The Way We Make a Broken Heart
Ry Cooder Lyrics


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Just a one more kiss
He'll have to miss
This night with you
Now you're guilty of this secret love as I am too

You'll get used to telling lies
And feeling sorry when he cries
Now that the strings are attached
He'll catch on, we've done our part
'Cause this is the way we make a broken heart

Lesson number one
We've just begun
To hurt him so
And with lesson two
He'll long for you
When lights are low
Then we get to lesson three
Where he gets down on his knees
And begs you to stop at the door
Just before he comes apart
And this is the way we make a broken heart

Now we've laid a trail of tears
For him to follow
And we've thought of every line
That he might swallow

And with lesson four
There'll be no more
For him to bear
And on some dark night
We'll dim the lights
On this affair

Then he'll find somebody new
And she will hurt him too
'Cause there must be millions just like you and me
Practiced in the art

This is the way we make a broken heart




Oh, this is the way we make a broken heart
This is the way we make a broken heart

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ry Cooder's The Way We Make a Broken Heart narrates a story of a love affair that is on the verge of being exposed. The song starts with the singer contemplating their guilty pleasure of secretly loving someone and how they will have to miss out on being with them for just one more kiss. The second verse goes on to mention how they will get used to telling lies and will feel sorry when their partner finds out. As this affinity continues to flourish, they reach lesson one in which they make the partner jealous of their bond, and then lesson two where the partner longs for them when the lights are low. The third verse ends with the partner begging to stop as they are breaking apart, and this is the way; the two of them make a broken heart.


The song talks about how they will lead their partner on and then leave them heartbroken for someone else. The lyrics are about the art of keeping things hidden, causing pain to someone innocent, and leading them to believe that they will never be good enough. The song highlights the human condition of yearning for something forbidden and feeling guilty about it. It talks about the consequences of such actions and how they will affect those involved.


Line by Line Meaning

Just a one more kiss
One more kiss will seal the fate of our secret love affair


He'll have to miss
He will miss spending this night with you, unable to comprehend why


This night with you
Tonight is the night we choose to betray his trust and break his heart


Now you're guilty of this secret love as I am too
We are both guilty of loving each other in secret and betraying his trust


You'll get used to telling lies
You will have to become accustomed to telling lies to him


And feeling sorry when he cries
You will also have to pretend to be sorry when he sheds tears over us


Now that the strings are attached
Now that we have started this love affair which we intend to end, strings have been attached and emotions involved


He'll catch on, we've done our part
Eventually, he will understand what has happened, but by then, our part in breaking his heart will be done


'Cause this is the way we make a broken heart
This is how we choose to break his heart, by stringing him along and betraying his trust


Lesson number one
The first lesson we teach him is how to feel hurtful emotions of betrayal


We've just begun
Our plan of breaking his heart has just started and there is a lot more to come


To hurt him so
We are doing this to him intentionally and enthusiastically, knowing the hurt we cause


And with lesson two
Once he has learned lesson one, we will move on to lesson two, causing him more pain


He'll long for you
During lesson two, he will yearn and ache for you


When lights are low
Especially in the moments when the environment is intimate or romantic


Then we get to lesson three
Once he has learned lessons one and two, we will move on to the next, even crueler lesson


Where he gets down on his knees
In this lesson, he literally gets on his knees and begs you to stop this affair


And begs you to stop at the door
Even though he begs you to call off this affair, we will continue to string him along


Just before he comes apart
This is the exact moment when he comes apart, shatters and crumbles into pieces, unable to bear the torment anymore


And this is the way we make a broken heart
Our cruel plan will ultimately lead to his heartbreak, and we are intentionally orchestrating it


Now we've laid a trail of tears
We have left a trail of tears, making sure he feels the agonizing pain we caused him


For him to follow
He is supposed to follow this trail of tears, never able to escape the pain we have caused him


And we've thought of every line
We have plotted through every possible scenario and every possible reaction he might give. Our plan is comprehensive


That he might swallow
We have prepared for him to believe every lie and false pleasantry we feed him


And with lesson four
Once he has gone through the first three lessons, it is time for him to learn his final lesson


There'll be no more
After lesson four, there will be no more lies, and his heartbreak will be complete


For him to bear
We will finally stop playing with him and he will finally stop being broken by us


And on some dark night
In the dark of the night, we will end our affair with him and break his heart completely


We'll dim the lights
Like darkness closing in, we will turn the volume down on this affair and end it forever


On this affair
This is just an affair and not a true love. We will end it, and move on with our lives


Then he'll find somebody new
He will move on and find somebody new after we are done with him


And she will hurt him too
He will fall for another woman just like us who will hurt him similarly


'Cause there must be millions just like you and me
There are millions of people who betray their partners in a secret love affair, just like we do to him


Practiced in the art
Betraying someone is an art, and many people are very good at it


This is the way we make a broken heart
Our cruel plan of stringing him along, lying to him, and betraying his trust is how we chose to break his heart


Oh, this is the way we make a broken heart
Our plan is cruel, heartless, and intentional. But, this is the way we have chosen to break his heart.


This is the way we make a broken heart
Our plan is intentional, heartless, and cruel. We intended to betray his trust and break his heart, and this is the way we chose to do it




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Written by: JOHN R HIATT

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Comments from YouTube:

@DrewMontgomeryVoiceOvers

Such a well-written song, and love Ry's adaptation... thank you Ry and John Hiatt!

@darnick54

Brilliant version

@francoisebeylie2923

Thank you. J'aime beaucoup cette photo, l'expression de Ry Cooder , les couleurs, le vêtement, la guitare, la lumière...c'est vraiment une belle photo. Cette merveilleuse musique date de plus longtemps, 1980.

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