Shame Shame Shame
Sinitta Lyrics


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Elliot Sam
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Shame And Scandal In The Family
In Trinidad there was a family

With much confusion as you will see

It was a mama and a papa, and a boy who was grown

Who wanted to marry and have a wife of his own


He found a young girl, that suited him nice
And went to his papa to ask his advice
His papa said son, I have to say no
This girl is your sister but your mama don't know

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Who, is me, shame and scandal in the family

Who, is me, shame and scandal in the family


A week went by and the summer came 'round
And soon the best cook in the island he found
He went to his papa to name the date
But papa shook his head and to him he said
You can't marry this girl, I have to say no
This girl is your sister but your mama don't know

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He went to his mama and covered his head
And told his mama what his papa had said
His mama laught, she said go, man, go
Your daddy ain't your daddy, but your daddy don't know





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Overall Meaning

The song "Shame Shame Shame" is actually a cover of a Caribbean folk song called "Shame and Scandal in the Family." The lyrics tell the story of a Trinidadian family who experience a complex and chaotic situation involving incestuous relationships. The singer, a grown boy in a family, falls in love with a young girl who he wants to marry. However, his father advises him not to, revealing that the girl is his sister, and that his mother is unaware of her existence. The boy is heartbroken, but soon falls in love with a new woman who he plans to marry. However, his father again advises against it, stating that this new girl is also his sister. This time, the boy goes to his mother in tears, and reveals what his father has said. To his surprise, the mother begins to laugh and tells him that his father is not actually his biological father, meaning that neither of the girls are his sisters after all.


This song explores the theme of family secrets and the consequences of keeping them. The lyrics suggest that in this family, the father's secret had a ripple effect on everyone else, leading to confusion, heartbreak, and ultimately, a revelation of long-held secrets. The emotions present in the song range from anger and sadness to surprise and joy, ultimately leaving the listener with a sense of relief that the truth has been revealed.


Line by Line Meaning

In Trinidad there was a family
In Trinidad lived an unusual family


With much confusion as you will see
They were a family full of chaos


It was a mama and a papa, and a boy who was grown
The family consisted of the parents and an adult son


Who wanted to marry and have a wife of his own
The son desired to get married and start his own family


He found a young girl, that suited him nice
He found a girl whom he liked


And went to his papa to ask his advice
He sought advice from his father


His papa said son, I have to say no
His father rejected his proposal


This girl is your sister but your mama don't know
The girl he wanted to marry was his sister, but his mother was unaware


Who, is me, shame and scandal in the family
The family was in turmoil and experiencing shame and scandal


A week went by and the summer came 'round
A week passed before summer arrived


And soon the best cook in the island he found
The son found the best cook on the island


He went to his papa to name the date
He went to his father to set a wedding date


But papa shook his head and to him he said
His father refused and shook his head


You can't marry this girl, I have to say no
His father denied his request to marry the girl


This girl is your sister but your mama don't know
Once again, the father revealed that the girl was his sister but the mother was unaware


Who, is me, shame and scandal in the family
The family was still in turmoil and experiencing shame and scandal


He went to his mama and covered his head
The son went to his mother with his head covered, indicating shame


And told his mama what his papa had said
He informed his mother of his father's rejection


His mama laught, she said go, man, go
His mother laughed and encouraged him to go ahead with the wedding


Your daddy ain't your daddy, but your daddy don't know
The mother revealed that the son's supposed father was not actually his biological father


Who, is me, shame and scandal in the family
The family had the shocking revelation of the son's true paternity, adding to their ongoing shame and scandal




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Comments from YouTube:

Alejandro Martin

Bravo por poner esta canción tan fantástica y hermosa en la voz de Sinitta. Artista impresionante y maravillosa.

RICARDO MOHAMMED

Sinitta was always good fun! Wish we'd had these videos on tv here in the States back when they were first out. Thankfully Sony has the good sense to unleash these gems on YouTube, now if they would only put them on itunes in HQ.

Colwyn Bay Pier - Pier Bae Colwyn

Just fantastic, love her so much.

phylo bacte

Wow...me ha vuelto a mi infancia cuando no paraban de darla en la radio..

gunbuck7

Too FABULOUS!

Snit rules!

rez yousuf

Love Sunitta!

unique1521

Till now fabulous!

Halloweenville

The 90's ruined so many decent 80's pop stars. it was like a graveyard of all that was great.

BrooklynLass

I'm "not" putting this version down....but in my humble, honest opinion.....this version "can't touch" Shirley & Company's original version. Not. Even. Close.

Kjell Alinge

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