💜💜💙💙👍👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏

@glendacobb2753

2y↑3

Well stated.

@sylviaj270

2y↑8

absolutely correct. when God closes a door don't go beating on the door trying to get it to open.

@victoriabassey9339

2y↑1

Never read anything as truthfully as @blackjack just wrote....bitter truth but so truthfully true..........
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

@victoriabassey9339

Never read anything as truthfull as what @ blackjuice wrote......thanks so much

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@tgoosby84

2y↑264

Amen! I am 38. I have never been courted or treated carefully. I morn for myself and decided to be single because I will not be disrespected any long because I have come into knowledge. If I never get married or walk this life physically alone I guess it is what it is. My Heavenly Father understands.

@bem6344

2y↑39

I hope you get the love you deserve. Praying for you

@Point_BlankwithDrdee

2y↑13

Sister love I pray your path with your spouse cross. If i were a man i will come straight and make you happier. God still loves you

@sylviaj270

2y↑27

The thing about that is sometimes we stay single so long that we get comfortable in it and then we don't want to share our lives with anyone because it feels like a major inconvenience.

@susanbradford5457

2y↑18

Sister that’s how I feel !!!! I just don’t know what to do !!! Try to be nice and they still be rude. Makes me very angry!!!!!!

@sherirose3028

2y↑4

Amen.thank you for helping me to know I'm not alone. Stay strong in your faith.I love to hear a God fearing man speak truth with the word.

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@sjackson1739

2y↑25

I needed this man's words since childhood. Omg! This makes complete sense. Yes! Thank You! Sounds like Narcissistic behavior indeed.

@chantettestallworth5915

2y↑8

I’ve been practicing abstinence for over 5 years. Thank you Jesus 🙌🏾🙌🏾

@stephaniepreston-mullins3262

2y↑117

This made me cry bc it's so TRUE my husband (52 years old) sometimes says things to me that my grown sons (20, 25 & 28 years old) wouldn't say to a woman. I'm watching this so I can try & do my part. If he doesn't change soon, I'll be living on my own. Thank you Pastor....

@gianelogan7780

2y↑1

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@akilahclark2613

2y↑7

When someone shows you who they are. Believe them. Until people are aware of the toxicity they bring to the table and seeking to correct it. Thus, by getting self help I.e counseling and going to God.. they are showing they’re not willing or seeking to change. So just have personal awareness. I’ve disrespected my partner and he’s disrespected me. I’m choosing to leave to become better so that I can attract better. All while he attempted to normalize our disrespect. I’m 25 and I wouldn’t be ok with my children experiencing what he’s trying to normalize. He was bold enough to disrespected me in front of his child. I almost fell back into accepting him, but I realized that if it makes me unhappy. It’s not worth my time.

Have awareness and remember you’re valued.. and deserving of better, but it starts with you! There’s a lesson in everything.

@andreaberryman5354

2y↑5

My 20-year-old son treats me like crap. No, you can't come live with me when you go to college. He moved out in April, and I can finally be myself instead of stupid, loud, annoying, bitch, argue, argue, argue.😞💔 I don't want him here. He thinks I'm a joke. I don't get ripped off anymore either.

@arianna6682

2y↑3

This makes me sad that women have to experience such hurt from men. I’ve been married 22 years and I’ve stayed mostly for the kids. I’m now questioning if it’s the right thing. I really do want happiness and peace. Praying for all of you and thank you for the message pastor 🙏

@starseedrizzy6569

1y↑2

Peace be upon you

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@ttime9987

2y↑383

Wow this is incredible!! Literally, just got out of relationship with a man that has the capability to be verbally abusive. He would pick fights. Would make remarks and comments about women in general. I was starting to see that he did not like women. I don't think he is gay but perhaps his experiences with women have triggered him to dislike them. Ladies, if a man argues back and forth with you that is not a good sign. A man who loves women will break his neck to smooth things over or makes things "right". Instead of trying to always be "right".

