Staying Over
Sam Grow Lyrics


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It′s two AM, you're drunk again
Tryna stay out ′n listen to your friends
Every time the wine gets you gone
You always wind up back in my arms

And in this bed and in my head
The things we should say that go unsaid
I can't think with you all on me
I'll let the pain sink in when you leave

Now you′re gettin′ closer, put your lips on mine
I watch that "want you back" look burn in your eyes
Every touch is just takin' me high
Look at us just feedin′ that fire
I give you what you want, you give me what I need
The way your body's talkin′ sayin' you ain′t done with me
Yeah you know I'd fall for it every time
I can't help but let you cross them lines
We ain′t staying over, if you′re staying over
No
We ain't staying over, if you′re staying over

That sun comes out, with our aching heads
Goin' back to bein′ a little more than friends
Yeah you leave, start your week
Do what you can to try not to think of me
When that moon comes out, your defenses down
You'll come back around, you′ll come back around

Now you're gettin' closer, put your lips on mine
I watch that "want you back" look burn in your eyes
Every touch is just takin′ me high
Look at us just feedin′ that fire
I give you what you want, you give me what I need
The way your body's talkin′ sayin' you ain′t done with me
Yeah you know I'd fall for it every time
I can′t help but let you cross them lines
We ain't staying over, if you're staying over
No
We ain′t staying over, if you′re staying over

Now you're gettin′ closer, put your lips on mine
I watch that "want you back" look burn in your eyes
Every touch is just takin' me high
Look at us just feedin′ that fire
I give you what you want, you give me what I need
The way your body's talkin′ sayin' you ain't done with me
Yeah you know I′d fall for it every time
I can′t help but let you cross them lines
We ain't staying over if you′re staying over




No
We ain't staying over if you′re staying over

Overall Meaning

The song "Staying Over" is about a couple who can't resist each other’s company despite trying to keep a distance. The lyrics detail their evening together where the woman shows up drunk, desperate to stay over and keep their relationship going. The singer, however, is conflicted about indulging in the moment since both of them know that their semi-toxic dynamic isn't sustainable. As they spend the night together, the singer realizes that they can't think straight with the woman so close and wants to avoid the inevitable collateral damage that comes with their involvement. The song ends with the singer reminding the partner that if they're staying over, they won't be staying over, hinting at the need to finally let go of the relationship.


The lyrics of the song showcase the emotional vulnerability and turmoil that comes with being in a complicated relationship where nothing seems easy. Sam Grow's voice adds an extra layer of emotional complexity to the lyrics, almost as if he's making a plea to his partner to see reason and end the vicious cycle that they find themselves in.


Line by Line Meaning

It's two AM, you're drunk again
It's late at night and you're intoxicated once more


Tryna stay out 'n listen to your friends
You are attempting to avoid going home and are heeding your friends' advice


Every time the wine gets you gone
Whenever you drink too much wine, you become unable to think straight


You always wind up back in my arms
You always seek comfort and end up in my embrace


And in this bed and in my head
In this bed with you and in my mind


The things we should say that go unsaid
The things that we really should express but never do


I can't think with you all on me
Your presence is too distracting for me to focus


I'll let the pain sink in when you leave
I will allow myself to feel the hurt once you depart


Now you're gettin' closer, put your lips on mine
As you move nearer to me and kiss me


I watch that "want you back" look burn in your eyes
I observe that clear expression of desire reflected in your eyes


Every touch is just takin' me high
Every physical touch makes me feel euphoric


Look at us just feedin' that fire
We are merely stoking the flames of passion between us


I give you what you want, you give me what I need
I provide you with what you desire, and you give me what is necessary for me


The way your body's talkin' sayin' you ain't done with me
The nonverbal cues your body is giving suggest that you are not finished with our relationship


Yeah you know I'd fall for it every time
You are aware that I would succumb to this temptation each time


I can't help but let you cross them lines
I cannot resist you and allow you to violate my boundaries


We ain't staying over, if you're staying over
If you are planning on sleeping over, then we cannot stay together


That sun comes out, with our aching heads
As the sun rises, we awaken with throbbing headaches


Goin' back to bein' a little more than friends
Our relationship will revert to being more than just friends


Yeah you leave, start your week
You depart, resuming your routine for the week


Do what you can to try not to think of me
You will attempt to avoid thinking of me while you're away


When that moon comes out, your defenses down
When the moon appears, your emotional guard is lowered


You'll come back around, you'll come back around
You will inevitably return to me once again


No
We cannot stay if you plan on spending the night




Writer(s): Anthony Quade, Sam Grow, Brandon Manley

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