화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자
Rain Lyrics


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뭐야 너 어떻게 된거야
갑자기 날 싫어한다니
이제야 니가 좋다는데
왜 그런 말하는거야
널 좋아한다고 수없이
말을 해도 모른 척 했잖아
이제와 왜 화를 내
날 무시하면서 바보 취급하면서
이용했던 걸 모를까봐
사람들이 말하더군
여자란게 원래 그렇다고
잘해주면 달아나다가도
차갑게 대하면
또 돌아오고는 하더라고
그래 그게 바로 여자야
그래서 잘못된게 뭔데
가질수 없는게 좋은건
여자란 원래 그런 걸
판도라의 상자 에덴이 난 떠올라
그런 얘기라면 이제 지긋지긋해
좋아한다는데 왜 계산이 필요해
마음을 열면 되는 일을
좋아할때 받으라고
몇 번이나 말하고 싶었어
싫다고 해야 받아준다면
그런 이상한 마음
갖기도 싫어 필요없어
왜 그렇게 이해를 못해
남자가 원래 그렇지만
처음엔 느낌 없었지만
이젠 널 좋아한다고
너를 좋아한다면 oh yes
이젠 받아줄건지 like this
아직 믿을 수 없어
oh no can't you see
여자란 그렇다고 oh yes
마음이 변해서는 like that
차버리진 않을지
l know this is Adam
언제나 이런식일 뿐야
남자란 이름의 사람들
뭔지 거창한말은 해도
결국에 뭐하나 못해
뭐야 넌 어떻게 할거야
올거야 말거야 결정해




바보 같은 생각은 접고
그냥 날 좋아해버려

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Rain's song 화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자 (The Man From Mars, The Woman From Venus) depicts the complexities and nuances of a romantic relationship from a male perspective. The song begins with the male protagonist expressing confusion after his partner abruptly starts disliking him for no apparent reason. Despite having repeatedly expressed his fondness for her, she had pretended not to know until recently. The man wonders what he had done wrong and starts questioning whether he was being taken advantage of. The lyrics also comment on the stereotype that women tend to run away when they are treated well, but return if they are ignored or mistreated. The male protagonist seems resentful of this idea as he feels that he is treated like a fool by his partner.


As the song progresses, the man reflects on the nature of relationships, likening them to Pandora's Box and the Garden of Eden, where what you cannot have is what seems most desirable. The lyrics suggest that the man is frustrated with the woman's apparent inability to reciprocate his feelings without playing games or being calculating. He argues that opening one's heart is all that's needed in order to love. The lyrics, on the whole, seem to question the idea of gender roles in relationships and the complexities that come with them. The man seems to want simplicity and straightforwardness rather than the game-playing usually associated with romance.


Overall, Rain's "The Man from Mars, The Woman from Venus" uses poetic lyrics to explore the complexities of romantic relationships in a gendered world, where both men and women are expected to adhere to certain norms and behaviors.


Line by Line Meaning

뭐야 너 어떻게 된거야
What happened to you? Why do you suddenly hate me?


갑자기 날 싫어한다니
You suddenly hate me


이제야 니가 좋다는데
Now you say you like me


왜 그런 말하는거야
Why are you saying that?


널 좋아한다고 수없이
I've told you countless times that I like you


말을 해도 모른 척 했잖아
But you pretended not to hear me


이제와 왜 화를 내
Why are you getting mad now?


날 무시하면서 바보 취급하면서
You ignored me and treated me like a fool


이용했던 걸 모를까봐
Maybe because you didn't realize that I was being used


사람들이 말하더군
People say


여자란게 원래 그렇다고
That's just how women are


잘해주면 달아나다가도
They run away when treated well


차갑게 대하면
But if you treat them coldly


또 돌아오고는 하더라고
They come back around again


그래 그게 바로 여자야
Yes, that's just how women are


그래서 잘못된게 뭔데
So what's wrong with that?


가질수 없는게 좋은건
Sometimes it's better not to have what you can't have


여자란 원래 그런 걸
That's just how women are


판도라의 상자 에덴이 난 떠올라
I think of the story of Pandora's Box and the Garden of Eden


그런 얘기라면 이제 지긋지긋해
It's getting tiresome to hear that kind of story


좋아한다는데 왜 계산이 필요해
Why do I need to do some calculation when I like you?


마음을 열면 되는 일을
All I have to do is open my heart


좋아할때 받으라고
When you like someone, just accept them


몇 번이나 말하고 싶었어
I wanted to say it so many times


싫다고 해야 받아준다면
If saying no will make you accept it


그런 이상한 마음
Then it's a strange feeling


갖기도 싫어 필요없어
I don't even want to have such feelings, it's not necessary


왜 그렇게 이해를 못해
Why can't you understand?


남자가 원래 그렇지만
That's just how men are


처음엔 느낌 없었지만
At first, I didn't have any feeling


이젠 널 좋아한다고
But now I like you


너를 좋아한다면 oh yes
If I like you, oh yes


이젠 받아줄건지 like this
Will you accept me now? Like this


아직 믿을 수 없어
I still can't believe it


oh no can't you see
Oh no, can't you see?


여자란 그렇다고 oh yes
That's how women are, oh yes


마음이 변해서는 like that
If my heart changes, like that


차버리진 않을지
Will you stay true?


l know this is Adam
I know this is Adam


언제나 이런식일 뿐야
It's always like this


남자란 이름의 사람들
People with the name Man


뭔지 거창한말은 해도
Can say grand words,


결국에 뭐하나 못해
But in the end, can't do anything


뭐야 넌 어떻게 할거야
What are you going to do?


올거야 말거야 결정해
Whether to come or not, decide


바보 같은 생각은 접고
Stop being foolish


그냥 날 좋아해버려
Just like me




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Si Hyuk Bang, Do Hoon Kim, Mi Sun Kim

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