@tevaristorres8535

2y↑23

Gotta be gay…men either love women or men.

@dimediamond

2y↑14

HE might be a lesbian

@ms.b7390

2y↑31

That tit for tat arguing is a clear sign of arrested development.
If I have to witness that and it reminds me of when I go back and for with my toddler…enough said.

@Tend2Rose

2y↑37

Sounds like my partner and I’ve broken away from him for the same reason. Verbal abuse, dragging me down, making me feel like I have to perform in the bedroom ( due to too much porn) and he moans about women and feminists and he talks with hatred. He tried control me, but thankfully I have my own place and would leave when he started his verbal.
I ain’t taking no more it’s 2022!…time for change

@ttime9987

2y↑9

@@Tend2Rose Omg, my ex would go on and on about "feminism"

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@svasianfilipiname6603

2y↑6

That's a dangerous combination: A child in a man's body.

@dianakennard928

2y↑10

I believe my savior brought me here to listen at you, now I understand why that person treated me the way he did. His mind was already made up to have hatred for me. Because I had love for him. Didn't understand why I was treated like that. Thank you for this god-given message. If you have self hatred for yourself, how can you love anybody else.

@rhodesia1028

2y↑99

I like this kind of teaching. More often it is another women trying to teach woman about men. It's refreshing to have a man teaching truth

@spekialcay1

2y↑4

we very rarely listen when we teach about relationships or just about men but our eyes/ears are perked and in tune when the talk comes from a man! it's powerful to see when that happens...

@joykihiu525

Mmmm not seen it that way....

@rosesilveira344

2y↑102

I am a seasoned woman who does not look her age. At work I have noticed men with big egos. Some treat women abusively when they befriend them. Some feel threatened by them. It's the boys vs men. It's like they are clueless and were never taught what is respect. I realized it's the results of parenting. Never have I seen so many narcissists as today. Love your channel

@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed

2y↑19

My ex was jealous of me and would compete with me. I never understood this. How can you be with a woman that YOU ARE JEALOUS OF??? She is WITH YOU so obviously she saw the good in you as a man, yet you are her biggest enemy. So sad.

@user-qf9el3pt8e

2y↑11

@@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed and that is VERY prevalent today. Alot of guys (not MEN) tend to be jealous of women perhaps because alot of us nowadays are independent, strong, smart, successful etc. I've seen it to be very common

@ladyk7317

2y↑6

It’s also because their mothers allowed men or a man to devalue her … so the boy feels a betrayal to his mother when he treats his women like a Queen ……this is not our fault ,if he doesn’t want to acknowledge where he is …and wants to be healed ,then he needs a woman like his mother and not a Queen 💪🏾💋

@gogowabantwana9437

2y↑5

I just broke up with someone soon after started listening to pastor I was so stressed but after listening I'm ok and healed not even thinking about him or worried any more I'm just in Peace 🙏thanks Pastor you were sent really by God🙌🙏❤

@lisaappoh6484

2y↑18

Shared this with a few so-called men.

“Fully persuaded in your own mind that as a man there’s a certain way you supposed to handle a woman…. PERIODT!!!!!

THAT PART!!!
Pastor Blakes dropped the mike after that. 🔥

@sharonbenjamin9310

2y↑173

As a Christian, I've learned to get my sense of validation as a woman of high moral character from God because He loves me without condition. I have not been in a long-term relationship in 7 years because I've setup healthy boundaries in my life. Thus far, my healthy boundaries have helped me to avoid getting connected to a person in an "unequally yoked" relationship. However, people keep telling me that I'm going to miss "the 1" for me due to my high moral standards for myself and others. The joke is on them because they don't realize that "the 1" who's a good fit for me in a long-term intimate relationship will appreciate me for having a high level of self- respect and high standards in my life! 🙌🏽

@susanadamu3867

2y↑12

Sharon Benjamin you are right girl!

