Ross Childress, probably most widely known as the lead guitarist in the multi-platinum selling group Collective Soul from 1994 to 2001, has since been working on a number of projects that have culminated in Starfish and Coffee.
In the early 2000's, Ross worked with Trevor Hurst of Econoline Crush on his solo album "Wanderlust," together producing and writing over 40 songs. Four of those songs are included in this album, with the track "Not Broken" included in both projects.
More recently, after being casually asked by a member of a band he was then producing in Atlanta to be a part of a musical charity event, Ross found that his noncommittal reply had been taken as a definite "Yes." Ross recalls he was playing golf a few days later with friends Bo Bentley and Thomas Michael and they asking, "Did you know you're playing that charity show?" and he being like, "No." Yet between shots they were laughing, "Well, you're on all the posters." In true Ross fashion, he replied, "Oh My… Well, can you guys play with me?"
"We all grew up together," says Bo. "So, we already knew the friendship thing was there. But when Ross was accidentally booked to play that show, we figured, 'Heck let's give it a shot.' Ross didn't even know if he wanted to pursue that life anymore, but when we hit that stage, it was fun for all of us. It's what we knew a band was supposed to be: Fun!"
Ross adds, "I never wanted to put a solo album out. But I also didn't want to put a band together from a rolodex of people that had toured and professionally done this before. That would have been artificial and contrived to me."
With Bo and Thomas, the Ross Childress Experience was born, and ended up rocking that benefit plus several other shows throughout Georgia and Florida.
Andrew Carter, another lifelong friend, attended one of those early shows and noticed that they could really use a stronger second vocal. "I mentioned this to Ross later, thinking he would find someone from his book of people, yet one day to my surprise, he called and asked if I would care to practice with them and see if we could work some songs out. So I went to that practice and we sounded pretty good. Some time after that I found myself at Ross' house having photos taken. A few days later I asked if I was in the band and Ross said 'Well, you're in all the photos so I guess so!' The rest is history."
And the Ross Childress Experience morphed into Starfish and Coffee.
"How Starfish and Coffee came together as a band is about as natural and organic as it can happen and I'm very happy about it," says Ross. No auditions, and with egos in check, it just works.
Their debut album was recorded live in a small cabin in the middle of Chattahoochee National Forest.
However, it didn't start out that way. "We loaded up the van with the pro tools rig and all our instruments and a thousand other instruments we found along the way and set out to record in a cabin," laughs Andrew, thinking they were just going to finish the four or five remaining songs on the album.
Ross adds in, "Yeah, we had recorded eight songs in various studios and headed to a cabin on top of a mountain in Clayton, GA to finish the rest of the songs that was to be our debut cd. But once we started in Clayton, I realized the flow of the cd was going to be sonically all over the place, so we scrapped all the previous recordings and re-recorded every song in that cabin."
That original eight day recording session ended up stretching out across three months.
"Ahhh, Clayton. What can I say?" reminisces Bo. "Beautiful mountains, grassy fields, horses, no cell phone service, no tv, no land line phone — surrounded by 360 degrees of the Chattahoochee National Forest. Complete seclusion from the rest of the world. We took over the cabin in a big way. A control room was set up in one of the bedrooms. Drums, amps and guitars (and 2 more beds) in the other bedroom, the house was pure chaos. We were sleeping with guitars and living on frozen burritos."
"My favorite part of doing this album was the fact that it is as indie as it gets!! Everything that we did up there was done by the four of us. We had to turn a small cabin into a recording studio, which wasn't easy. We moved around beds, tables, couches, massive spiders you name it!! I had so much fun doing it that way, and now that it's done, I wouldn't have had it any other way," confides Thomas.
Continues Andrew, "Yeah, no one's cell phone received signal and that equaled no distractions! We set up shop that was set in the most beautiful scenery I have seen in years. It was far, far...........far away from the mechanized world and with all that time and space applied to all of our talents and drive, we recorded an album we could all be proud of."
So what does Starfish and Coffee sound like?
"That's always a slippery slope of a trick question. It's a Rock/Pop thing. I enjoy melody. Whatever descriptions or comparisons people put on us is their interpretation. I'm not one to start any rumors," laughs Ross.
In any case, Starfish and Coffee is the genesis of all of these talents.
This Moment
Starfish And Coffee Lyrics
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They say the first step could be a big surprise and now all you can do is agree
No matter where you are just know you're in the place to be
This moment is all that we ever have in this moment Forgive Get up Get up
This moment is all that we ever have in this moment Forgive Get up Get up
So you may be the laugh of a big joke but you don't have to listen to it - la la la la la
Just remember where you are, you're in the place to be
This moment is all that we ever have in this moment Forgive Get up Get up
This moment is all that we ever have in this moment Forgive Get up Get up
Things happen for a reason, just remember where you are
(you're in the place to be)
You know you want to move on, but something seems to be holding you right here
The lyrics to "This Moment" by Starfish and Coffee speak of being present in the moment and not worrying about the past or future. It starts off by acknowledging that sometimes we may unexpectedly stumble into a situation, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't enjoy it. The lyrics encourage us to embrace the present moment, because that's all we have. Sometimes we may feel like the "laugh of a big joke," but the song advises against listening to others and instead believing in oneself. The repetition of "Forgive Get up Get up" reminds us to let go of any negativity or mistakes and to keep moving forward.
The chorus is particularly powerful in its message: "This moment is all that we ever have in this moment." It emphasizes that the present is all we really have and it's important to make the most of it. There's also a sense of urgency to the lyrics, as if the singer is urging the listener to take action and make the most of their time.
Line by Line Meaning
So you may have fell right in through the door but at least you made it to the party
Even if you didn't plan to be here, you made it and that's what counts
They say the first step could be a big surprise and now all you can do is agree
Starting something new can be scary and it's okay to feel that way
No matter where you are just know you're in the place to be
You belong here and should embrace this moment
This moment is all that we ever have in this moment Forgive Get up Get up
Don't dwell on the past, forgive yourself and move forward
So you may be the laugh of a big joke but you don't have to listen to it - la la la la la
Don't let others bring you down or define who you are
My dear it's better to believe in yourself than to hear it from anyone's lips - la la la la la
Having self-confidence is more important than seeking validation from others
Just remember where you are, you're in the place to be
Don't forget that you are exactly where you are meant to be right now
Things happen for a reason, just remember where you are (you're in the place to be)
Trust that everything is happening for a reason and embrace the present moment
You know you want to move on, but something seems to be holding you right here
It's hard to let go of the past and move forward, but it's important to try
Contributed by Anna B. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
Anthony J Davis
I taught my Daughter and my niece this song❣Your music lives on Brother Nelson we miss you down here😘😇🖖🤘💕💞❣
Kenya Barthelemy
Anthony J Davis jw??
StrongArm Elijah
Everyday I cannot believe that he's gone. He was too pure for this world.
Sheila Syms
prince was so brilliantly genius he can sing and make a song out of a shoebox and make it funky i Will be teaching my granddaughter this song dang prince u truly miss you forever the boss of this thing called music💜💜
Jeremy Ford
We loved this song.
Juan Gonzalez
Beautiful. I love this song and what it stands for… GO ON CYNTHIA 🌹
L Parish
Thanks to everyone for listening to my channel.
Pricelessdiamond28
Classic! ❤
Narcissist Chris
Im sorry but this song would be perfect for a Starbucks Ad.
Yohan The Great
I sing tati. At school