Where there is love there is war
Randy Coleman Lyrics


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the first time that you said "I don't feel you anymore" was the first time that you fed me
and it opened up the door
yeah you opened up the door
and what I know now is for sure where there is love there is war when you told me that
I hurt you that I made you cry
you turned around and you faced me with such forgiving eyes and you opened up the door
and what I know now is for sure where there is love there is war
and I won't fight it anymore baby you're just like Pearl Harbor you're blind siding me like no other there's no in between but what I really mean is to say the light upon your face I won't forget the time or place when everything that was will always be




Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Randy Coleman's song "Where There Is Love There Is War" are deeply introspective and explore the complexities of love and conflict in a relationship. The first time the singer's partner expressed their detachment with the phrase "I don't feel you anymore," it represented a turning point for them. Though it hurt at first, this moment was also transformative in opening up the door to real communication and a deeper understanding between the couple. The second verse further explores the interplay of love and war by acknowledging past hurts and how forgiveness has the power to heal deep wounds. The chorus reiterates the theme of love being a source of conflict but ultimately the singer seems to accept this as an inevitable part of relationships.


One interpretation of these lyrics is that the singer is grappling with the idea that every relationship will have its ups and downs and its fair share of conflict. However, they have learned that conflict can be an opportunity for growth and are willing to face whatever comes their way with their partner by their side. The reference to Pearl Harbor in the bridge could suggest that the singer feels blindsided and attacked by their partner at times but ultimately is willing to look past this and focus on the beautiful moments they share.


Line by Line Meaning

the first time that you said 'I don't feel you anymore' was the first time that you fed me
When you expressed your feelings of detachment from me, it was like feeding me with the knowledge that our relationship was not as strong as it once was.


and it opened up the door
It allowed me to see the possibility that our relationship may not survive.


yeah you opened up the door
Your words allowed me to see the reality of our situation.


and what I know now is for sure where there is love there is war when you told me that
Through experiencing the conflict that arises in a relationship, I have come to understand that love can sometimes lead to battles between two people.


I hurt you that I made you cry
It was painful for me to see that I caused you emotional pain and made you cry.


you turned around and you faced me with such forgiving eyes and you opened up the door
Despite my actions, you forgave me and opened the door for us to work towards healing our relationship.


and what I know now is for sure where there is love there is war
I have learned that while love can bring immense joy, it can also lead to conflict and strife.


and I won't fight it anymore baby you're just like Pearl Harbor you're blind siding me like no other there's no in between
I have come to accept that conflict will arise in our relationship and recognize that sometimes you blindside me, like the sudden attack on Pearl Harbor with nowhere to go except to face the situation head-on.


but what I really mean is to say the light upon your face I won't forget the time or place when everything that was will always be
Despite the challenges we may face, I will always cherish the moments when I see the glow in your eyes and remember the times when everything felt right and will forever hold onto those memories.




Writer(s): Randy Coleman Copyright: Randy Coleman Music, Warner-tamerlane Publishing Corp.

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