Pa
Ryan Adams Lyrics


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Pa drove to town yesterday to pick out her grave
He found the lot where she'd lay
Then he drove to old man Ed Sutterton's place
To find him some peace
He got there round about twelve
And he stayed till three
And the sun left him down in the valley
But the moon met him up in the hills by the lake
Reflecting the ghost of ma's place

Suppertime came and went
No one heard from him
Sis left his food on the plate
At the end of the table right next to ma's place
Where nobody'd sit

The telephone rang bout four
My sister answered it
And I felt the news through the floor boards
Like a long, sullen moan
Like a wreck on the road
Like a joining of hands

So, I drove to town yesterday
To pick out his grave
I found the lot where they'd lay
And then I drove




To old man Ed Sutterton's place
To find me some peace

Overall Meaning

The song "Pa" by Ryan Adams tells an emotional story of a family dealing with the loss of their parents. The first verse describes the father's trip to town to choose a burial spot for his late wife. The imagery of the sun leaving him in the valley and the moon meeting him in the hills by the lake reflects his grief and loneliness. The second verse reveals that the father never returned after visiting a neighbor to find some peace. The sadness of his absence is emphasized by the uneaten supper left on the table next to his wife's spot. The final verse describes the son's own journey to town to choose a spot for his father's grave, followed by a visit to the same neighbor's house hoping to find some peace for himself.


Overall, the song is a poignant reflection on the theme of grief and loss, in particular the way that it can impact people and families in different ways. The image of the empty chair next to the mother's spot at the dinner table is particularly powerful, emphasizing the void left behind by her death.


Line by Line Meaning

Pa drove to town yesterday to pick out her grave
Pa went to town to choose a burial site for his deceased wife


He found the lot where she'd lay
He discovered the place where his wife would be buried


Then he drove to old man Ed Sutterton's place
Pa sought solace by visiting Ed Sutterton


To find him some peace
Pa was looking for inner calm and tranquility


He got there round about twelve
Pa arrived at Ed Sutterton's place around midday


And he stayed till three
Pa then spent a few hours there before leaving


And the sun left him down in the valley
Pa was left alone in the shadows of the valley as the sun set


But the moon met him up in the hills by the lake
Pa found comfort in the moonlight and the scenery as he drove away


Reflecting the ghost of ma's place
The picturesque lake reminded Pa of his late wife's presence


Suppertime came and went
The time for dinner passed by


No one heard from him
Pa did not communicate with anyone in the family during this time


Sis left his food on the plate
Pa's daughter left his food uneaten as he did not come back for dinner


At the end of the table right next to ma's place
His daughter left the food at the spot where his late wife used to sit


Where nobody'd sit
The empty seat highlighted the absence of Pa and his wife


The telephone rang bout four
A phone call came in around four o'clock


My sister answered it
Pa's daughter picked up the phone


And I felt the news through the floor boards
The artist sensed something heartbreaking had happened from the sound of his daughter's voice vibrating the floorboards


Like a long, sullen moan
The news felt like a never-ending sound of sadness and grief


Like a wreck on the road
The news hit the singer like an unexpected tragedy


Like a joining of hands
The news brought the family together in sorrow and togetherness


So, I drove to town yesterday
The artist went to town on the same day Pa did


To pick out his grave
The artist went to choose a burial site for Pa


I found the lot where they'd lay
The singer located the spot for the graves of both Pa and his wife


And then I drove
After choosing the burial site, the artist continued driving


To old man Ed Sutterton's place
The singer also sought comfort at Ed Sutterton's place


To find me some peace
The singer wanted to find inner peace and solace




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BRADLEY SMITH PEMBERTON, CATHERINE ANNE POPPER, JOHN PAUL BOWERSOCK, JONATHAN GRABOFF, RYAN ADAMS

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