You Don’t Know Me
Ray Charles & Diana Krall Lyrics


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You give your hand to me
And then you say hello
And I can hardly speak
My heart is beating so
And anyone can tell
You think you know me well
But you don't know me
No you don't know the one
Who dreams of you at night
And longs to kiss your lips
Longs to hold you tight
Oh I am just a friend
That's all I've ever been
Cause you don't know me

I never knew the art of making love
No my heart aches with love for you
Afraid and shy I let my chance go by
The chance that you might love me too

You give your hand to me
And then you say goodbye
I watch you walk away beside the lucky guy
Oh you will never know
The one who loves you so
Well you don't know me

You give your hand to me
And then you say goodbye
I watch you walk away beside the lucky guy
Oh you will never know
The one who loves you so
'Cause you don't know me




Oh no you don't know me
Oh you don't know me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Ray Charles' song "You Don't Know Me" featuring Diana Krall express a heartfelt lament from an unrequited lover. The song's verses describe the ritual of greeting, but the singer's emotion causes his heart to skip a beat, making it difficult for him to speak. While the singer’s beloved thinks that they know him well, he reveals that she doesn't really know the depths of the singer’s emotions. They are unaware of the infatuation that he feels, the one who dreams of her at night, and longs to kiss her lips and hold her tightly. The chorus iterates that despite her being a friend, she doesn't truly know him.


The lyrics’ second verse highlights the fact that the singer has always been just a friend to his beloved, and he laments that he never learned the art of making love, so he’s unable to declare his love to her. He says that his heart aches with love for her, and he's afraid and shy, and that's why he let the chance go by. The final chorus repeats the earlier lines, underscoring the deeper message that she doesn't know the person he is or the love he has to offer.


Line by Line Meaning

You give your hand to me
You greet me with a handshake


And then you say hello
You greet me with a hello


And I can hardly speak
I am filled with so much emotion that I struggle to form words


My heart is beating so
My heart is beating rapidly with excitement


And anyone can tell
It is obvious to others


You think you know me well
You believe you understand me deeply


But you don't know me
But you actually do not know the inner workings of my heart


No you don't know the one
You are not knowledgeable about the person


Who dreams of you at night
The one who dreams of being with you in their sleep


And longs to kiss your lips
The one who yearns to lock lips with you


Longs to hold you tight
The one who desires to embrace and hold you close


Oh I am just a friend
I am only a platonic companion


That's all I've ever been
I have never been more than a friend


Cause you don't know me
Because you do not truly know who I am


I never knew the art of making love
I am inexperienced in the ways of physical intimacy


No my heart aches with love for you
However, my heart is filled with deep love and affection for you


Afraid and shy I let my chance go by
I was too timid and scared to take a risk and missed out on an opportunity


The chance that you might love me too
The opportunity for you to reciprocate my love


And then you say goodbye
You bid me farewell


I watch you walk away beside the lucky guy
I observe you leaving with a fortunate gentleman


Oh you will never know
You will never realize


The one who loves you so
The person who loves you deeply and passionately


Well you don't know me
But in reality, you don't actually know who I truly am


Oh no you don't know me
You do not truly comprehend who I am


Oh you don't know me
Truly, you do not know me




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Cindy Walker, Eddy Arnold

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@barryshannahan5988

Don’t we all have someone, somewhere in our lives that this applies to?

@navarroadams

I'm so falling for this track ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@judylmb8254

There is just no one on the planet that sounds like this great entertainer. Ray Charles, one of the greats that we will never forget.

@chipgaasche4933

Brook Benton is close.

@pldilliner9490

Yes for sure. Ray Charles will always be one of our greatest musicians, naturally talented & enjoyed making people happy; a beautiful person and a blessing to all of us who were honored by his music. 🌺🤗Leilani

@m1patriot327

2023 and it STILL TAKES MY BREATH AWAY! RIP Mr. Charles. Job well done! 🙏

@dmitrystetsenko7688

Diana justified Ray's honoured invitation and showed her best vocal abilities. And Ray is Ray, so this duet's song immediately became classic forever. Just wonderful 🥰 Love Diana 💖. RIP Ray.

@richardhartford609

I remember when Diana started out thinking she didn't have an adequate voice. Well this rendition demolished any such doubt.

@beverlyharris9859

❤😊 SENSATIONAL BEAUTIFUL HEAVENLY AMAZING AWESOME WONDERFUL PHENOMENAL EXTRAORDINARY!!!!!!

@anittawhite1461

Just so lovely two beautiful voices❤❤

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