Teach Me How to Be Loved
Rebecca Ferguson Lyrics


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One foot onto the ice
I hold my breath
And try to believe
Can I look at you with different eyes?
Like the girl that I was, when I was 17

The fallen empires,
The shattered glass
The wicked echos of my past.
I've seen it all before, that's why I'm asking.

Will you still be here tomorrow
Or will you leave in the dead of the night?
So your waves don't crash around me,
I'm staying one step ahead of the tide.
Will you leave me lost in my shadows
Or will you pull me into your light?
Teach me how to be loved
Teach me how to be loved

I got caught up in a daze
Of the wine and roses
Such a sweet escape
But I watched it all slip away
Like running water from my hands
Raining on this picture land

The fallen empires,
The shattered glass
The wicked echos of my past.
I've seen it all before, that's why I'm asking.

Will you still be here tomorrow
Or will you leave in the dead of the night?
So your waves don't crash around me,
I'm staying one step ahead of the tide.
Will you leave me lost in my shadows
Or will you pull me into your light?
Teach me how to be loved

Can I give myself just one more second chance?
And put my trust in love,
Please don't hurt me.
If I make myself like a feather in you hand
And put my trust in love,
Please don't hurt me.

Will you still be here tomorrow
Or will you leave in the dead of the night?
So your waves don't crash around me,
I'm staying one step ahead of the tide.
Will you leave me lost in my shadows
Or will you pull me into your light?




Teach me how to be loved
Teach me how to be loved

Overall Meaning

Rebecca Ferguson’s song “Teach Me How to Be Loved” speaks to the fear and uncertainty that comes with opening oneself up to love. The chorus “Will you still be here tomorrow or will you leave in the dead of the night?” highlights the anxiety of not knowing if the person you’ve begun to let in will be around for the long haul. The first paragraph sets the scene for this fear with the line “one foot onto the ice, I hold my breath and try to believe.” The ice can be seen as a metaphor for the vulnerability and uncertain terrain of opening oneself up to love. The line “Can I look at you with different eyes? Like the girl that I was, when I was 17” is a nostalgic moment where she remembers the hopefulness of being young and in love, but also recognizes how that hope has faded with the troubles of the past.


The second half of the song takes a darker and more introspective turn with the line “I got caught up in a daze of the wine and roses, such a sweet escape, but I watched it all slip away like running water from my hands” showing the realization that love can be an illusion in and of itself. The bridge “Can I give myself just one more second chance, and put my trust in love, please don’t hurt me. If I make myself like a feather in your hand and put my trust in love, please don’t hurt me” is a plea, asking for reassurance in the face of deep fear.


Overall, the song is a call for guidance and support in learning how to open oneself up to love despite the fear and uncertainty that comes with it.


Line by Line Meaning

One foot onto the ice
I am taking a chance by putting myself in a vulnerable position.


I hold my breath
I am anxious and scared, hoping that everything turns out fine.


And try to believe
I am hoping that things work out and that I can trust in love once again.


Can I look at you with different eyes?
Can I see the world in a different light and trust you, despite my past?


Like the girl that I was, when I was 17
Can I go back to a time when I was young, innocent and full of hope?


The fallen empires, The shattered glass, The wicked echos of my past.
I have been through difficult times and my past still haunts me.


I've seen it all before, that's why I'm asking.
I am asking if love can still be trusted, despite my past experiences with it.


I'm staying one step ahead of the tide
I am trying to protect myself from possible hurt and pain that comes with love.


Teach me how to be loved
I am asking for guidance and help to learn how to trust in love again.


I got caught up in a daze, Of the wine and roses
I got distracted by the idea of romance and the pleasure that comes with it.


Such a sweet escape
It felt good to be lost in the moment and forget all my troubles for a while.


But I watched it all slip away, Like running water from my hands
I lost what I thought was real love and it slipped away from me without warning.


Raining on this picture land
Everything I thought was beautiful and perfect came crumbling down.


Teach me how to be loved
I want to learn how to love and be loved in a way that does not bring me sorrow and pain.


Can I give myself just one more second chance?
Can I give love one more chance, despite my past experiences?


And put my trust in love, Please don't hurt me.
I am hoping that love will not disappoint me again and that I can trust it.


If I make myself like a feather in you hand
I am willing to be vulnerable and let love guide me.


Will you still be here tomorrow, Or will you leave in the dead of the night?
I am afraid of being abandoned and left alone once again.


Or will you pull me into your light?
I am hoping that love will help me heal and bring me into a place of happiness and hope.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: REBECCA FERGUSON, JONNY LATIMER

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Chris McCormack

I could listen to Rebecca Ferguson sing all day, every day. Goose bumps every time! :)

Cristian Garcia

Rebecca is one of the few artists that can transmit purity in a song

Gisele Lima

I agree!👑🌹🌹

Brad S

Probably the most under rated singer in the game. Absolutely incredible

Karen Moore

Still listening to this incredible soulful lady in 2018..so underrated it's unbelievable 😐

Trevor Pikulak

Soul moving and heart stopping is how this Angelic voice moves me. Simple yet BEAUTIFUL..!! What a stunning stripped back song. I can't think of a better way to ease life's pain..!

Sonia Dunn

Very deep and passionate, one of her best tracks ever...Full of emotion...Xxx

Davidoff Bell

I love how stripped back her music videos are... No need for gimmicks or dancing.
Just pure emotion delivered with heartfelt passion.
She really is an Angel

Flame Crystal

David Bell Brougham She is a welcomed breath of fresh air

Joerg Schmitz

David Bell Brougham Nothing more to say

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