After The Fire Is Gone
Steve Earle Lyrics


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Love is where you find it
When you find no love at home
And there's nothin' cold as ashes
After the fire is gone

The bottle is almost empty
The clock just now struck ten
Darlin' I had to call you
To our favorite place again

We know it's wrong for us to meet
But the fire's gone out at home
And there's nothin' cold as ashes
After the fire is gone

Love is where you find it
When you find no love at home
And there's nothin' cold as ashes
After the fire is gone

Your lips are warm and tender
Your arms hold me just right
Sweet words of love you remember
That the one at home forgot

Each time we say is the last time
But we keep hangin' on
And there's nothin' cold as ashes
After the fire is gone

Love is where you find it
When you find no love at home




And there's nothin' cold as ashes
After the fire is gone

Overall Meaning

The song "After the Fire is Gone" by Steve Earle and Allison Moorer is a reflective and nostalgic song about two people who are in a loveless marriage seeking comfort in each other's arms. The opening lines, "Love is where you find it, when you find no love at home," express the sentiment that when love is absent from one's home life, it can be found elsewhere. The lines "And there's nothing cold as ashes after the fire's gone" symbolize how the initial passion and heat of their relationship has burned out, and all that remains are cold remnants of the love that once was.


As the song progresses, it becomes clear that the two lovers have repeatedly met each other when they shouldn't have. The line, "We know it's wrong for us to meet," shows that they are aware that their actions are not approved of by society or their partners but continue to find comfort in each other's company regardless. The chorus repeats the idea that "Love is where you find it / When you find no love at home / And there's nothing cold as ashes / After the fire is gone," emphasizing the theme that they are seeking love and warmth that they can't find in their marriages.


The lyrics also paint a picture of a one-sided love story, where the singer's lover has forgotten the words of love and affection that they used to say, but the person outside of their marriage continues to cherish and remember them. These lines, "Your lips are warm and tender / Your arms hold me just right / Sweet words of love you remember / That the one at home forgot" shows how the singer's lover is not getting the love they need at home, and how the person outside of their marriage is the only one making them feel alive and cherished.


Overall, the song is a melancholic take on love, infidelity, and the complexities that come with being in loveless relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Love is where you find it
Love can be found anywhere, not necessarily at home


When you find no love at home
If there is no love at home, you should look for it elsewhere


And there's nothin' cold as ashes
Nothing is colder or has less passion than a love that has burned out


After the fire is gone
When a relationship has lost its spark, there is nothing left


The bottle is almost empty
There has been a lot of drinking involved in their meetings


The clock just now struck ten
The late hour makes their meeting a secret


Darlin' I had to call you
The singer has a strong desire to see the other person


To our favorite place again
They have met here before, and it's a place where they feel comfortable


We know it's wrong for us to meet
They understand that their actions are not morally right


But the fire's gone out at home
Their current relationships lack passion and excitement


Your lips are warm and tender
The other person is affectionate and caring


Your arms hold me just right
Their embrace is comforting and fulfilling


Sweet words of love you remember
The other person remembers to say loving things, unlike their current partners


That the one at home forgot
Their significant others have neglected to show affection and love


Each time we say is the last time
They keep trying to end things, but they can't resist each other


But we keep hangin' on
They can't let go of the passion and excitement they feel with each other




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: L WHITE, L E WHITE

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