RAYE’s debut EP 'Welcome To The Winter' was released in 2014 and was comprised of predominantly R&B sounds. After signing with Polydor Records, RAYE had her breakthrough by featuring on the 2016 singles; "By Your Side" by Jonas Blue and "You Don't Know Me" by Jax Jones. The latter, co-written by RAYE herself, would peak at number three on the UK Singles Chart. Both songs were certified platinum or higher by the BPI, and marked a shift in RAYE’s career both commercially and sonically. After releasing the 'Second' EP in 2016, RAYE released "I, U, Us" as the lead single alongside a Charli XCX directed music video. This marked the first collaboration of several between the British songwriters. RAYE later co-wrote XCX's song "After the Afterparty" and appeared on a remix version, as well as featuring on the track "Dreamer" from her 2017 mixtape 'Number 1 Angel'. RAYE was short-listed for the BBC Music Sound of... award for 2017 and was named in third place. Later in the year, RAYE released the platinum certified hit "Decline" featuring Mr. Eazi, which would serve as the lead single from her 'Side Tape' EP which followed in May 2018. In October 2018, RAYE embarked on her own headlining tour, visiting a number of cities around the UK and Ireland.
After releasing multiple singles in 2019 and 2020, RAYE’s debut mini-album, 'Euphoric Sad Songs' was released on 20 November 2020. The project featured the top 10 hit "Secrets" with Regard as well as "Regardless" with Rudimental. In early 2021, RAYE released the single "Bed" with Joel Corry and David Guetta. The song would peak at number three on the UK Singles Chart, becoming RAYE’s highest charting single as a lead artist on the chart. Later in the year, RAYE took to social media to reveal that her record label, Polydor Records, has been withholding her debut album for several years. Following the statements, RAYE disclosed in July that she is now officially an independent artist.
RAYE was brought up in a musical family - her parents met at church - both of them musicians in the parish, and her musical heritage goes right back to her Grandfather, who was a songwriter and musician in his own right. Since the age of 10, she's been writing her own music, slowly developing all the time to become the artist she is today. Along the way, RAYE has become confidently adept at various different instruments including the cello, flute, and piano, alongside honing her production skills (and learning to play the guitar). Music has always been a huge part of RAYE’s life. Brought up on the classic soul/jazz maestros of the 40's and 50's like Nina Simone, Ella Fitzgerald, Nat King Cole etc - this is where her love for songwriting and melody began. Since then her influences, have aligned with the times, citing Drake, and her all time hero Lauryn Hill as huge sources of inspiration.
Body Dysmorphia
RAYE Lyrics
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I'm so hungry, I can't sleep
But I know if I eat
Then I'll be in the bathroom on my knees
I hate the way my face is square
I hate my arms inside these sleeves
For this hourglass we all desire
I wear three corsets underneath
XL T-shirts, baggy jeans
So I don't have to stress about it
Marijuana every day, so I cannot obsess about it
How can I expect you to romance me
Touch my body, baby?
I don't even want to take it off for you
So turn the lights off
And I don't really like my body
But knowing it's my only body
I should pro'ly call somebody
I should really show you how I'm feeling inside
Matter fact, I'm glad you called me
I've been hiding, I been high
And I've been sleeping hungry
I hug my knees, I squeeze my waist
There's so much that I want to change
Yes, lately I've been thinking 'bout the ways to rearrange my face
I wanna cut pieces off
Looking in the mirror
Want to take a pair of scissors
Sadly, dear, I wanna cut pieces off
Lately, I've been so depressed about it
No one sees what I can see and I'm so fuckin' scared about it
How can I expect you to romance me
Touch my body, baby?
