Eighteen
Slapstick Lyrics


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Some days I don't feel like being grown-up
Some days I just feel like looking far away
Well I've never understood why the closer you come to make your own decisions and be self-sufficient
Well you've gotta conform to the will of the world
Well she left right before I turned eighteen
Well I just really started missing her now
I know a girl who spent her summer here on my street
Freedom was her name
where did she go, where did she go
Now a new change tries to hold me in place
maturity and responsibility
where did she go, where did she go
Some days I don't feel like being inside
All day outside doesn't look too cold
She taught us how to play games and hold hands and be friends with each other
but we're not friends with each other anymore whoa
Well I guess this has got to be that way
Well I don't want any part of it at all
I know a girl who spent her summer here on my street
Freedom was her name
where did she go, where did she go
Now a new change tries to hold me in place




maturity and responsibility
where did she go, where did she go, where did she go

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Slapstick's "Eighteen" speak to the struggle of growing up and facing the expectations and pressures of the adult world. The singer expresses a feeling of being trapped and yearning for a simpler time, all while acknowledging the need to conform to society's expectations. The song also touches on the idea of lost friendships and the passing of time.


The opening lines convey a sense of nostalgia for a time when the singer could escape from the realities of adult life. They long for the freedom to simply look far away and escape the pressures of being grown-up. The lyrics lament the fact that even though one may be self-sufficient and making their own decisions, they still have to conform to the will of society. The singer then reveals that someone special, a girl, left shortly before they turned eighteen, and they are just now beginning to miss her. The repetition of “where did she go” speaks to the fleeting nature of youth and how quickly time passes.


The second verse speaks to the longing for escapism and the sense of being trapped by new changes and responsibilities. The lyrics describe the singer’s desire to be outside and have fun, but they are now held back by the need to be mature and responsible. The song then touches on the idea of lost friendships, as the singer recalls a girl who spent a summer on their street and taught them how to be friends with each other. However, as they have grown older, they are no longer friends with each other anymore.


Overall, "Eighteen" conveys the universal struggle of growing up and facing the expectations of the world around us, while yearning for the simplicity and freedoms of youth.


Line by Line Meaning

Some days I don't feel like being grown-up
Sometimes I don't want to conform to the expectations of being an adult


Some days I just feel like looking far away
Sometimes I want to escape from reality


Well I've never understood why the closer you come to make your own decisions and be self-sufficient
I don't understand why taking control of my own life means I have to follow society's rules


Well you've gotta conform to the will of the world
But in reality, I have to follow the rules and expectations of society


Well she left right before I turned eighteen
The person who I cared about left me when I became legally an adult


Well I just really started missing her now
I am realizing how much I miss her now that I am more aware of my emotions


I know a girl who spent her summer here on my street
I know someone who was carefree and wild


Freedom was her name
She embodied the feeling of being free and unrestricted


where did she go, where did she go
I wonder where that carefree spirit went


Now a new change tries to hold me in place
Now I am expected to adhere to maturity and responsibility


maturity and responsibility
I am expected to grow up and fulfill my societal obligations


where did she go, where did she go
I still wonder where that carefree spirit went


Some days I don't feel like being inside
Sometimes I want to be free and enjoy the outdoors


All day outside doesn't look too cold
Even if it's cold outside, being free and unrestricted is worth it


She taught us how to play games and hold hands and be friends with each other
That carefree spirit showed us how to have fun and connect with others


but we're not friends with each other anymore whoa
But now that we are expected to fulfill our societal obligations, we have lost that connection with each other


Well I guess this has got to be that way
I guess this is just the way things are


Well I don't want any part of it at all
But I don't want to conform to it


where did she go, where did she go
I still wonder where that carefree spirit went




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