Cry When You Get Older
Robyn Lyrics


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Hey girl in the strobing light
What your mama never told ya
Is love hurts when you do it right
You can cry when you get older

Young boy by the traffic light
What your daddy never told ya
Is love hurts when you do it right
You can cry when you get older

Hold up a second, now I got something on my dirty mind
I start out with good intentions but mess it up like all the time
I try to keep up appearance but always end up way out of line
I need some kind of miracle, 'cause I lost all my faith in science
So I put my faith in me

She said
There just must be more to life than this
He said
Careful, 'cause you might just get your wish

(Everybody in the back singing)
Hey girl in the strobing light
What your mama never told ya
Is love hurts when you do it right
You can cry when you get older

(Everybody singing)
Young boy by the traffic light
What your daddy never told ya
Is love hurts when you do it right
You can cry when you get older

Back in suburbia kids get high and make out on the train
Then endless incomprehensible boredom takes a hold again
And in this other dream I'm on top of the world, ahead of the game
Think of reality and it hits me hardcore to the brain
We gotta get away

She said
There just must be more to life than this
He said
Careful, 'cause you might just get your wish

(Everybody in the back singing)
Hey girl in the strobing light
What your mama never told ya
Is love hurts when you do it right
You can cry when you get older

(Everybody in the front)
Young boy by the traffic light
What your daddy never told ya
Is love hurts when you do it right
You can cry when you get older
Hey





Bet your mama never told you that
Nah

Overall Meaning

The theme of the song "Cry When You Get Older" by Robyn is the bittersweet nature of love. The song conveys the message that even though love hurts, it's worth experiencing because it helps us grow and mature. The lyrics address both young boys and girls, emphasizing that love is a universal experience based on the premise that we fall in love despite our lack of life experience or parental guidance.


The lyric "What your mama never told ya" resonates with the idea that even if well-intentioned, parental guidance is not enough to prepare us for the challenges of love. The song draws on the imagery of youth and nightlife, suggesting the carefree nature and impulsiveness of youth as they navigate their first love experiences.


Robyn tells a story of young people getting out from the mundane aspects of life, pursuing their dreams to escape urban life, only to find themselves facing the reality of love which can be both fulfilling and painful. The lyrics contain elements of self-reflection, acknowledging the mistakes that come with growing up and maintaining a sense of curiosity about the world.


Overall, "Cry When You Get Older" is a song about finding love, making mistakes, growing from them, and cherishing the memories that come with it.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey girl in the strobing light
Addressing a young woman under the strobing lights, indicating that her mother may not have warned her about the harsh reality of love.


What your mama never told ya
Assuming that the young woman lacked counsel from her mother regarding the cruel nature of love.


Is love hurts when you do it right
The right love often involves pain and sacrifice.


You can cry when you get older
It's okay to cry later in life, either as a release or reflection upon the love you've experienced.


Young boy by the traffic light
Addressing a young man standing by a traffic light.


What your daddy never told ya
Implying that the young man lacked advice or guidance from his father regarding the harsh realities of love.


Is love hurts when you do it right
Love comes with inevitable pain when done correctly.


You can cry when you get older
The love experienced in youth may lead to tears later in life when reflecting on those experiences.


Hold up a second, now I got something on my dirty mind
Pausing the main theme, reflecting on personal struggling or distress.


I start out with good intentions but mess it up like all the time
Despite intending to do well, the artist frequently encounters failure or disappointment.


I try to keep up appearance but always end up way out of line
Attempting to maintain a perceived image, but consistently failing or diverging from the expected path.


I need some kind of miracle, 'cause I lost all my faith in science
Desiring a miracle or divine intervention because the artist has lost faith in the ability for scientific solutions to fix anything.


So I put my faith in me
Deciding to rely on oneself for support, rather than relying on something else like religion or science.


She said
Referring to someone else's comments on life or love.


There just must be more to life than this
Commenting that life must have more depth or purpose beyond what is seen on the surface.


He said
Another person's take on life or love.


Careful, 'cause you might just get your wish
Warning that what is wished for may bring unforeseen consequences or challenges.


(Everybody in the back singing)
Audibly emphasizing the chorus, as a group of people sing in the background.


(Everybody singing)
Emphasizing the chorus as the singing is done in two parts, but still in a group setting.


Back in suburbia kids get high and make out on the train
Providing a contrastive image to the prior scenes; depicting a mundane, teenage life.


Then endless incomprehensible boredom takes a hold again
Following up the last line with the idea that life may become tiresome or uninteresting.


And in this other dream I'm on top of the world, ahead of the game
Considered an alternate reality or perfect scenario where the artist has everything they want.


Think of reality and it hits me hardcore to the brain
Reflecting on the contrast between the reality of life and the dream state.


We gotta get away
The artist specifically requests the need to escape the mundane and find something greater.


Bet your mama never told you that
A rhetorical exclamation, implying that the statement made before wasn't common knowledge before this song.


Nah
An exclamation concluding the song, the tone implying the same excitement and surprise at what was said before.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: KLAS FRANS AHLUND, ROBIN MIRIAM CARLSSON

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Comments from YouTube:

@TJGAMINGSCOTLAND

I really want to make something similar to this, make people go.. it's that song! Hehe Love Robyn ❤

@BohemianConspiracy

Instrumentally some textures reminds me Kraftwerk... this is one of the reasons why i always loved this song.
"Dancing on my own" and this song are really some of the best tunes that Robyn (and Sweden) has ever released

@renann_t

Love Robyn, Love This Song <3

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