Christmas Party
R. Kelly Lyrics


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Everything was running smooth
For the first time since you left
And regret doesn't plague my nights
With all I should have said

I can still see you there
Whispering "goodbye"
That was the day forever stopped
And something in me died

But what has happened
I never saw coming

It was the day of the Christmas party
When all my dreams and nightmares collided
Your voice rattles the deepest parts of me
Are we on or over? I haven't decided
Yeah I haven't decided
Since we collided, collided
Collided, collided

Strutting in like it's nothing
Like you didn't break my heart
Boxes and picture frames
Should have never been apart

First day worked on laying a base
Made a mix and made you laugh
Finally it was you and me
You're the counter to my rat tat tat

But what has happened
I never saw coming

It was the day of the Christmas party
When all my dreams and nightmares collided
Your voice rattles the deepest parts of me
Are we on or over? I haven't decided
Yeah I haven't decided
Since we collided, collided
Collided, collided

Twinkling lights
Hopes rise then dash into the night
You used to be mine

There's warmth when you're close
But I'm stuck out here in the bitter cold
Waiting for a thaw
Mmmm

Give it to the new year
Give it to the new year
Give it to the new year
Give it to the new year

Give it to the new year (To the new year)
Give it to the new year (To the new year)
Give it to the new year (To the new year)
Give it to the new year (To the new year)

Give it to the new year, new year
Give it to the new year, new year
Give it to the new year, new year
Give it to the new year

Give it to the new year, new year
Give it to the new year, new year
Give it to the new year, new year
Give it to the new year, new year




Give it to the new year, new year
Give it to the new year, new year

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to R. Kelly's song "Christmas Party" convey a bittersweet narrative about the aftermath of a breakup and the lingering emotions that come with it. The opening lines suggest that the singer's life had been running smoothly since their partner's departure, with nights no longer plagued by regret. However, the next line reveals that a sense of nostalgia and loss still lingers within the singer's thoughts, as they reflect upon missed opportunities and unspoken words.


The chorus introduces the central theme of the song, as the day of the Christmas party becomes a significant turning point. It represents a collision of the singer's dreams and nightmares, symbolizing the complexities and conflicting emotions that arise when encountering an ex-lover. The mention of the partner's voice rattling the deepest parts of the singer suggests a strong emotional impact, questioning the status of their relationship. The lyrics convey a sense of uncertainty, with the singer admitting they haven't decided if they are "on or over" their former partner.


The second verse continues to delve into the memories and experiences shared between the couple. The line about the partner strutting in "like it's nothing" highlights the contrasting emotions the singer feels, as they struggle to come to terms with the heartbreak caused by their ex-lover's actions. The mention of boxes and picture frames that "should have never been apart" implies a sense of loss and regret over the dissolution of their relationship.


The bridge explores the conflicting emotions of hope and despair, symbolized by twinkling lights that rise and then ultimately dash into the night. The singer longs for the warmth of their partner's presence, yet feels stuck in a metaphorical bitter cold, waiting for a resolution or reconciliation. The repetition of "Give it to the new year" in the outro suggests a plea for a fresh start and the hope that the coming year may bring some clarity and resolution to their emotional turmoil.


Line by Line Meaning

Everything was running smooth
My life was going well and without any problems


For the first time since you left
It was the first time I felt okay after you left


And regret doesn't plague my nights
I no longer feel constant regret when I go to bed at night


With all I should have said
I don't dwell on the things I wish I had said


I can still see you there
I still have memories of you in my mind


Whispering "goodbye"
Hearing your voice softly saying goodbye


That was the day forever stopped
That was the day everything changed and time stood still


And something in me died
A part of me died on that day


But what has happened
But I couldn't anticipate what was about to happen


I never saw coming
I never expected it


It was the day of the Christmas party
It happened on the day of the Christmas party


When all my dreams and nightmares collided
When my deepest desires and fears clashed together


Your voice rattles the deepest parts of me
Your voice affects me profoundly, stirring up my emotions


Are we on or over? I haven't decided
I'm uncertain if our relationship is still ongoing or if it's already ended


Yeah I haven't decided
Yes, I have yet to make a decision


Since we collided, collided
Since we clashed and came together


Collided, collided
Came together, clashed


Strutting in like it's nothing
You walked in confidently as if nothing happened


Like you didn't break my heart
As if you didn't cause me emotional pain


Boxes and picture frames
Boxes containing memories and picture frames of us


Should have never been apart
They should have never been separated


First day worked on laying a base
On the first day, we started building a foundation


Made a mix and made you laugh
I created a playlist and made you laugh


Finally it was you and me
Finally, it was just the two of us together


You're the counter to my rat tat tat
You bring balance and calmness to my rapid heartbeats


Twinkling lights
The shimmering lights of the Christmas decorations


Hopes rise then dash into the night
My hopes soar and then quickly disappear


You used to be mine
You used to belong to me


There's warmth when you're close
I feel comfort and love when you're nearby


But I'm stuck out here in the bitter cold
But I'm left feeling isolated and lonely


Waiting for a thaw
Waiting for a change or resolution


Give it to the new year
Let's entrust it to the upcoming new year


Give it to the new year
Let's entrust it to the upcoming new year


Give it to the new year
Let's entrust it to the upcoming new year


Give it to the new year
Let's entrust it to the upcoming new year


Give it to the new year (To the new year)
Let's give it to the new year (To the new year)


Give it to the new year (To the new year)
Let's give it to the new year (To the new year)


Give it to the new year (To the new year)
Let's give it to the new year (To the new year)


Give it to the new year (To the new year)
Let's give it to the new year (To the new year)


Give it to the new year, new year
Let's give it to the new year, new year


Give it to the new year, new year
Let's give it to the new year, new year


Give it to the new year, new year
Let's give it to the new year, new year


Give it to the new year, new year
Let's give it to the new year, new year


Give it to the new year, new year
Let's give it to the new year, new year


Give it to the new year, new year
Let's give it to the new year, new year


Give it to the new year, new year
Let's give it to the new year, new year


Give it to the new year, new year
Let's give it to the new year, new year




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Written by: Kelly Spencer

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jackie Hall

R Kelly is the king of R&B everyone should give him props..πŸ’•

Tayvion Johnson

@Gwen Kenny miss him so much song a classic

Gwen Kenny

I'm going to really miss him.

Gerald Hinton

He definitely the king of r&b

Judith Campbell

I love R Kelly, doesn’t matter what day it is he’s the best king of music ever he’s a legend!

Patticake Tzintzun

R. Kelly and his golden voice... love it :D

Rob Uk

Another awesome jam by R Kelly.

Tracy Porter

Classic πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯ THE KING πŸŽ§πŸŽ§πŸ‘£πŸ‘£πŸ‘£πŸ‘£πŸ‘£ OF STEPPERS AND R&B MUSIC!!!

Myra Banks

Thanks Rk for new Christmas songs. Love it

william whitaker

R Kelly a living legend stand up y'all.

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