Playing With Fire
Russ Ballard Lyrics


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Baby when I think about it, then I thought we had it made
Like a fool I let you play two timer, but I'd be a bigger fool if I stayed
Now I don't come running, hey girl ain't it strange
I'm thunder, I'm lightning, ''cause I made the change
You don't believe it, ''cause I ain't the same, oh girl can't you see - you're

[Chorus]
Playing with fire, playing with fire, when you play with me
But I won't play your mind games, girl count me out, walk away from me
Don't touch, you'll burn your hand, you still don't understand
You're playing with fire

Baby you see that in my heart, the smoke has turned to flame
The pain it was lost in the fire, now I won't break at the sound of your name
Now you cry, say will we love again
I guess that could be girl, but I don't know when
All I know is baby 'til then, that's how it's got to be

[Chorus: x 2]





Playing with fire, playing with fire (repeats out)

Overall Meaning

In Russ Ballard's song "Playing With Fire", the singer reminiscences about a relationship that he thought was solid but was ultimately let down when he realized his partner was cheating on him. Despite feeling foolish for being deceived, he recognizes that staying in a destructive relationship that does not value him is even more foolish. In the opening verse, he reveals the hurt and confusion he felt when he discovered the betrayal but quickly turns the focus on his own strength and determination to move on. He compares himself to thunder and lightning, forces of nature that cannot be controlled or contained. He acknowledges that his partner likely doubts his resolve because her behavior has likely eroded his confidence, but he maintains that he has changed and taken control of the situation. The chorus serves as a warning to his former partner that she is "playing with fire" by trying to manipulate or confuse him. He urges her to walk away from him instead of trying to play games with his emotions. The singer reveals that he has finally healed and the "smoke has turned to flame" that fuels his resolve to avoid falling into the same trap.


The theme of the song suggests that it is better to stand up for yourself and leave situations that are not healthy or beneficial to your well-being. It's a powerful message as it encourages listeners to stand up for themselves, make positive changes in their lives, and believe in themselves even when others doubt them. Russ Ballard's "Playing With Fire" reminds us that we are in charge of our own lives and that we should not allow others to have control over our emotions and our future.


Line by Line Meaning

Baby when I think about it, then I thought we had it made
I used to think we had a solid relationship, but now I realize how wrong I was


Like a fool I let you play two timer, but I'd be a bigger fool if I stayed
I was foolish to let you deceive and cheat on me, but it would be even more foolish to continue our relationship


Now I don't come running, hey girl ain't it strange
I'm no longer chasing after you, and it's strange how I don't feel the same desire for you anymore


I'm thunder, I'm lightning, ''cause I made the change
I've transformed myself into a force to be reckoned with, and it's all because of the changes I've made


You don't believe it, ''cause I ain't the same, oh girl can't you see - you're
You don't believe that I've changed because I'm not the person I used to be, and you can't see that you're the reason behind my transformation


Playing with fire, playing with fire, when you play with me
You're taking a risk by playing games with me, because I won't tolerate it


But I won't play your mind games, girl count me out, walk away from me
I won't stoop to your level and play mind games with you - it's best if you just leave me alone


Don't touch, you'll burn your hand, you still don't understand
If you try to get close to me, you'll get hurt - but you still don't seem to comprehend that


Baby you see that in my heart, the smoke has turned to flame
I used to feel a lot of pain and confusion, but now I've embraced my emotions and let them become a fiery passion


The pain it was lost in the fire, now I won't break at the sound of your name
My pain has been consumed by my newfound passion, and I won't let you affect me like you used to


Now you cry, say will we love again
You're feeling regret and wondering if we can rekindle our love


I guess that could be girl, but I don't know when
It's possible, but I'm not sure if I'm ready to trust you again


All I know is baby 'til then, that's how it's got to be
For now, I need to focus on myself and my own needs, and that's just the way it has to be


Playing with fire, playing with fire (repeats out)
The chorus repeats the warning that playing with me is dangerous and you're taking a risk




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Written by: BALLARD

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