If You Love Me Hymn To Love
Shirley Bassey Lyrics


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How insensitive I must have seemed
When she told me that she loved me
How unmoved and cold I must have seemed
When she told me so sincerely

Why, she must have asked, did I just turn
And stare in icy silence?
What was I to say? What can you say
When a love affair is over?

Now she's gone away and I'm alone
With the memory of her last look
Vague and drawn and sad, I see it still
All her heartbreak in that last look

How, she must have asked, could I just turn
And stare in icy silence?




What was I to do? What can one do
When a love affair is over?

Overall Meaning

Shirley Bassey's song If You Love Me is a powerful and emotional portrayal of a love affair that has come to an end. In the first verse, Bassey acknowledges how insensitive and unfeeling she must have appeared to her former lover when they confessed their love to her. She reflects on how unresponsive she was and how she failed to reciprocate the deep and sincere emotions that were shared. The second verse finds her grappling with the aftermath of the relationship's demise. With her lover gone, she is left with only the memory of their last look together, which was heartbreaking, vague, and sad.


One of the most poignant themes of this song is the pain and difficulty that comes with the end of a romantic relationship. Through her lyrics, Bassey captures the complex emotions and thoughts that haunt us after a relationship has ended. She conveys how challenging it is to communicate those emotions to our partners and how hard it is to process them ourselves. Despite the sadness and despair that this song evokes, it still manages to capture a sense of hope and resilience, even in the face of heartbreak.


Line by Line Meaning

How insensitive I must have seemed
I appeared heartless and unfeeling


When she told me that she loved me
When she professed her love to me


How unmoved and cold I must have seemed
I showed no emotions and appeared aloof


When she told me so sincerely
When she expressed her sincere feelings to me


Why, she must have asked, did I just turn
She wondered why I just turned away


And stare in icy silence?
And remained quiet with a cold expression?


What was I to say? What can you say
I didn't know what to say or how to respond


When a love affair is over?
When a romantic relationship has ended


Now she's gone away and I'm alone
She left me and I am alone


With the memory of her last look
With the image of her final expression


Vague and drawn and sad, I see it still
Blurry, weary, and sorrowful, I still see it


All her heartbreak in that last look
I saw all of her heartbreak in that final expression


How, she must have asked, could I just turn
She must have wondered how I could turn away


And stare in icy silence?
And look at her with a cold and distant expression?


What was I to do? What can one do
I didn't know what to do or how to act


When a love affair is over?
When a romantic relationship has come to an end




Lyrics © RAOUL BRETON EDITIONS, Kanjian Music, BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Marguerite Monnot, Geoffrey Parsons, Edith Piaf

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