In The Heat Of The Night
Ray Parker Jr. Lyrics


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He promises you things'll be different
If you just give him one more try
Want so bad to believe
Though you know it's just another lie

Wants to know if he can come over
And that he's sorry β€˜bout the other night
Though your mind says no
Your heart tells him it's alright

Deep in the night
Promises you love forever
Don't you know better, girl
Than to believe a man

In the heat of the night (Heat of the night)
There's nothin' but promises (Heat of the night)
Heat of the night (Heat of the night)
Be careful, baby (Heat of the night), whoa

He starts with touching you all over
Whispering sweet nothings in your ear
Though you know it's jive
At the time it's what you want to hear

I am intelligent enough to know better
But you just for a moment get weak
As nature takes control
And you start to feel the heat, oh, hoo, hoo

Then the next day you're wondering why
β€œWhy me, oh, why me”
You got caught, baby
With your defenses down

In the heat of the night (Heat of the night)
Nothin' but lies (Heat of the night)
Heat of the night (Heat of the night), whoa
Heat of the night, baby (Heat of the night), whoa

His passion made you think
He loved only you
When he slipped and cried out another woman's name
You shoulda knew

You'll never see the truth
Till he's through (He's just been usin' you)
You should have known better, girl
Than to believe a man

In the heat of the night, baby (Heat of the night)
There's nothin' but promises (Heat of the night)
Heat of the night (Heat of the night)
Baby, why must you get burned to learn (Heat of the night)

In the heat of the night (Heat of the night)
There's nothin' but promises (Heat of the night)
You shoulda known better, girl (Heat of the night)
Than to believe a man in the heat of the night (Heat of the night), whoa





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Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Ray Parker Jr.'s song "In The Heat of the Night" explore the familiar theme of a woman being drawn back into an unhealthy relationship by her emotions. The song describes the man as promising change and expressing remorse for past mistakes, but ultimately the promises are just lies. Despite the woman's knowledge that the man is not trustworthy, her desire for love and attention leads her to lower her defenses and give in to him. The lyrics suggest that in the heat of the moment, people can make poor decisions and ignore their better judgment, but ultimately the truth will come out and they will be left with regret.


The chorus of the song emphasizes the idea that the heat of the night, with its passionate moments and intense emotions, can cloud people's judgment and cause them to make unwise decisions. The warning to "be careful, baby" suggests that the singer knows from experience that giving in to passion without considering the consequences can lead to pain and regret. The bridge of the song describes a specific scenario where the woman discovers that the man has been using her and does not truly care for her. The final repetition of the chorus emphasizes the lesson learned from this experience: that people should know better than to believe someone who promises the world in the heat of the moment.


Line by Line Meaning

He promises you things'll be different
He is making false promises that things will be different after one more chance.


If you just give him one more try
He is asking for another chance to change things despite having a history of false promises.


Want so bad to believe
Despite knowing the man's history of lying, there is a desire to believe him and give him another chance.


Though you know it's just another lie
The listener is aware that the man is not truthful and these are just empty promises.


Wants to know if he can come over
The man wants to come over despite the previous night's events causing issues between them.


And that he's sorry β€˜bout the other night
He is apologizing for the previous night's events that caused problems between them.


Though your mind says no
Despite knowing better, the heart is struggling to say no to him.


Your heart tells him it's alright
The heart is disregarding the mind and telling him that everything is okay.


Deep in the night
It is late at night when he makes these promises and tries to come back.


Promises you love forever
He is promising love forever, despite the listener's knowledge that he has previously lied.


Don't you know better, girl
The singer is warning the listener to be cautious and not fall for the man's empty promises.


Than to believe a man
The singer is cautioning the listener to not believe a man who has a history of lying and false promises.


There's nothin' but promises
In the heat of the moment, there is nothing but empty promises and lies.


He starts with touching you all over
The man starts by touching the listener all over, despite her misgivings and knowledge that his promises are lies.


Whispering sweet nothings in your ear
The man is whispering sweet words to the listener, despite the listener's knowledge that he is not truthful.


Though you know it's jive
Despite knowing that it is all false promises and lies, the listener is still swept up in the moment.


At the time it's what you want to hear
The listener is hearing what she wants to hear, even if it is not truthful or genuine.


I am intelligent enough to know better
The listener knows better than to fall for these empty promises and lies.


But you just for a moment get weak
Despite knowing better, the listener's weakness causes her to give him another chance.


As nature takes control
The listener's natural instinct overrides her better judgment and causes her to give in to him.


And you start to feel the heat
The listener is feeling the passion and desire that the man is causing in the moment.


Then the next day you're wondering why
The listener realizes the next day that she has made a mistake by giving him another chance.


β€œWhy me, oh, why me”
The listener is questioning why she always falls for these empty promises and lies, despite knowing better.


You got caught, baby
The listener got caught up in the man's lies and empty promises once again.


With your defenses down
The listener was vulnerable and had her defenses down, allowing the man to sweep her up in the moment.


His passion made you think
The passion that the man showed made the listener believe that he loved only her.


He loved only you
The listener is led to believe that the man only loves her, despite his history of lying and false promises.


When he slipped and cried out another woman's name
The man revealed that he was not truthful by saying another woman's name in the heat of the moment.


You shoulda knew
The listener should have known better than to believe his empty promises and lies.


Till he's through
The listener will not see the truth until the man is finished using her.


He's just been usin' you
The singer is revealing that the man has been using the listener all along despite his empty promises and lies.


Baby, why must you get burned to learn
The singer is asking why the listener must always get hurt before learning that the man is not truthful or genuine.


You shoulda known better, girl
The singer is warning the listener that she should have known better than to believe the man's empty promises and lies.




Lyrics Β© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: RAY ERSKINE PARKER

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Comments from YouTube:

@cbjrcher1

Ray was one of the great songwriters of the 70s-80s timeframe. Great lyrics as well as musicianship

@dolliehyatt7486

Bring back memories when me and my daughters' father were dating in the early 80's. This song is classic. I wonder what Ray Parker Jr. is doing now? I don't hear any of his songs being played on the radio anymore. He was very talented.

@thomwest1724

❀️🎼🎀🎸Sweet MemoriesπŸ“»

@OLIVER949OC2

Very underrated

@marving.harden7840

Love the soulful sounds of #RayParkerJr.. Be careful baby.
Next day you wondering why. talk that talk Ray. You shouldn't known better. than to believe a man in the heat of the night. 🌑✨😎

@monicatranquilli8566

Classe, eleganza, Γ¨ la musica giusta anche oggi per un incontro speciale.

@tropicaldreams354

This song is awesome yet so true as well

@walterbrown798

WHY must you learn to get burn ? Then after you burn the next guy who tries to love you !

@walterbrown2997

# Ray Parker jr. Vs Brian McKnight now that would be a versus Battle of all-time of the the song makers who could lose the Savage Beast of a Black Women πŸ‘

@ErinElisescorpio

I have been looking for this song forever loved it. Ray parker should be unsung this song brings back great memories.WHAT HAPPEN TO RAY PARKER why did he stop singing where is he?Well anyway miss you ray loved your songs.

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