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I hung around even after I found
There are things I can't change that I hate
Slurring and mean
Like a broken machine
Repeating itself on and on

I'll try, I'll ask you again
To slow down but you won't listen

When I'm under the gun and I'm drinking too much
If I'm laughing a lot, I don't care
If we're doing it wrong, the money is gone
And everything's up in the air
Still I'm wanting a love that is capable of
Rearranging me year after year
And my words are, heard
And change occurs, that isn't happening here

I'll try, I'll ask you again
To slow down but you don't listen

I need to change
So I will change
Without you knowing I'll change
I know you care




But you don't care
Enough to notice me leave

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Sebadoh's song "Listen" convey a sense of frustration and stagnation in a relationship. The singer is aware of their partner's negative qualities, which they feel are unchangeable, yet they remain in the relationship. The partner is described as slurring and mean, like a broken machine stuck in a repetitive cycle. The singer tries to get their partner to slow down and listen to them, but they are met with indifference.


Despite the chaos of their lives – excessive drinking, financial instability, and uncertainty – the singer desires a love that can transform them. They want a love that can rearrange them every year, a love that can inspire change. However, the current relationship is not capable of this transformative power.


The song ends with the singer expressing their intention to change without their partner's notice, illustrating a desire for independence and a break from the stagnant relationship.


Overall, the lyrics convey a sense of frustration, the desire for change, and the difficulty of breaking free from a negative relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I hung around even after I found
I stayed in this relationship even after realizing there are aspects of it that I despise


There are things I can't change that I hate
I am bothered by certain things which I cannot alter


Slurring and mean
Using drunken behavior to insult and belittle others


Like a broken machine
Persistently repeating unpleasant behavior, like an apparatus that is broken and can't be stopped


Repeating itself on and on
Continuing the cycle of negative behavior without any positive change


I'll try, I'll ask you again
I will make an effort to talk to you about this issue once more


To slow down but you won't listen
Asking them to change their behavior, but they choose to ignore my pleas


When I'm under the gun and I'm drinking too much
When I'm stressed and I resort to drinking excessively


If I'm laughing a lot, I don't care
I tend to become carefree when I am deeply involved in enjoying myself


If we're doing it wrong, the money is gone
If we make bad decisions, it results in monetary loss


And everything's up in the air
All the choices and results are uncertain at this point in time


Still I'm wanting a love that is capable of
However, what I truly want is a love that has the potential to


Rearranging me year after year
Transform me in some way each and every year


And my words are, heard
My words are received and acknowledged


And change occurs, that isn't happening here
Yet, the desired transformation is not taking place within this relationship


I need to change
I must change in order to move forward


So I will change
I will transform myself in some way


Without you knowing I'll change
I will change without your knowledge or awareness


I know you care
I understand that you do have feelings for me


But you don't care
However, you don't truly care or pay attention


Enough to notice me leave
To even notice my departure from this relationship




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