@vilmabock478

2y↑11

🌷 Beautifully and Brilliantly said!

I have so much admiration and respect for your choice. God bless you.

@RachelSDay1982

2y↑6

Amen, sister!! 👏👏

@sunshine9717

2y↑12

Plus, the Lord knows your mate. Therefore you don't have to settle for anything. There is plenty of anything out there. But as the saying goes, you can do bad all by yourself. Damn sure don't need a fool adding anything unhealthy to your life.

@wmhhealth2018

2y↑5

Amen Sharon. As a man I feel exactly as you do.

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@smores8982

2y↑264

Amen! If a man is dragging his feet and/or stringing you along, put a stop to it. This line really resonates with me “I would rather have my heart crushed than to lose my self respect” your content is always inspiring and it hits the mark!

@madelinebigio7565

2y↑18

That part when a inferior man will always do this sabotage there relationships and they are mostly narcissist men

@madelinebigio7565

2y↑13

Yesssss I agree with you @RCBlake and you said even if we acting crazy you a man and never go to the point of wanting to hit or disrespect her in a abusive emotionally, physically and mentally

@catalinamecham5318

2y↑8

I agree. If he dusrespects you is time to put a stop

@bmizzle1074

@@madelinebigio7565 Alcohol was introduced to the relationship. Plus, I was trash in a couple other areas. Particularly, insecurity. My first (19 years) marriage ended because of her infidelity. Before this 2nd one I had went 20+ years without drinking. Oh yeah, I've preached at several Pastor Anniversaries. Owe it to my son, myself, women and Society to keep looking in the mirror.

@truthseeker3967

40w

@@bmizzle1074 Remarriage after divorce if a previous spouse is still living is adultery according to the Bible. You cannot remain a Christian in that adulterous state.
==> He [Jesus] answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” (Mark 10:12) ==> By law, a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress (Romans 7:2-3). ==> A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. (1 Corinthians 7:39) (You can live alone, but cannot remarry) I WAS IN THIS SITUATION MYSELF- (I vacated the unlawful relationship)

@aneshrathomas

2y↑4

Respect yourself❗️ that’s one of the most important ones no lie

@t-phillips-jazz

2y↑3

SELF HATRED.
Powerful!!

@gem4365

2y↑243

Everytime I'm going through something I can always count on Bishop to minister me through. God bless and thank you for this message

@lauraa2453

Facts!

@kla2026

2y↑199

You were God sent. I listen to you everyday…EVERYDAY. You’re everything I didn’t have growing up, and forever grateful for your gift.

@angelacapranica7701

2y↑2

Amen !

@Dr.J1972

2y↑1

💯💥🙌🏾

@preciousmcfarland5265

2y↑1

I agree💯💯💯

@kimberlysanaa25

2y↑1

Agree!! Same here

@ellysiaroy5496

2y↑1

Amen💯❤️

@FUEGOSTARR

7w↑1

I refuse to let anyone diminish my womanhood, self-esteem, dignity, and purity!!! I call on God to remove the spirit of negativity that others have imposed in my direction. I call on God to bless me with Wisdom, clarity, insight, and diligence in these times of stress and disgust! There’s a filthy feminine male in my family’s home who terrorizes me, speaks negativity into my direction, false accusations, lies, manipulation, & all other forms of verbal abuse and I still press on with confidence and quality of character.

@robertacollins3205

2y↑7

I love marriage; however, dating over 60 is challenging with most potentials are looking for sex instead of getting to know me. Not happening. I will eventually be sent the right man. I respect men but not those who are still trying to play games at our age. Pastor Blake, you are always on point!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@ivalinapasse2469

2y↑25

Exactly The Women is the Glory of the Man. God Shows You how to Respect your Wife.

@stacymurphy2599

2y↑269

I think some of the lack of respect for women comes from the abundant amounts of pornography that's so readily available and all of the men that watch it regularly including "church going" men. We've been reduced to dirty play things. It's hard to respect that.

