Sleeping With The Telephone
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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I knew who he was
When I took his name
But somehow knowin'
Is just not the same late at night
He knows the danger
But he does what he does
He calls it duty
But I call it love
So here I am
While he's gone
To some foreign land

And I cry
'Cause I'm all alone
And the nights get so cold and long
And I try not to think he won't come home
But I'm sleeping with the telephone

The yellow ribbon on my neighbor's gate
Always reminds me that someone's awake
Just like me
I hear the sirens
And I watch the news
He laughs and leaves with his gun
And his blue uniform
And I pray God keeps him safe from harm

And I cry
'Cause I'm all alone
And the nights get so cold and long
And I try not to think he won't come home
But I'm sleeping with the telephone

I loose him in my darkest dreams
And my blood runs cold and my heart skips a beat
So I get up, I can't take anymore
Sometimes I hate how much I love him
But everyday I love him more

And I try not to think he won't come home
But I'm sleeping with the telephone





Something awakes me from where he should be
I reach for him, the telephone rings

Overall Meaning

In Sleeping with the Telephone, Reba McEntire and Faith Hill sing about the emotional impact of being in a relationship with someone who is serving in the military. The song reflects the inner turmoil that the singer goes through as a result of knowing that their partner is facing danger every day, and how they struggle with the fear of losing them. The opening lines "I knew who he was/When I took his name/But somehow knowin'/Is just not the same late at night" suggest that while the singer may have known what she was signing up for, the reality of her partner's job hits her the hardest during the late, lonely hours of the night.


The lyrics depict the difficult cycle of fear, hope, and helplessness that many military spouses and partners experience when they send their loved ones off to combat. The singer watches as her partner leaves for duty, knowing that he is answering the call of duty or love of country, but also realizing that his job is fraught with danger. The lines "He calls it duty/But I call it love/So here I am/While he's gone/To some foreign land" demonstrate the complexity of the situation. The singer supports her partner because she loves him, but it still hurts to know that he might not come back.


As the song progresses, the singer shares her struggles with loneliness and fear, but also provides a glimpse of hope. The lines "But everyday I love him more" reflect the strength of the love that the two share, and suggest that despite the difficult circumstances, the singer still believes that her partner will come back to her. In the end, the ringing phone awakens the singer, and the audience is left wondering whether the call is good news or bad. The final lines of the song convey the uncertainty that many military families face: "Something awakes me from where he should be/I reach for him, the telephone rings."


Line by Line Meaning

I knew who he was
I knew his identity before we got married


When I took his name
When I got married to him and took his last name


But somehow knowin'
But just knowing him is not enough to keep my fears at bay


Is just not the same late at night
Especially not when I'm alone at night


He knows the danger
He's aware of the risks associated with his job


But he does what he does
But he still does his job, no matter the dangers


He calls it duty
He considers it as his job duty


But I call it love
But for me, loving and supporting him is my duty


So here I am
I'm here, waiting for him while he's away


While he's gone
He's away on a foreign land for work


To some foreign land
He's gone to work in a foreign country


And I cry
I cry myself to sleep at night


'Cause I'm all alone
Because I'm alone at home without him


And the nights get so cold and long
The nights seem endless without him by my side


And I try not to think he won't come home
I try to stay positive and not imagine the worst


But I'm sleeping with the telephone
But I'm always ready and waiting for his call


The yellow ribbon on my neighbor's gate
The yellow ribbon on my neighbor's gate reminds me of the military sacrifice


Always reminds me that someone's awake
It reminds me that someone else is also waiting for their loved one to return


Just like me
Just like I'm doing the same thing


I hear the sirens
I often hear the police or ambulance sirens outside


And I watch the news
I watch the news, hoping and praying that nothing has happened to him


He laughs and leaves with his gun
He goes to work with his weapon on his side


And his blue uniform
He wears his uniform with pride and respect


And I pray God keeps him safe from harm
I pray that God protects him from all dangers and keeps him safe


I loose him in my darkest dreams
I often have nightmares about him not coming back


And my blood runs cold and my heart skips a beat
These nightmares leave me panicked and anxious


So I get up, I can't take anymore
I wake up from these nightmares, unable to bear the thought of losing him


Sometimes I hate how much I love him
Being in love with him makes me feel vulnerable and fearful at times


But everyday I love him more
But despite the fear and the vulnerability, I love him more and more with each passing day


Something awakes me from where he should be
I wake up from sleep when he's not around, but I expect him to be there


I reach for him, the telephone rings
I try to comfort myself by reaching out for something that reminds me of him, which is the ringing telephone




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: TOMMY HARDEN, LORRIE HARDEN, DON ROLLINS

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