A Matter of Heart
Stan Rogers Lyrics


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We live in fear of no one to love us
Of feeling like an empty hole
With no kind heart or strengthening hand
To light the dark and secret soul.

Behind the walls of lonely protection
Afraid to give for what we may lose,
And to hide our sin, or let someone within,
Everyone will have to choose!

[Chorus]
Put your life on the line,
Give your hand and pledge your time
To the love whose lips inflame you
Like some ancient and golden wine;
And to all it's a start in fulfilling greatest needs in part,
For in whatever we dream of what we some day want to be
It's a matter of heart.

We like to think we know what we're doing,
We always like to be in control.
The rational mind rules the passionate heart
Is what the ancient sages told.

But that can sound a little bit hollow,
When you're sitting by the fire alone!
And the rarest old wine tastes of ashes and brine,
When you've no one there to keep you warm.

[Chorus]

The way in which our pride will stall us,
When we know we should be losing control,
Puts us in the fear of falling and we let it go!
Our careful words are self-deceiving,

Though we like to call them 'pretense' and 'art',
But every old line is held in the mind,
When it's really just a matter of heart.





[Chorus: x2]

Overall Meaning

The song "A Matter of Heart" by Stan Rogers explores the fear of loneliness and the importance of love in our lives. The first verse describes the fear of being unloved and the emptiness that it brings. The lines "With no kind heart or strengthening hand / To light the dark and secret soul" suggest that love can offer comfort, support, and healing for our deepest emotional wounds. The second verse contrasts the rational mind with the passionate heart, implying that we need both in order to live a fulfilling life. However, the verse also suggests that rationality alone can become meaningless if we lack human connection. The lines "And the rarest old wine tastes of ashes and brine, / When you've no one there to keep you warm" emphasize the importance of intimacy and love.


The chorus encourages listeners to take a risk and give their hearts to someone they love. The lines "Put your life on the line, / Give your hand and pledge your time" suggest that love requires vulnerability and sacrifice. However, the chorus also implies that the rewards of love are worth the effort: "To the love whose lips inflame you / Like some ancient and golden wine; / And to all it's a start in fulfilling greatest needs in part." The final verse suggests that our fear of vulnerability and our attempts to control our emotions can prevent us from experiencing true love. The lines "The way in which our pride will stall us, / When we know we should be losing control" suggest that our desire for control can be a barrier to intimacy.


Overall, "A Matter of Heart" is a poignant reflection on the importance of love and the fear of loneliness. The song encourages listeners to take risks and be vulnerable in order to experience the rewards of love.


Line by Line Meaning

We live in fear of no one to love us
We're afraid of being unloved and feeling empty


Of feeling like an empty hole
We fear that we are incomplete without love


With no kind heart or strengthening hand
We need someone to support and encourage us


To light the dark and secret soul.
To help us reveal our true selves and overcome our fears


Behind the walls of lonely protection
We build walls to protect ourselves from being hurt again


Afraid to give for what we may lose,
We're afraid to give ourselves completely because we fear losing everything


And to hide our sin, or let someone within,
We hide our flaws and secrets rather than sharing ourselves with others


Everyone will have to choose!
We must decide whether to hide or reveal ourselves to others


Put your life on the line,
Take a risk and give everything you have


Give your hand and pledge your time
Commit to loving someone and investing time in the relationship


To the love whose lips inflame you
To the person who ignites your passion and desire


Like some ancient and golden wine;
Like a priceless treasure that must be cherished


And to all it's a start in fulfilling greatest needs in part,
Loving someone is the beginning of fulfilling our greatest needs


For in whatever we dream of what we some day want to be
Our dreams and aspirations can only be achieved with love


It's a matter of heart.
Love is the essential ingredient for a fulfilling life


We like to think we know what we're doing,
We believe we are in control of our lives


We always like to be in control.
We desire to be in charge and have everything go as planned


The rational mind rules the passionate heart
We favor logic and reason over emotions and feelings


Is what the ancient sages told.
This belief has been passed down through generations


But that can sound a little bit hollow,
This belief can sound unfulfilling and empty


When you're sitting by the fire alone!
When you're lonely, all you have is your thoughts and emotions


And the rarest old wine tastes of ashes and brine,
Even the best things in life lose their flavor without love


When you've no one there to keep you warm.
When you're alone, you miss the warmth and comfort of another person


The way in which our pride will stall us,
Our ego can prevent us from being vulnerable and open


When we know we should be losing control,
Sometimes it's important to let go and be vulnerable


Puts us in the fear of falling and we let it go!
Our fear of vulnerability can keep us from taking risks and pursuing love


Our careful words are self-deceiving,
We use language to hide our true intentions and feelings


Though we like to call them 'pretense' and 'art',
We justify our self-deception by calling it a form of creativity


But every old line is held in the mind,
Our self-deceptions stay with us and prevent us from being authentic


When it's really just a matter of heart.
We need to be honest with ourselves and others about what we truly feel and desire


Chorus
Love is essential for a fulfilling life




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