@j-tenn226

2y↑16

I have a male friend who will send me 30 second pornography clips of him and his wife having sex. He doesn’t even say hi or ask me how I’m doing, just dirty clips. It’s unbelievable. I wonder if she knows

@anid7777

2y↑35

You said "Even Christian men", let me correct that, "so called Christians ". True Christians do not watch porn! 🙂

@coacht1738

2y↑22

@@j-tenn226 oh she would definitely know because i would send it to her.

@rjrenee4783

2y↑9

@@anid7777
FAXXXX 🔥🎯🔨
There's a "MAJOR" difference in a "TRUE CHRISTIAN" and someone claiming "CHRISTIAN" in vain!!!!
That's why Christ said he's going to tell them, " I NEVER KNEW YOU!"
MT 7:21-23

@melissalindo3019

2y↑14

Plus woman who pretty much advertise walking porno star/ stripper etc that when they encounter a real woman all know how to do is disrespect

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@sistalarrissa

1y↑4

I’ve sent this to several men; if only they would open up their minds and stop disregarding this good teaching…this isn’t “pandering”…it’s HEALING

@rishka9083

2y↑8

You can do everything for a man, and they are still ungrateful. I look at the mother. I look at the father. Most importantly, i look at that man, because if he wants to change and do better, he will.

@nikkyshamz2696

2y↑18

It's that broken consciousness that make ladies want or choose a disrespectful man over a solid, consistent, kind, man, i'm glad i've always liked reserved, respectful, solid, kind and ambitious men.
Ladies we deserve to be treated well. Let's elevate.

@sharhughes1086

2y↑264

I Love RC Blake's teachings! They are golden, he reads directly from the Bible, so you know it's beneficial for your well-being!

@Joyous765

2y↑7

Deep thanks for your healing message about the prevalence of misogyny in our cultures and conditioning.
Blessings to us all!

@lucybendolph6346

2y↑7

Amen I totally agree with you yes I truly Bless GOD For this Awesome MOG and His Beautiful Wife (Queen) Praying GOD Continue To Bless They Entire Family

@stephanies.3198

2y↑2

Totally agree....it has truly been blessing my life. I got soul ties book and read it in one sitting.

@clarissahoward1901

2y↑2

I agree

@joycewatt800

2y↑2

It’s soul Food! Food for the soul.

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@yathink4338

1y↑9

He’s telling the truth. I am single and go through this all the time. I carry myself in the most respectful way I can. I do not dress provocative and I carry myself like a lady, but still I am constantly insulted and treated disrespectfully by men; not all, but ones that are trying to date me. At first I think, ok he might be cool, but usually on the first date, they will say something so stupid like asking me to do something degrading. This is so frustrating to me especially when I just want to get to know them better to see if they could be a potential person be in a relationship with. I am so turned off about dating. I’m becoming more of the woman that would just rather get myself a rose 🌹 and go one about my business. These men are losers in my eyes and they have given up on being their best self so they’d rather insult woman and try to bring us down (it won’t happen).

@lala5061

25w↑1

Stay on your path u doing right by yourself ❤...u have self love and respect....waaay better than having a disrespectful man anyday of the week!

@yathink4338

22w

@@lala5061 thank you ❤️🙏🏽

@annettewashington192

2y↑4

I listened to this man and I played it purposely on my Bluetooth speaker so that my so called fiance could hear it and he got so angry it was unbelievable, as cliche as it sounds the truth hurts

@pinnakal1

2y↑57

Yes. I’m a nurse and my married patients tend to recover quicker and come to hospital later in age that those who played the field and hopped around.

@firesign4297

2y↑4

🙏👍🏿👍🏿

And Thank YOU🙏❤️🙏 For ALLLLL YOU❤️🙏❤️ DO🙏❤️🙏

Blessings🙏😊

From A Sista😊 From By Way Of Brooklyn NYC 😊

@dianaprince9311

2y↑6

Alone with no family or friends to speak of.