I don't want to take it off for you
Until you turn the lights off
And I don't really like my body
But knowing it's my only body
I should pro'ly call somebody
I should really show you how I'm feeling inside
Matter fact, I'm glad you called me
I've been hiding, I been high
And I've been sleeping hungry
I think when I grow older I'm going to get a nose job
I have a bump in my nose and it's ugly
When I grow up I want to be skinny but with an hourglass figure
I hope I'll be pretty when I grow up or I think I'll be sad
The lyrics to RAYE's song "Body Dysmorphia" delve into the artist's struggles with body image and self-esteem. The opening lines describe the harmful behaviors she engages in, such as pinching her skin and starving herself, due to her dissatisfaction with her appearance. She recognizes that if she eats, she will feel compelled to purge in the bathroom. RAYE expresses her dislike for certain aspects of her body, such as her square face and arms, and reveals that she wears multiple corsets to achieve the desired hourglass figure.
The song highlights the lengths to which RAYE goes in order to hide her insecurities. She wears oversized clothes like XL t-shirts and baggy jeans to avoid drawing attention to her body. Using marijuana daily serves as a way to distract herself from obsessing over her appearance. RAYE questions how she can expect someone to be intimate with her or appreciate her body when she can't even bear to take her clothes off for them. She expresses a sense of detachment from her own body and a lack of desire to reveal herself physically.
Despite her negative feelings about her body, RAYE acknowledges that it is her only body and contemplates seeking help and opening up to someone. She admits to hiding her struggles and using substances to cope with her emotions. The pain she experiences is palpable in lyrics like "I've been sleeping hungry" and "I've been hiding, I've been high." RAYE discusses her desire to alter her physical appearance, even considering extreme measures like cutting pieces off her body with scissors, showing the extent of her distorted self-perception.
In the closing lines, RAYE reflects on her hopes for the future. She mentions wanting to have a nose job to fix a bump that she considers ugly. She also expresses the desire to be skinny while maintaining an hourglass figure. Her thoughts reveal the pressure she feels to conform to society's beauty standards and her fear of being unhappy if she doesn't meet them.
Overall, "Body Dysmorphia" provides a raw and honest portrayal of the artist's struggles with body image, the destructive behaviors she engages in, and her longing for acceptance and love.
Line by Line Meaning
I let my fingers pinch my skin
I engage in harmful self-harm behaviors, using my fingers to pinch my skin, which reflects my dissatisfaction with my body.
I'm so hungry, I can't sleep
My obsession with my body and appearance has led me to restrict my food intake to the point of extreme hunger, interfering with my ability to sleep.
But I know if I eat
Then I'll be in the bathroom on my knees
When I do give in to my hunger and eat, it triggers feelings of guilt and shame, resulting in engaging in purging behaviors in the bathroom.
I hate the way my face is square
I hate my arms inside these sleeves
I have a deep dislike for the shape of my face, as well as the appearance of my arms when covered by sleeves, highlighting the extent of my body dissatisfaction.
For this hourglass we all desire
I wear three corsets underneath
In pursuit of the coveted hourglass figure, which society idealizes, I resort to wearing multiple corsets underneath my clothes to artificially create the appearance of a smaller waist.
XL T-shirts, baggy jeans
So I don't have to stress about it
I choose to wear oversized clothing, such as XL T-shirts and baggy jeans, as a coping mechanism to hide the flaws I perceive in my body, alleviating some of my anxiety and stress.
Marijuana every day, so I cannot obsess about it
I rely on the consistent use of marijuana to escape from the constant obsessive thoughts and preoccupations I have regarding my body and appearance.
How can I expect you to romance me
Touch my body, baby?
I don't even want to take it off for you
So turn the lights off
Due to my deep insecurity and dissatisfaction with my body, I struggle to feel comfortable and worthy of romantic intimacy. I prefer to keep the lights off and avoid exposing my body to avoid judgment and rejection.
And I don't really like my body
But knowing it's my only body
I should pro'ly call somebody
I should really show you how I'm feeling inside
Despite my dislike for my body, I recognize that it is the only body I have, and this realization makes me contemplate seeking help and support from someone to express the emotional turmoil I experience internally.
Matter fact, I'm glad you called me
I've been hiding, I been high
And I've been sleeping hungry
The fact that you reached out to me is comforting because I have been isolating myself, turning to substance use, and enduring periods of hunger-induced sleep, all of which are unhealthy coping mechanisms.
