Only Love Can Break Your Heart
Rickie Lee Jones Lyrics


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When you were young
And on your own
How did it feel
To be alone?
I was always thinking
Of games that I was playing.
Trying to make
The best of my time.

But only love
Can break your heart
Try to be sure
Right from the start
Yes only love
Can break your heart
What if your world
Should fall apart?

I have a friend
I've never seen
He hides his head
Inside a dream
Someone should call him
And see if he can come out.
Try to lose
The down that he's found.

But only love
Can break your heart
Try to be sure
Right from the start
Yes only love
Can break your heart
What if your world
Should fall apart?

I have a friend
I've never seen
He hides his head
Inside a dream
Yes, only love
Can break your heart




Yes, only love
Can break your heart

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Rickie Lee Jones’s song Only Love Can Break Your Heart are a reflection on the vulnerability that is inherent in love. The first verse addresses the feelings of being alone, which many experience when they are young and first exploring their independence. The singer describes how she was always thinking of the games she was playing, trying to make the best use of her time. However, the chorus of the song suggests that only love can truly break one’s heart, and urges listeners to be sure of their feelings from the start or risk falling apart should their world collapse.


The second verse describes the singer’s friend, who has retreated into his own dream world, and suggests that someone should try to encourage him to come out of his shell and try to lose the sadness that has enveloped him. The final chorus reiterates the message that only love can break your heart, implying that it is love that can lead to the greatest pain and heartbreak.


Overall, the song is a poignant meditation on the risks and rewards of falling in love, and a warning to be cautious and thoughtful when giving one’s heart away.


Line by Line Meaning

When you were young
Back when you were younger


And on your own
And without any support or help from anyone else


How did it feel
What was the experience like for you


To be alone?
Being by yourself without anyone else around


I was always thinking
My mind was always occupied


Of games that I was playing.
With various activities that I was participating in


Trying to make
Attempting to create or achieve


The best of my time.
The most of the time I had available


But only love
However, it is only love


Can break your heart
That can cause you great emotional pain


Try to be sure
Be certain


Right from the start
From the beginning of anything


What if your world
If your life


Should fall apart?
Were to fall apart or fail completely?


I have a friend
I know someone


I've never seen
That I have never met


He hides his head
He keeps to himself


Inside a dream
Within his own thoughts or imagination


Someone should call him
Somebody ought to reach out to him


And see if he can come out.
And check if he is willing to socialize or interact with people


Try to lose
Attempt to overcome


The down that he's found.
The negative emotion or situation that he has encountered


Yes, only love
Indeed, it is only through love


Can break your heart
Wherein our heart can feel injured or damaged


Yes, only love
It is only love that


Can break your heart
Can cause a person to feel emotional pain in the heart




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Comments from YouTube:

ManagerGuy1

Great song by a great stylist who knows how to deliver this touching lyric. Loved it!

Art Sanchez

Listening to RLJ is like sitting at the oceanside just watching the waves come and go, in perfect harmony and timing...for me.

Brad Bland

Lost my wife 5 months ago. I listen to here all day. She would be the only one that feels and sings right now the way I'm stubbling through life. I go somewhere safe but vulnerable whenever listening to her own wrightings and interpretations, her feelings remind me how I feel through this grief. I never feel alone when listening to her music. She's the best and has lived obviously through many heartbreaks. She's my comfort at this fork in the road.

mudhens4ever

Beautiful rendition of a wonderful, sorrowful tune!

Charlie Shumar

Beautiful. I might like this better than the original.

Blues 345

Fantastic version!!

Recipe Hacker

Great cover of my fav Neil Young tune, that kills me to, 1973 live version with CSNY

L. Man

This rendition is fantastic she made it her own again .I wish someone would repost walk away Renee again.

Dan Stevens

RLJ is the voice of wounded vulnerability. Singular, hypnotic, unnerving.

Ron McCarthy

Oh OK. Through a song she can take you places that you didn't know existed within or without yourself. She will always own a piece of me

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