@dedeyeboah5353

2y↑3

Wow

@toptier6356

2y↑4

I can believe that.

@ginaloveslife632

2y↑40

This is why is important for every person to develop self awareness before you jump into your next relationship.

@sharonburgins2483

2y↑6

LISTENING TO YOU TODAY REJUVENANATED MY EMPOWERMENT OF PROUDLY HOLDING MYSELF TOGETHER !

@48marthakal51

2y↑3

There's nothing more hurtful is disrespect from the man we love It will broke us down faster then anything. Pastor you are so right Thank you so much

@adellkupa2335

2y↑490

This music brings tears to my eyes. God is wonderful, I can’t thank him enough. People who know me and my husband in our area. They know what we have been through and how long it took us to be successful and where we are at the moment. If you are familiar withe scriptures, I mean the word of God you can tell that Jesus always talked about destiny helpers and I met mine 6 years ago.. I met Mr Andrew in a church seminar 6 years ago. He is a young man with a good heart. God used him to change my life and the lives of people around us. It was a huge step we took and we do not regret it. I always talk about him everywhere pardon me. If you are out there and loosing hope I want you to know that God has plans for everyone of us. i feel my story should encourage a lot of people. I will drop info of him below

@adellkupa2335

@Davis Carlon if y0u w1sh to reach 0ut to he here is h!s email inf0@j0hnneilandrew, C0M ! tell every0ne ab0ut he and h0w he really changed my life and i am very grateful t0 G0d f0r bringing he int0 my life, i pray for every0ne 0ut there g0ing thr0ugh a’l0t 0f difficulties 0ut there G0D WILL SEE Y0U THR0UGH. IF Y0U BELIVE C0MMENT AMEN, REMA!N BLESSED

@karenbarard8411

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@pamfigueroa7633

2y↑128

I keep my earphones on all day listening to you Bishop. I put the volume up as high as I can to avoid listening to the one who stole 26 years of my life. Thank you for helping me wake up to learn to respect myself to know that I am a strong woman. I will start working at the end of the week save my money get my own apartment and my own vehicle and experience life for the first time a life of honor respect and peace.

@niyanyc3242

2y↑5

❤️❤️❤️❤️

@nursegaines3519

2y↑4

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@livefromtheground7274

2y↑8

Peace & Blessings Girl! You gon be alright!

@rosalyndousley

2y↑11

I start March 7th. I'll work until the day I'm gone. I believed a convincing person and trusted that their words were true. Only to give up my independence to be yelled at, cursed out, pushed around, disregarded, ignored, made to feel like a sex object. And I put up with all of it because I had no respect for myself. I'm so ready to get my own place and I swear to never make this mistake again. I hope things are great with you.

@brendalenoir2840

2y↑4

So happy for you!! Stay strong! 😊

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@svasianfilipiname6603

2y↑3

Not just the words of the man but his actions too.

@katrinaandersonward5938

Thank u Pastor Blakes. I listen to A Lot of your messages while working or doing my cardio. I have to admit this message was very helpful for 2022. I pressed replay 4 times. Thanks 🙏🏽

@lauriemendoza4671

2y↑27

When you oust a toxic person from your life their energy remains in your thoughts, emotions and the physical surroundings you shared. It takes while for the decontamination and cleanse to happen. O..but when it does you smile, begin to laugh again and feel joy. And that person looking back at you in the mirror is once again becoming someone to value and love no longer an unhappy shadow. Thank you Mr. Blakes for helping to get here with your teachings. I send you my love and respect.

@yourstruly1984

💗🌺💗

@coralharvey7957

2y↑51

I worked it out a while ago that when a man hurts a woman in any way it usually indicates a very poor self image. Amen Pastor .

@bevee3711

28w↑2

Bingo!!!! It almost makes you feel sorry for them.

