Hard to Be True
Ringo Starr Lyrics


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Here in the night is when the memories fly
'Cause when I'm alone, I'm alone and I can't lie
It doesn't matter what I do I'm still in love with you
Why is it so hard, so hard to be true?

If I could take back all the things I've done
When I live in the past I relieve everyone
Lying to myself, I knew I break my heart in two
Why is it so hard, so hard to be true?

Time after time
Am I a record that's been broken?
I know that I'm outside the door that I can talk
But the words through love I never spoken

Time after time
Am I a record that's been broken?
I know that I'm outside the door that I can talk
But the words through love I never spoken

It's such a surprise to feel so much regret
But you are a love I know I won't forget
What I did I can't undo I really wish I knew

Why is it so hard, so hard




Why is it so hard, so hard
Why is it so hard, so hard to be true?

Overall Meaning

In Ringo Starr's song Hard To Be True, the singer appears to be experiencing immense pain and regret as they lament on their inability to stay true to a love that they cannot forget. The opening line, "Here in the night is when the memories fly," reveals that the singer is much stronger when surrounded by others as they are forced to face the truth of their emotions and accept the pain of their past. However, when they are alone, they cannot lie to themselves - they know they are in love with the person they wronged.


The verse "If I could take back all the things I've done" suggests that the singer has made mistakes and wishes he could turn back the hands of time. They lie to themselves that they did not know they would end up causing themselves pain. The lyrics “Time after time, am I a record that's been broken?” represents the singer's struggle to move beyond a repeating pattern of mistakes. They struggle with being vulnerable to love again due to the fear of making the same error. Ultimately, the question repeated throughout the song, "Why is it so hard, so hard to be true?" questions the difficulty in staying faithful and genuine to oneself and others when life is filled with trials and uncertainties.


Line by Line Meaning

Here in the night is when the memories fly
Memories flood in at night when I'm all alone


'Cause when I'm alone, I'm alone and I can't lie
When I'm by myself, I can't lie to myself about my true feelings


It doesn't matter what I do I'm still in love with you
No matter what I do, I can't escape my feelings for you


Why is it so hard, so hard to be true?
Why is it so difficult to be honest with myself and with you?


If I could take back all the things I've done
If I could undo my mistakes


When I live in the past I relieve everyone
When I focus on the past, I hurt myself and others


Lying to myself, I knew I break my heart in two
By deceiving myself, I know that I'm only causing myself more pain


Time after time
Repeatedly and frequently


Am I a record that's been broken?
Do I keep making the same mistake over and over again?


I know that I'm outside the door that I can talk
I know that I have the opportunity to communicate honestly


But the words through love I never spoken
But I struggle to express my love through words


It's such a surprise to feel so much regret
I'm surprised by the intensity of my regret


But you are a love I know I won't forget
Despite everything, I know that my love for you will endure


What I did I can't undo I really wish I knew
I can't undo my mistakes and I wish I had known better


Why is it so hard, so hard
Why is it such a challenge?


Why is it so hard, so hard
Why do I find it so difficult?


Why is it so hard, so hard to be true?
Why is it so hard to be honest with you and with myself?




Lyrics © STARTLING MUSIC LTD C/O BRUCE V. GRAKAL
Written by: GARY BURR, MARK HUDSON, RICHARD STARKEY

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