Get A Grip
Semisonic Lyrics


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Lonely boys and you lonely girls
Here at the end of the lonely world
You're finding out
If there's someone to cry about

Lonely girls and you lonely boys
Playing alone with your lonely toys
Well don't be blue
If there's no one to play with you

Get a grip on yourself you know you should
I got a grip on myself and it feels good
Get a grip on yourself take my advice
I got a grip on myself and it feels nice

When the lights come on and the party's through
There are always a few with nobody to do
Well now don't despair
You'll eventually get there

And meanwhile all of you lonely ones
Here's what to do while you wait for the sun
To rise above
The loneliest kind of love

Get a grip on yourself you know you should
I got a grip on myself and it feels good
Get a grip on yourself take my advice
I got a grip on myself and it feels nice

And it feels nice
And it feels nice 4x





If you're looking for someone to get a grip on you
First you gotta get a grip on yourself it's true

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Semisonic's song "Get A Grip" are about loneliness and the struggle to find connection with others. The song speaks to lonely boys and girls, who are finding out whether or not there is someone they care about enough to cry over. The loneliness is portrayed through the image of playing alone with toys, and the sense of desperation as the lights come on and the party ends. However, the song offers a solution to this problem: getting a grip on oneself. The lyrics suggest that to find someone to connect with, one must first learn to take control of one's own life and emotions. The song encourages listeners to adopt a positive attitude and outlook on life, and reminds them that eventually they will find someone to connect with.


One of the interesting facts about the song "Get A Grip" is that it was released in 1993, but didn't become popular until 1998 when it was re-released on Semisonic's album "Feeling Strangely Fine." The song was then featured prominently in the soundtrack of the teen comedy "Can't Hardly Wait," and became a hit in the summer of 1999. Another interesting fact about the song is that it was written by Dan Wilson, who also wrote songs for artists such as Adele, Taylor Swift, and Weezer. Wilson has said that the song was inspired by his own experiences with loneliness, and the struggles he faced in trying to connect with others.


The chords for "Get A Grip" are as follows (in standard tuning):


Verse: G, D, Am, C
Chorus: G, D, Am, C


Overall, the lyrics of "Get A Grip" offer a message of hope to those struggling with loneliness, and encourage listeners to take control of their own lives and emotions in order to find connection with others. The song's popularity and enduring appeal are a testament to the universality of its message, and its ability to speak to listeners across generations.


Line by Line Meaning

Lonely boys and you lonely girls
Addressing the audience as lonely individuals


Here at the end of the lonely world
Implying that the world appears lonely


You're finding out
Realizing what the world has to offer


If there's someone to cry about
An uncertain hope of finding someone to love


Playing alone with your lonely toys
Describing how people are left with nothing but their own company


Well don't be blue
Encouraging the audience to not be sad


If there's no one to play with you
Accepting that the world can be limited in social opportunities


Get a grip on yourself you know you should
Advising to take control of own emotions


I got a grip on myself and it feels good
An assurance of self-satisfaction when one takes control of emotions


Get a grip on yourself take my advice
Reiterating the suggestion to take charge of emotions


When the lights come on and the party's through
Describing a common experience of social gatherings coming to an end


There are always a few with nobody to do
Indicating that despite being together, some can still be alone


Well now don't despair
Encouraging to stay hopeful


You'll eventually get there
Suggesting that happiness can still be achieved despite lonesomeness


Meanwhile all of you lonely ones
Addressing people who feel alone


Here's what to do while you wait for the sun
Suggesting activities to lessen the loneliness


To rise above
To overcome the feeling of lonesomeness


The loneliest kind of love
Emphasizing the difficulty of finding love while feeling alone


If you're looking for someone to get a grip on you
If looking for love and affection from someone else


First you gotta get a grip on yourself it's true
One must be in control of their own emotions before seeking love from others




Lyrics © WORDS & MUSIC A DIV OF BIG DEAL MUSIC LLC
Written by: DAN WILSON

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