@tressadavis7159

I’ve just recently started listening to you! I love love love your teachings sir. Many blessings to you & your family. May God continue to use you.

@beatricejohnson9633

2y↑3

How we treat ourselves, is how we treat others. Amen

@youtubehere1086

2y↑22

If you don’t respect yourself he can sense it go with the flow and not respect you either

@tamarat.8810

2y↑47

I love that fact that you hold women and men accountable.

@janellamurphy5665

2y↑3

I am so blessed that God is protecting my body and keeping me to remain abstinate🙏🏾🙏🏾💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿!!! Going strong 8yrs plus!! Amen!!!

@juditholeary9732

It was the best of all of your programs yet. Thank You so much. This one's a keeper. Bless You.

@JuzzMe-xu4mu

2y↑111

Ladies, we need to stop giving it away easily! You will see how things will change for the better if we all start doing this. RC, I also believe men act this way now because of the internet and all the options they now have. Another great video, thank you.

@sonjalivingston8241

2y↑9

I couldn't agree MORE

@food4thought692

2y↑4

Yes you have to respect yourself to the fullest.

@alainaharris3680

2y↑57

It’s the objectification of women using them or seeking them only for sexual gratification or supply of some superficial nature. If he’s having physical relations for clout. Notches on their belt. Dehumanizing of them and women allowing this by offering themselves up physical gratification. I agree with the arrested development. I’m a survivor of intentional disrespect and abuse. I’m now embarking on my healing journey and praying that I love myself and never question my worth or womanhood.

@lusciammusi9985

Thank you! Incredible words of wisdom! I am humbled! We need good lectures like this one!!! Will definitely follow you and read your books, you teach the real truth!!!

@yolandamccarthy8446

What a blessing.. 🙏🏽 Thank you & God bless you Pastor Blakes!!

@belindajones6518

2y↑44

It takes for a woman to respect herself which includes loving herself and knowing her worth not allowing herself to be manipulated misused or abused be prepared to say no to any given situation that does not regard her uniqueness and value

@user-fj8bt4zo3x

32w↑1

We have that trait some more than others but no he's right men have a.major impact influence on the process of a woman fully seeing her worth...

@ritadoran5039

2y↑69

We have to carry ourselves as God fearing ladies dress modestly but classy and speak words of kindness not cursing and show people in general we value the gift of womanhood The right man will respond accordingly if he's smart
My mother told me before she passed hold your head up high because your a lady 💛❤

@smileyladyT

2y↑9

Yes, we are daughters of the most High, realize we wear a crown of glory.

@profmj7630

2y↑5

Yes, ma'am!

@paradiselivinginpurpose

Ohhhh, another BOMB.
Thanks for all of this truth that God has enlightened you to see and given you the grace and eloquence to share with so many of us who NEED to hear these teachings!
I got my notebook out every time!!!
Much Love from Trinidad <3

@mornieluvyac.4688

This is my first time encountering your video. You have my utmost respect in regards to posting this video. I have subscribed. Your words of wisdom and personal story will reach many souls that might need to hear this, as there is always room for self improvement regardless of who we are. Most people will resort to temporary tangible elements in seeking superficial satisfaction/entertainment, etc. But those personalities of an individual with higher vibrations/ purpose/ and being open minded will appreciate this kind of videos. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with love and kindness. Sending blessings your way.

@selenavillarreal9951

2y↑179

Thank you RC Blake's!! I was in a very toxic possessive relationship with a narcissist he loved bombed me then he devaluated me and then he discarded me like trash. I Never had an idea that I was with a man child this man that I thought was mature at first never really grew up he had abandonment issues insecurity issues and he projected all his insecurities onto me. Thank God I left him it's been 9 months now I know the red flags and I will never be with a man child ever again.🦋 I hope Eric gets help and let go of his ego!

