Nothing To Writte Home About
Soul Asylum Lyrics


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Dear mother, what can I say
It's been so long since I went away
And yes, I miss the comforts of home
But I guess I'm better off on my own

No one told me people could be so cruel
Nobody told me about any of this in school
Still nobody understands the things that I don't understand

I've nothing to write home about
Nothing I have figured out
Still I have the same old doubts
Nothing to write home about

Dear John, that ain't my name
I'm just hangin' 'round to take the blame
I'm filled with guilt, I'm filled with shame
Too much or not enough it's all the same

And no one wants to talk about the loss
No one wants to talk about the cost
Every one just looks away, just like any other day

I've nothing to write home about
Nothing I have figured out
Still I have the same old doubts
Nothing to write home about

Who can teach me how to change my ways
Who will come and save the day
Who will tell me what to say
When there's nothing left to say

Nobody told me about any of this in school
No one told me I'd be taken for a fool
And everyone just looks away, and tries to make it through the day

I've nothing to write home about
Nothing I have figured out




Still I have the same old doubts
Nothing to write home about

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of the song "Nothing To Write Home About" by Soul Asylum are about the feelings of confusion, loneliness, and homesickness of a person who has left home. The song starts with the singer addressing their mother and admitting that it has been a long time since they left home. While they miss the comforts of home, they feel that it is better off for them to be on their own. The second verse is addressed to John, who is not the singer's real name. The singer is filled with guilt and shame and feels that they are either too much or not enough. Nobody wants to talk about the loss and cost of leaving home, and everyone just looks away like any other day.


The chorus of the song emphasizes the singer's feelings of inadequacy and confusion. They have nothing to write home about since they have not figured anything out yet, and they still have their doubts. The last verse of the song is about the singer's search for answers. They wonder who will teach them how to change their ways, who will save the day, and who will tell them what to say when there is nothing left to say. The song ends on the same refrain of the chorus, emphasizing the singer's feelings of confusion and lack of direction.


Line by Line Meaning

Dear mother, what can I say
Addressing his mother, the singer wonders how he can communicate how he truly feels.


It's been so long since I went away
It has been a while since he left home.


And yes, I miss the comforts of home
He admits that he misses being at home and all that comes with it.


But I guess I'm better off on my own
Although he misses home, he knows that he is better off being independent.


No one told me people could be so cruel
He expresses his surprise at the cruelty of people.


Nobody told me about any of this in school
He notes that he was not warned or taught about the hardships of the real world while in school.


Still nobody understands the things that I don't understand
Despite not knowing everything and being lost at times, he observes that no one understands this.


I've nothing to write home about
He feels that he has nothing significant to share or say to his family, especially when he hasn't figured things out for himself.


Nothing I have figured out
He acknowledges that he still has a lot to figure out before he can write anything worth sharing.


Still I have the same old doubts
He admits that his doubts are persistent.


Dear John, that ain't my name
Addressing someone called John, he lets them know that they don't have his name right.


I'm just hangin' 'round to take the blame
He feels like he is always around to take the blame for things.


I'm filled with guilt, I'm filled with shame
He confesses to feeling guilty and ashamed.


Too much or not enough it's all the same
To him, it doesn't matter if he does too much or too little because in the end, it doesn't change anything.


And no one wants to talk about the loss
He highlights that people don't like talking about loss or grief.


No one wants to talk about the cost
People also avoid discussing the price or implications of certain actions or decisions.


Every one just looks away, just like any other day
Everyone seems to be avoiding anything that might potentially be uncomfortable and are just skirting around the issues as usual.


Who can teach me how to change my ways
He seeks guidance on how he can effectively make changes in his life.


Who will come and save the day
He asks who will be the hero or savior that will rescue him from his problems.


Who will tell me what to say
He expresses his uncertainty about what he can say or do to improve his situation.


When there's nothing left to say
He points out that when all has been said and done, he is still left with emptiness and inadequacy.


No one told me I'd be taken for a fool
He expresses his disappointment at being taken for granted.


And everyone just looks away, and tries to make it through the day
He notices that everyone else is avoiding facing their problems and are just trying to carry on with their lives as usual.


I've nothing to write home about
He still feels that he has nothing noteworthy to share with his family or anyone else at this point.


Nothing I have figured out
He reiterates that he hasn't managed to figure anything out yet.


Still I have the same old doubts
He recognizes that his doubts have been plaguing him for a while now.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DAVID PIRNER, DAVID ANTHONY PIRNER

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