How Many Times
Solomon Burke Lyrics


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How many times must I call you?
Call you on the telephone
Tell me how many times
Must I come knocking?
To only find you′re never home

How must how must I comb my hair?
Is it too short or too long
I got to know, know the reason
We don't go steady anymore

Have I been the foolish one?
Tell me am I the one to blame
Should I walk around with tears in my eyes?
And hang my head in shame

How many times must I write you?
Write you each and every day
Only to wait for an answer
How that never comes my way

Tell me that I wanna know my darling
And I the one to blame
I got to know the reason
Tell me we don′t go steady anymore

I gotta know my darling
Tell me am I the one to blame
I got to know, know my darling
The reason why we don't go steady




One more time
We don't go steady anymore

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Solomon Burke's "How Many Times" are a sincere expression of a person's confusion and heartbreak over a failed relationship. The singer wants to know how many attempts he needs to make before he can connect with his lover again. He has tried calling her on the phone, coming to her house, writing letters, and waiting for her responses, but nothing happens. The singer is desperate to know the reason why he can't seem to reconcile with his former lover.


The singer also wonders if the way he looks, specifically his hair's length, has anything to do with their issues. The song implies that he is willing to make necessary changes to win her back, but he needs to understand why they aren't together. He fears that he may be the "foolish one" and doesn't want to accept blame without reason. He questions if he should hang his head in shame or cry for her.


The lyrics are meaningful as they explore the feelings of a person struggling to understand the reason behind the failure of their love. It shows the singer's willingness to take accountability and make changes but also that love takes a partnership, and they need to go at each other's pace. This song stands out as a timeless, relatable song about love and loss.


Line by Line Meaning

How many times must I call you?
I wonder how many times I have to call you on the telephone to get your attention.


Call you on the telephone
I keep trying to reach you on the phone.


Tell me how many times
Please, I need to know how many times I need to bother you before you take me seriously.


Must I come knocking?
Do I need to show up at your doorstep for you to talk to me?


To only find you're never home
I always come asking for you, but you're never there.


How, how must I comb my hair?
I'm not sure whether my hair length is okay or not. Can you let me know?


Is it too short or too long?
Please give me a clue about how you prefer my hair length.


I got to know, know the reason
I need to understand what is causing you to lose interest in me.


We don't go steady anymore
I feel the distance between us growing, and I worry that we're falling apart.


Have I been the foolish one?
Did I do something to push you away? Am I to blame for our problems?


Tell me am I the one to blame
It's been confusing for me, help me understand if I'm making mistakes.


Should I walk around with tears in my eyes?
I question whether I should hide my emotions from others or show the hurt that I feel.


And hang my head in shame
I don't want to be embarrassed in front of others.


How many times must I write you?
I'm wondering how often I should express my feelings to you on paper.


Write you each and every day
I find myself compelled to write to you often, to share my thoughts.


Only to wait for an answer
But I often feel neglected as I wait for your response.


How that never comes my way
Your silence always leaves me feeling rejected and ignored.


We don't go steady anymore
We're growing apart, and I feel helpless to stop it.


Tell me that I wanna know, my darling
Would you please give me an honest explanation, my love? I'm desperate to understand.


I gotta know, know the reason
It's my priority to find the reason for our struggles.


The reason why we don't go steady
I yearn to know what is causing the rift in our relationship.


One more time
Please, one more time, give me a chance to have a real conversation with you about our future.




Writer(s): Vince Clarke, Andy Bell

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Pancho Mozó

Excelente tema por el gran Solomon Burke.

marcosprado vilela

Where can I find the lyrics

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