BOY
Reuben Lyrics


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I tried to communicate, I tried to relate
Now all I want to do is escape and vanish into fantasies
I ventured out of the galaxy into the outer regions
Where folks believe in something
Much, much bigger than their demons

And aren't controlled by their circumstances
Sounds romantic, we'll dance with it slowly
In here my failures don't control me
It's a place of solitude but I'm not lonely
And it's beautiful but let's be reasonable

It's just not real, it just plays with your imagination
And for a moment or two can make time stand still
But when it's over, all you have is a memory
I had to leave 'cause the real world was calling me
I left my youth in pursuit of the truth
And gained a world of dishonesty

I see your innocence and envy it
I reminisce of mine and remember it
Full of peace full of hope full of truth
I remember when I used to be you before you became me

I see your innocence and envy it
I reminisce of mine and remember it
Full of peace full of hope full of truth
I remember when I used to be you before you became me

Man, it's sort of overwhelming
It didn't seem like I was storytelling
But you didn't believe me when I told you that I could see
My hopes and dreams come alive as it seems

But there's a time and place for everything
Well, I left my imagination there
Now it's only what I can touch, see, taste and hear
With my natural senses, I wish I could stretch the limits

But my defenses keep me limited from the boundaries I set
So I won't get burned again
Sure, I'd like to be optimistic but that doesn't line up well with reality
So I'll go to sleep now and dream of a younger healthier better me

I see your innocence and envy it
I reminisce of mine and remember it
Full of peace full of hope full of truth
I remember when I used to be you before you became me

I see your innocence and envy it
I reminisce of mine and remember it
Full of peace full of hope full of truth
I remember when I used to be you before you became me

Don't mistake innocence for ignorance
Don't mistake purity for inexperience
Don't mistake humility for weakness
I sincerely mean this

You understand more than you know
There's no goal like peace of mind
So what else are you trying to find
What's left except regret and heartache

And yes, your heart will break and go numb
Lots of times before this life is done
You'll look for answers but there's just one
Patience, one day it will make sense

But waiting is a pinch waking you up
From the worlds you've made up
The one where you dream
And the one where you gave up time




To create a new atmosphere where
The boy and the cynic can both play fair

Overall Meaning

In Reuben's song "Boy," he talks about his evolution from innocence into reality. He had tried to communicate and relate with those in his world but realized that he wanted to escape into his fantasies. He ventured beyond his world to where people believe in something bigger than their demons and aren't controlled by their circumstances. In this space, his failures don't control him, and he isn't lonely. However, Reuben is aware it's not real, but only a memory when it's over.


He then reminisces about his own innocence, full of peace and truth, before he became who he is now. In the present, he acknowledges that he's limited by his defenses and the boundaries he's set. He expresses his wish to be optimistic, but reality doesn't allow him to be. Towards the end, he calls for patience, emphasizing that waiting is crucial. The boy and the cynic should both play fair in creating a new atmosphere.


Line by Line Meaning

I tried to communicate, I tried to relate
I attempted to connect and empathize


Now all I want to do is escape and vanish into fantasies
Currently, I desire to retreat into my imagination to evade my reality


I ventured out of the galaxy into the outer regions
I explored beyond the accepted confines of my life


Where folks believe in something
A place where inhabitants have faith in something greater than themselves


Much, much bigger than their demons
Something colossal that surpasses their past traumas and troubles


And aren't controlled by their circumstances
A state of being where external factors do not govern their lives


Sounds romantic, we'll dance with it slowly
It appears glamorous, but we will enjoy it gradually


In here my failures don't control me
I am not dominated by my past mistakes in this space


It's a place of solitude but I'm not lonely
Although alone, I do not feel alone in this place


And it's beautiful but let's be reasonable
As gorgeous as this experience is, it's crucial to be sensible


It's just not real, it just plays with your imagination
This setting is only a fabrication, it entices your mind


And for a moment or two can make time stand still
For short instances, it can grasp your attention and create a timelessness


But when it's over, all you have is a memory
Afterwards, you are left with nothing but a memory of it


I had to leave 'cause the real world was calling me
I had to depart because I was summoned by the actual world


I left my youth in pursuit of the truth
I abandoned my younger self in search of genuine understanding


And gained a world of dishonesty
But instead, I attained a life of insincerity


Man, it's sort of overwhelming
Wow, it's quite intimidating


It didn't seem like I was storytelling
It didn't come across as just a tale


But you didn't believe me when I told you that I could see
Despite my claim that I could perceive something, you did not trust me


My hopes and dreams come alive as it seems
My aspirations and fantasies manifest and become reality in this state


But there's a time and place for everything
However, all things must be done at their appropriate moment and location


Well, I left my imagination there
I chose to abandon my sense of creativity in that place


Now it's only what I can touch, see, taste and hear
Currently, my reality is restricted to what I can physically sense


With my natural senses, I wish I could stretch the limits
I yearn to expand the boundaries of my natural human abilities


But my defenses keep me limited from the boundaries I set
However, my safeguarding mechanisms prevent me from surpassing my self-imposed limits


So I won't get burned again
So I won't be hurt once more


Sure, I'd like to be optimistic but that doesn't line up well with reality
While I prefer being hopeful, that does not align with the actuality of things


So I'll go to sleep now and dream of a younger healthier better me
Hence, I will slumber and envision a previous, more robust, and improved version of myself


Don't mistake innocence for ignorance
Do not confuse naivete with stupidity


Don't mistake purity for inexperience
Do not mistake genuineness with a lack of knowledge


Don't mistake humility for weakness
Do not confuse being modest with being feeble


I sincerely mean this
I genuinely intend these words


You understand more than you know
You are more observant and comprehending than you realize


There's no goal like peace of mind
Nothing is as good as the tranquility of one's thoughts


So what else are you trying to find
Therefore, what are you searching for?


What's left except regret and heartache
What else remains besides remorse and pain


And yes, your heart will break and go numb
Undoubtedly, your heart will fracture and become insensible


Lots of times before this life is done
Many occurrences will take place before your existence concludes


You'll look for answers but there's just one
You will look for solutions, but only one exists


Patience, one day it will make sense
Be patient, eventually it will become clear


But waiting is a pinch waking you up
However, being patient is a slight discomfort that awakens you


From the worlds you've made up
From the illusions you've created


The one where you dream
The world where you fantasize


And the one where you gave up time
And the one where you forfeited time


To create a new atmosphere where
To build a new environment wherein


The boy and the cynic can both play fair
Both the youthful and skeptical aspects of oneself can outshine each other




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: CARL ROBERT PENDLETON, JOHN REUBEN ZAPPIN

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Comments from YouTube:

Stephen Noone

Cant get enough of Reuben...Miss them so much!

Roth182

Miss these guys so much their music is special to me

tie2009

I discovered Reuben too late, my only hope is that they reform, and become better than ever. I am in love with this song right now, it really does explain how I feel.

tuga1man

Awesome band and tune...

xXIamMcLovin29Xx

@tie2009 It's never to late to discover them....unless you wanted to see them live of course then yes you are too late! The important thing is you found them!

Arron guy

@tie2009 i'm the same being too late that is, i'm in love with every reuben song

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