Buying Her Roses
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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I took him for granted
Now looking back at it
He's not the only one to blame
Between the jobs and the kids
Wasn't much time for him
We let the fire slip away from the flame

Guess I shouldn't be surprised
But as hard as I try
I can't believe it's happened to me
But I know where he's at
And I know it's a fact
I'd have to be blind not to see

[Chorus]
He's out buying her roses
And where that leaves me God only knows
I know I should tell him
To leave me forever
But what'll I do if he goes

Should I put up a fight
Does it matter who's right
Should I ruin my life or my pride
Can we save what we had
And if he comes back
Will I ever get it out of my mind

[Chorus: x2]





What'll I do if he goes
What'll I do if he goes

Overall Meaning

The song 'Buying Her Roses' by Reba McEntire is about a woman who realizes that she has taken her husband for granted and as a result, he's slipping away from her. The first verse sets the scene and suggests that the woman is aware that neither of them is entirely to blame for the distance that's come between them. She acknowledges that their jobs and the responsibilities of parenting took up much of their time, resulting in their connection losing its spark. The second verse sees the woman coming to terms with the fact that her husband is seeing someone else, as evidenced by the fact that he's buying another woman roses. She's struggling to accept this reality, but she still doesn't know what to do about it. She contemplates fighting for her marriage but then questions if it's worth it, and if she even has the energy and courage to do so.


Overall, the lyrics of the song are reflective, contemplative, and laced with a hint of sadness. The woman has realized her mistakes, but it might be too late to fix the damage. The song is about coming to terms with one's limitations and recognizing that sometimes, love isn't enough to save a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I took him for granted
I did not appreciate him as much as I should have


Now looking back at it
After some time has passed, I can see what I did wrong


He's not the only one to blame
We both had some part in letting our relationship deteriorate


Between the jobs and the kids
We were both busy with our careers and raising our children


Wasn't much time for him
We did not spend enough quality time together


We let the fire slip away from the flame
We allowed our love to fade away


Guess I shouldn't be surprised
I should have seen this coming


But as hard as I try
Even though I am putting forth effort


I can't believe it's happened to me
I find it hard to accept that this is happening to me


But I know where he's at
I am aware of what he is doing


And I know it's a fact
I am certain that it is true


I'd have to be blind not to see
It is so obvious that I cannot ignore it


He's out buying her roses
He is doing something romantic for another woman


And where that leaves me God only knows
I am uncertain what this means for our relationship


I know I should tell him
I realize that I need to have a conversation with him


To leave me forever
That he should end the relationship permanently


But what'll I do if he goes
I am unsure how I will handle it if he decides to leave


Should I put up a fight
Should I resist and try to keep him from leaving


Does it matter who's right
Is it important to determine who is at fault


Should I ruin my life or my pride
Is it worth damaging my life or my self-esteem to keep him


Can we save what we had
Is there a chance to salvage our relationship


And if he comes back
If he returns to me


Will I ever get it out of my mind
Will I ever forget what he did


What'll I do if he goes
I am still uncertain how I will respond to him leaving




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: JOSEPH A. DOYLE, RICK PEOPLES

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