Do What You Have to Do
Sarah McLachlan Lyrics


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What ravages of spirit
Conjured this tempestuous rage
Created you a monster
Broken by the rule of love
And fate has led you through it
You do what you have to do
And fate has led you through it
You do what you have to do

And I have the sense to recognize that
I don't know how to let you go

Every moment marked
With apparitions of your soul
I'm ever swiftly moving
Trying to escape this desire
The yearning to be near you
I do what I have to do
The yearning to be near you
I do what I have to do

And I have the sense to recognize that
I don't know how to let you go
I don't know how to let you go

A glowing ember
Burning hot
And burning slow
Deep within I'm shaken by the violence
Of existing for only you

I know I can't be with you
I do what I have to do
I know I can't be with you
I do what I have to do

And I have a sense to recognize but
I don't know how to let you go




I don't know how to let you go
(I don't know how to let you go)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Sarah McLachlan's song Do What You Have to Do tell the story of someone struggling to let go of a toxic relationship. The singer is addressing the person who has become a "monster" due to the "ravages of spirit" they have experienced, likely in the form of past traumas, which have led them to act out violently in their love for the singer. Fate, as the lyrics suggest, has played a role in leading this person to their current state.


However, the singer is also struggling with their own yearning for this person, and the desire to be near them that persists despite their knowledge that they cannot be together. The glowing ember burning within them represents the passion and intensity of their feelings, but also the slow and painful nature of their failure to let go.


Overall, the song is a powerful meditation on the complex and often contradictory nature of love, and the difficulty of moving on from a relationship that has become toxic.


Line by Line Meaning

What ravages of spirit
What mental or emotional damage has caused this intense anger


Conjured this tempestuous rage
What has created this destructive and stormy outburst of emotions


Created you a monster
Caused you to become a terrifying and disruptive force


Broken by the rule of love
Defeated or damaged by the laws or expectations of a romantic relationship


And fate has led you through it
The course of your life thus far has been determined by destiny or chance


You do what you have to do
You act according to your own needs, even if it means doing something difficult or unpleasant


And I have the sense to recognize that
I understand that there is a problem or issue that needs to be addressed


I don't know how to let you go
I am unable to separate myself from you or end our relationship


Every moment marked
Every second is made significant


With apparitions of your soul
With fleeting images or memories of your essence or spirit


I'm ever swiftly moving
I am constantly trying to keep up with the fast pace of my life


Trying to escape this desire
Attempting to get away from this strong want or longing


The yearning to be near you
The intense longing or craving to be in your presence


I do what I have to do
I do what is necessary or required, even if it is not what I want


The yearning to be near you
The intense longing or craving to be in your presence


I do what I have to do
I do what is necessary or required, even if it is not what I want


A glowing ember
A small, smoldering piece


Burning hot
Extremely passionate or intense


And burning slow
Continuing to burn, but slowly and steadily


Deep within I'm shaken by the violence
Inside me, I am disturbed or moved by the forceful or intense nature of my feelings


Of existing for only you
Of being alive solely for the sake of being with you


I know I can't be with you
I understand that being with you is not possible


I do what I have to do
I do what is necessary or required, even if it is not what I want


I know I can't be with you
I understand that being with you is not possible


I do what I have to do
I do what is necessary or required, even if it is not what I want


And I have a sense to recognize but
I have an understanding that there is a problem or issue that needs to be addressed, but


I don't know how to let you go
I am unable to separate myself from you or end our relationship


I don't know how to let you go
I am unable to separate myself from you or end our relationship




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Sarah Mclachlan, Colleen Wolstenholme

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Jaded Hart


on In The Arms Of The Angels

This will surely make you cry! Everyone can identify with this song! Hear it you won't regret it. And maybe you'll remember!

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