@hs-qk9qf

2y↑8

Sounds like the one I know in my hometown, by the same name.🤣

@pamelajasper4128

2y↑17

This is great and good for you and your renewed strength to let go. I want to offer that when you fully let go you will forget his name, not mentioned his name, not be concerned about his well being ego or anything. Let him go fully 100percent. Recog I've the mask he showed you and the real person behind it who cherishes hurting people. You are beautiful loveable and loved. Stand in that light and continue to move on. Daughters of God don't break for jerks. And the next time there is one red flag, just one, back up several steps. Seeing him daily and a red flag occurs, see him monthly. End it is better yes even after just 1 red flag. Why wait for 2 you're a fabulous woman with options.

@selenavillarreal9951

2y↑6

@@pamelajasper4128 thank you ❤️

@sharonlundy8579

2y↑12

Well said💯‼️ I agree with you, I will never turn back to any man that can't respect me far or near.

@tiffanygadsden4753

2y↑4

I really appreciate your teaching I been listening to you almost 3 yrs. I've learn alot and putting it forth in action.

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@purplelily6950

2y↑15

Giving your body too soon is similar to putting too much salt on the dish that you are cooking. You can't take it back. In the end, the dish is ruined and you need to throw it out.

@litrealred6840

2y↑3

Everyone should hear this! Thank you for telling the truth! Blessed! 🙏🏻

@taleshatipton507

wow you're so on point! I LOVE YOU AND APPRECIATE THE WORK YOU'RE DOING. LOTS OF BLESSINGS TOO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!

@ntombimngomezulu2031

2y↑35

If I had known you earlier, I wouldn't have sold my soul to the devil and allowing myself to be so used and disrespect by men. You changed the way I look at myself as a woman, in order to attract God's sent husband. Self respect, self love. Take self care. Amen pastor. God bless you abundantly🙏🙏🙏

@stephanies.3198

2y↑71

This is really blessings me. My ex husband respected his mom, showed her so much respect and cared for his daughter. But behind closed doors he wasnt the best to me. He disrespected me, publicly, humiliated me, verbally abused me, totally broke my self esteem. I allowed this behavior as his wife trying to talk to him explained how i felt, it never worked. He would cheat, lie to me, etc. I didn't understand it.

@blackkjuice

2y↑48

It was a self-hating narcissist, projecting its hatred of itself onto you

@aminahcousin9868

2y↑3

@@blackkjuice Very true! ✅

@gailmatthews8487

@mariamedel3114

2y↑3

He did this cause he knew he could.

@25marshalyn

2y↑7

This is why it is so much rubbish to think if a man treats his mother well then he will treat you well too. Rate a man based on what is in front of you, not what he displays to the public.

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@KayKay7.16

2y↑1

Pastor, this is the message I so needed and I appreciate God working through you

@sallybyrd3712

2y↑128

Disrespect for women has always been around but has increased since the 60's and 70's when women started demanding less of men. Absolutely right about the negative attitude in many churches towards women. Very good message.

@anndavis2920

women have become so co-dependent that they have lost self love and respect for themselves n dont like to be alone so they have opened themselves up to all kinds of evil from guys who hate women because they are jealous and envious of women. So sad.

@andreaberryman5354

The 60's and 70's was the sexual revolution and the women's movement. Can't get us pregnant anymore? Abortion is legal? No-fault divorce? These distespectful young men and narcissistic young women is what happens when women go to work and nobody is there when the kids get home.

@cindycrawford3891

2y↑3

I kinda disagree bcz modern society wt the gay community on the rise, and so many street drugs, prostitutes everywhere, women are treated very badly these days, hope it gets better.

@hawaiigirl8089

This is a power structure. Women’s Lib. Aka the Feminist Movement TOTALLY LIED 🤥to women by saying after the invention of Birth Control Pills 💊- WE can now date freely like a man & have casual sex.

@ithinkiknowme6450

2y↑1

Prostitution and drugs have corroded the human society since the dawn of time..stop blaming gay community for the things you wouldn't blame straight community for

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