It's Too Soon To Know
Sonny Til & The Orioles Lyrics


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Does he love me?
It′s too soon to know
Can I believe him
When he tells me so?
And is he fooling?
Is this all a game?
Am I the fire or
Just another flame?

A one sided love
Would break my heart
He may be just acting
And playing a part
If he don't love me
Let him tell me so
And I, I can′t hold him
If he wants to go

And though, though
I'll cry when he's gone
And I won′t die and I′ll live on
If it's so, it′s too soon
Way too soon to know
Does he love me?
Can I believe him?

And though, I'll cry
Though, I′ll cry when he's gone
And I won′t die and I'll live on




If it's so, it′s too soon
Way too soon to know.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Sonny Til & The Orioles's song "It's Too Soon To Know" is a love ballad that is sung from the perspective of a woman who is unsure of her lover's feelings. The first stanza starts with the woman asking herself if her lover truly loves her or if it is all just a game. She is worried that she may be just another flame to him and not the fire that he truly desires. The second stanza talks about how a one-sided love would break her heart and that her lover may just be acting and playing a part. She is willing to let him go if he does not love her back, but she wants to hear the truth from him.


The chorus talks about how the woman will cry when her lover is gone, but she knows that life will go on. She acknowledges that it is too soon to know if her lover truly loves her or not, and she is uncertain about how to proceed. The lyrics convey raw emotions of love and vulnerability that many can relate to. Overall, the song speaks to the uncertainty and complexity of romantic relationships and how even the strongest of emotions can be fragile.


Line by Line Meaning

Does he love me?
Am I truly loved by him?


It's too soon to know
It's too early to be confident of his love.


Can I believe him
Is he trustworthy?


When he tells me so?
Is he genuine when he expresses his love?


And is he fooling?
Is he deceiving me?


Is this all a game?
Is he toying with my emotions?


Am I the fire or
Am I his passion, or


Just another flame?
Am I just someone insignificant to him?


A one-sided love
A love that is not mutual


Would break my heart
Would cause me emotional pain


He may be just acting
He may be pretending


And playing a part
And putting on a façade


If he don't love me
If he doesn't truly love me,


Let him tell me so
He should be truthful and confess it to me


And I, I can′t hold him
I can't force him to stay


If he wants to go
If he chooses to leave


And though, though
Despite this


I'll cry when he's gone
I will be sad after he leaves


And I won′t die and I’ll live on
But I won't let his departure destroy me


If it's so, it′s too soon
If our love is not genuine, it's too early to know


Way too soon to know
It's definitely too early to be sure of his love.




Writer(s): Chessler Deborah

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@jacquieedwards8218

The Orioles were my Michael Jackson, Prince, Frank Sinatra, rolled into one. I loved them in 1949, and I still love them now at 84 years young (smiles). I'm sorry they are not here any more, but they live on in my memories of days gone bye. Jesus is Love

@pgroove163

@ugh better music 🎶dig

@pgroove163

Jesus sure is !..

@stewartfenton7660

@gutterpunk better motorbikes

@stewartfenton7660

@gutterpunk better tractors

@stewartfenton7660

@gutterpunk yes I know, I'm not serious. Actually I'm a fifties, not forties fan. When it comes to music and style. But not when it comes to attitudes to just about anything different, like a weird middle name (talking about England, the US is nothing but weird names), blacks, gays (horror!), unmarried couples living together, Jesus, some of it was like the present day but without the Maga hats.

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@PatoNani18

This group is the reason of the Beach Boy's signature vocal harmonies.

@paulmason3175

when I was 11 yrs. old I became an orioles fan, the dominoes and the clovers, I`m 79 now.

@exysness

Paul Mason hi grandpa!

@cf1934

I was a teenager in high school when I heard "Write and tell me why" by the "Orioles" in 1954. They were great and so was the song.

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