A Quitter
Rasputina Lyrics


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I have worked out every small detail
In this plan I've made.
This thing which cannot fail.
I dare myself to do this one thing.
You can have my car
You can have everything.
All that's good is gone.
I have tried too long.
I don't think I miss my mom & dad,
The class I cut,
The friends I never had.,
These things I won't miss,
Won't miss me.
My house,
My block,
The baby bird I set free.
The dance that I was never asked to,
The teachers
that thought they knew me.
They'll all remember what I did.
They'll ask "Whose fault was it?"
"Oh she was just a kid."

I'll be glad to go, you see.




You don't even know me.
Not at all.

Overall Meaning

In Rasputina's song "A Quitter," the lyrics are from the perspective of someone who is planning to take their own life. The singer has meticulously planned out every aspect of their final act, describing it as a "thing which cannot fail." They offer up their possessions to someone else, stating that all that's good is gone, and admitting they have tried too long. The singer goes on to say they will not miss the people and experiences from their life, including their parents, the classmates and friends they never had, and even the baby bird they set free. The singer seems resigned to their fate, saying they'll be glad to go and that nobody really knows them at all.


The lyrics of "A Quitter" are gut-wrenching and powerful, exploring the inner turmoil and desperation of suicidal ideation. The singer's tone is both sad and matter-of-fact, as they have seemingly already made up their mind to take their own life. The song also touches on the idea of how people's actions are perceived by others after they are gone, with the singer imagining others talking about them and asking whose fault it was.


Overall, "A Quitter" is a hauntingly beautiful song that shines a light on mental health, suicide, and the lasting impact of our actions on others.


Line by Line Meaning

I have worked out every small detail
I have meticulously planned every aspect of this decision


In this plan I've made.
The decision I've made and the actions I'll take are part of a larger plan


This thing which cannot fail.
I am confident in the success of my plan


I dare myself to do this one thing.
I am challenging myself to follow through with this decision


You can have my car
I am willing to give up all of my possessions


You can have everything.
I have no attachment to material possessions


All that's good is gone.
I am not holding onto anything positive from my past


I have tried too long.
I have struggled for too long and am ready to let go


I don't think I miss my mom & dad,
I do not feel a strong emotional connection to my parents


The class I cut,
I do not regret skipping classes


The friends I never had.
I did not have meaningful relationships with my peers


These things I won't miss,
I have no fond memories or attachment to these aspects of my past


Won't miss me.
They will not miss me either


My house,
My physical dwelling


My block,
My neighborhood and surroundings


The baby bird I set free.
I have no emotional attachment to even small instances of my past


The dance that I was never asked to,
I did not have a fulfilling social life in the past


The teachers that thought they knew me.
I did not feel seen or understood by my educators


They'll all remember what I did.
Others will be impacted by my decision


They'll ask "Whose fault was it?"
Others will question who is responsible for my actions


"Oh she was just a kid."
Others will excuse my actions due to my young age and lack of life experience


I'll be glad to go, you see.
I am ready to move on from my past


You don't even know me.
Others do not truly understand who I am or have experienced what I have




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Written by: MELORA CREAGER

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