The Difficult Kind
Sheryl Crow Lyrics


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I think I was wrong, I think you were right
And all my angry words, will keep me up at night
Through the old screen door I still hear you say
"Oh, honey won't you stop treatin' me that way"

[Chorus]
If you could only see
What love has made of me
Then I'd no longer be in your mind the difficult kind
'Cause babe I've changed

Tell it to me slow, tell me with your eyes
If anyone should know how to let it slide
I swear I can see you, coming up the drive
And there ain't nothing like regret, to remind you you're alive

[Chorus]

I crossed the canyon a thousand times
And never noticed what was mine
What you'll remember of me tonight
Well, it almost makes me cry

Yeah, it almost makes me cry
Oh,

Oh, ball-breaking moon and ridiculing stars
Oh, the older I get, the closer you are
Don't you got somewhere, that you need me
Instead of hanging here making a fool of me

If you could only see
What love has made of me
Then I'd no longer be in your mind the difficult kind
But you won't see the change in me, oh

If you could only see
What love has made of me
But I'll forever be in your mind the difficult kind
But you won't see
No, you won't see the good in me




But babe, I've changed
Yes babe, I've changed

Overall Meaning

The song "The Difficult Kind" by Sheryl Crow is about reflecting on a past relationship and admitting fault for the end of it. The singer addresses their partner, regretting their angry behavior and acknowledging that the partner was in the right. The singer begs for forgiveness and understanding, wanting to show that they have changed since the relationship ended. The lyrics "If you could only see what love has made of me / Then I'd no longer be in your mind the difficult kind" express the singer's desire for the partner to recognize their growth and changes, to see that they are no longer the same person who caused problems in the past.


The chorus repeats that sentiment, emphasizing the impact that love has had on the singer and their efforts to be a better person. The final lines of the song reveal that the singer still feels misunderstood and judged by their former partner, even though they believe they have changed for the better. The overall message of the song is one of accountability and personal growth, while also acknowledging that others may not always see or accept that growth.


Line by Line Meaning

I think I was wrong, I think you were right
I admit my mistake and realize that you were correct in our argument


And all my angry words, will keep me up at night
I regret my hostility and it is affecting my peace of mind


Through the old screen door I still hear you say
Even though you're gone, I can still hear your voice in my head


"Oh, honey won't you stop treatin' me that way"
You pleaded with me to stop treating you poorly


"If you could only see What love has made of me Then I'd no longer be in your mind the difficult kind 'Cause babe I've changed"
If you could witness how love has transformed me, you would no longer view me as troublesome since I've improved myself


Tell it to me slow, tell me with your eyes
Take your time in explaining it to me, convey your sentiments through your eyes


If anyone should know how to let it slide
After all these years, you should know that I have learned to let go of things


I swear I can see you, coming up the drive
I imagine you approaching our house and anticipate your arrival


And there ain't nothing like regret, to remind you you're alive
Regret is a painful reminder that you're alive and have made mistakes


"I crossed the canyon a thousand times And never noticed what was mine"
I traveled through the canyon countless times and didn't fully appreciate what belonged to me


"What you'll remember of me tonight Well, it almost makes me cry"
The thought of how you'll remember me tonight is deeply moving and almost brings me to tears


Oh, ball-breaking moon and ridiculing stars
The moon and stars seem to mock me and my situation


Oh, the older I get, the closer you are
As I age, memories of you become more vivid and present


Don't you got somewhere, that you need me
Isn't there a place where you require my presence?


Instead of hanging here making a fool of me
Instead of standing here and humiliating me


"But you won't see the change in me, oh"
You won't recognize the positive change in me


"But I'll forever be in your mind the difficult kind"
You'll always perceive me as someone who's hard to please


"But you won't see No, you won't see the good in me But babe, I've changed Yes babe, I've changed"
You won't appreciate my positive qualities even though I've improved myself




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Written by: SHERYL CROW

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I think I was wrong, I think you were right
And all my angry words, will keep me up at night
Through the old screen door I still hear you say
"Oh, honey won't you stop treatin' me that way"

If you could only see
What love has made of me
Then I'd no longer be in your mind the difficult kind
'Cause babe I've changed

Tell it to me slow, tell me with your eyes
If anyone should know how to let it slide
I swear I can see you, coming up the drive
And there ain't nothing like regret, to remind you you're alive

If you could only see
What love has made of me
Then I'd no longer be in your mind the difficult kind
'Cause babe I've changed

I crossed the canyon a thousand times
And never noticed what was mine
What you'll remember of me tonight
Well, it almost makes me cry

Yeah, it almost makes me cry
Oh,

Oh, ball-breaking moon and ridiculing stars
Oh, the older I get, the closer you are
Don't you got somewhere, that you need me
Instead of hanging here making a fool of me

If you could only see
What love has made of me
Then I'd no longer be in your mind the difficult kind
But you won't see the change in me, oh

If you could only see
What love has made of me
But I'll forever be in your mind the difficult kind
But you won't see
No, you won't see the good in me
But babe, I've changed
Yes babe, I've changed



All comments from YouTube:

filmrat

No sure how you can listen to this and not be simply blown away. Her edgy vocals and guitar work make a song of regret and lost love come alive. One of the best of the best.

Joe McPheters

One of my favorite women excellent

Ashok Nair

@Tammy D Am sorry to hear it didn't work , hope you have moved on, don't regret, part of life, you need to find someone who loves your soul.....don't hurry, it will come Tammy, keep the faith

Southern Storm

@Tammy D Your divorce?.....I'm sorry it didn't work for you....

Tammy D

My devorce

calcaylor

Man, when she hits the word "cry" at 3:29, it gives me chills... awesome

Southern Storm

Yeah, she shattered the glass on that note...👍

Sidharth Ballav Mohanty

3:29

Ashok Nair

Cuts deep great song.....LOVE a very vital vitamin for the human well being 💖

Loraine Lauderdale

It hits you hard...

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