Can't Have You
Shola Ama Lyrics


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What makes me feel this way
Why are you constantly on my mind
When I know
I cannot have you
Why do I have to think
I need you here with me no
I can't go on cos I cannot have you
The thought has always crossed my mind
How it would be
If we tried to talk about me
Being with you would there be us?
And will it be true?
But I shouldn't even let my mind go that far
Cos it's not right
Cos you have her and she trusts us
She knows we're friends
But I love you so much

It might help if I knew
That I'd find myself with you
But that's so wrong
I should move on
It's just not right
Cause you're not mine

Boy you've always been
Be my side
A friend of mine for a very long time
So why can't you see
Just what it could be
Cos I dream about you being with me
So baby tell me how you fell inside
If you want me baby don't lie
Cos I dream about us all of the time




Makes me mad
Cos you're not mine

Overall Meaning

In Shola Ama's song Can't Have You, the singer expresses her feelings of longing and despair for someone she knows she cannot be with. The lyrics reveal that the subject of the singer's affections is already in a relationship, and therefore, she acknowledges that her desires are not possible to fulfill. The singer describes the struggles of her mind as she constantly thinks about this person even though she knows it's wrong to do so. The song reflects the universal feeling of unrequited love, where one is forced to accept the sad truth that the person they love cannot be theirs.


Throughout the song, the singer expresses regret over the situation and expresses a desire to move on from it. She recognizes that her feelings are wrong, given the other person's relationship status, and ends up asking the subject of the song to be honest with her if they feel the same way. Shola Ama's powerful vocals perfectly capture the emotional turmoil of this situation, leaving the listener with a lasting impression of the pain of unrequited love.


Line by Line Meaning

What makes me feel this way
I am trying to understand why I have these feelings for you.


Why are you constantly on my mind
The thought of you never leaves my mind.


When I know I cannot have you
I am aware that we cannot be together.


Why do I have to think I need you here with me no
I cannot help but want you to be here with me.


I can't go on cos I cannot have you
I am unable to move on because I cannot have you.


The thought has always crossed my mind
I have wondered before.


How it would be If we tried to talk about me
What would happen if we talked about me being with you?


Being with you would there be us?
If we were together, would there be a chance for us?


And will it be true?
Could it become a reality?


But I shouldn't even let my mind go that far
I should not even entertain the idea because it is not right.


Cos it's not right Cos you have her and she trusts us She knows we're friends
It is not right because you are committed to someone else, who trusts us as friends.


But I love you so much
Despite everything, I still love you deeply.


It might help if I knew That I'd find myself with you
Knowing that we could be together might give me some comfort.


But that's so wrong I should move on
However, I know that it is not right and I need to let go.


Cause you're not mine
Because you belong to someone else.


Boy you've always been Be my side A friend of mine for a very long time
You've been my friend for a long time.


So why can't you see Just what it could be
Why can't you see the potential of what could be between us?


Cos I dream about you being with me
I often dream about us being together.


So baby tell me how you fell inside If you want me baby don't lie
Please tell me honestly how you feel about me. If you want me, don't lie.


Cos I dream about us all of the time
I constantly fantasize about us being together.


Makes me mad Cos you're not mine
It frustrates me because I cannot have you.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: SHOLA AMA, LASHAWN AMEEN DANIELS, FREDDIE D III JERKINS, HARVEY JAY MASON

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