I hug my knees, I squeeze my waist
There's so much that I want to change
In moments of distress, I resort to squeezing my waist and hugging my knees, demonstrating the overwhelming desire I have to alter various aspects of my body in order to conform to societal beauty standards.
Yes, lately I've been thinking 'bout the ways to rearrange my face
I wanna cut pieces off
Looking in the mirror
Want to take a pair of scissors
Sadly, dear, I wanna cut pieces off
In a state of dissatisfaction and despair, I constantly contemplate and fantasize about surgically altering my face, even to the extent of wanting to physically cut parts of it off with scissors, highlighting the severity of my body dysmorphia.
Lately, I've been so depressed about it
No one sees what I can see and I'm so fuckin' scared about it
I have been experiencing intense sadness and depression due to my body dysmorphia. The isolation arises from the fact that others cannot perceive and understand the distorted image I have of myself, leading to a profound sense of fear.
I think when I grow older I'm going to get a nose job
I have a bump in my nose and it's ugly
Looking towards the future, I contemplate undergoing a nose job to change the appearance of my nose, specifically to remove a bump that I consider unattractive.
When I grow up I want to be skinny but with an hourglass figure
I hope I'll be pretty when I grow up or I think I'll be sad
As I envision my future, my desire is to attain a thin physique while maintaining the desired hourglass figure. I fear that if I don't achieve this ideal of beauty, I will experience ongoing sadness and dissatisfaction.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Rachel Agatha Keen, Mike Sabath
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I let my fingers pinch my skin
I'm so hungry, I can't sleep
But I know if I eat
Then I'll be in the bathroom on my knees
I hate the way my face is square
I hate my arms inside these sleeves
For this "hourglass" we all desire
I wear 3 corsets underneath
XL T-shirts, baggy jeans
So I don't have to stress about it
Marijuana every day, so I cannot obsess about it
How can I expect you to romance me
Touch my body, baby
I don't even want to take it off for you
So turn the lights off
And I don't really like my body
But knowing it's my only body
I should pro'ly call somebody
I should really show you how I'm feeling inside
Matter fact, I'm glad you called me
I've been hiding, I been high
And I've been sleeping hungry
I hug my knees, I squeeze my waist
There's so much that I want to change
Yes, lately I've been thinking 'bout the ways to rearrange my face
I wanna cut pieces off
Looking in the mirror
Want to take a pair of scissors
Sadly dear
I wanna cut pieces off
Lately, I've been so depressed about it
No one sees what I can see and I'm so fuckin' scared about it
How can I expect you to romance me
Touch my body, baby
I don't want to take it off for you
Until you turn the lights off
And I don't really like my body
But knowing it's my only body
I should pro'ly call somebody
I should really show you how I'm feeling inside
Matter fact, I'm glad you called me
I've been hiding, I been high
And I've been sleeping hungry
I think when I grow older I'm going to get a nose job
I have a bump in my nose and it's ugly
When I grow up I want to be skinny but with an "hourglass figure"
I hope I'll be pretty when I grow up or I think I'll be sad
Emmanuel Trejos
I'm so proud of you, RAYE! I truly appreciate the fact that you decided to be an independent artist so your true voice can be heard. This album is incredible!
AN44
I agree!!!😭🫶🏾
MF
No cap.
R
YESS
Lisa
This album is so beautiful in the story-telling, lyrics, metaphorical meaning, the production, everything has been crafted so incredible. i’m in awe Raye
Crz4tay
Whats awe
sophie harris
@Crz4tay a feeling of reverential respect mixed with fear or wonder.
Komrak S.
im grateful for this album ❤️ listening to the whole of it the first time tonight and just felt overwhelmed with feelings
Tanaya JD.
I had no idea she felt like this! I'm a new fan and I was mainly drawn to the fact that she is so gorgeous and her voice matches. This is such a deep album.
xHachiko Shan
this song had me in tears and then it got to the ending with the little girl and i lost it. i wish i could accept every part of my body and be happy with it. 😢