Leave Him Out Of This
Steve Wariner Lyrics


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We're here in the dark alone - the three of us again
You and me are lying here with your memory of him
You say I've lost my mind but you say that every time
It's more than jealousy
I feel you holding him just as tight as me

I beg you just one time
Leave him out of this
Don't throw it all away for somebody that you miss
Wish you could want my love as much as you want his
Make love to me tonight and leave him out of this

I reach out to touch your face and pull you next to me
We're as close as we can get with someone in between
You say I'm dreaming this - you haven't seen him since
He said his last goodbye
But I know you're seeing him when you close your eyes

I beg you just one time
Leave him out of this
Don't throw it all away for somebody that you miss




Wish you could want my love as much as you want his
Make love to me tonight and leave him out of this

Overall Meaning

The song "Leave Him Out Of This" by Steve Wariner is a desperate plea of a man to the woman he loves, begging her to let go of memories of her past lover and focus on their present relationship. The song starts with a dark tone, the three of them being together and the man feeling left out because he senses the memories of the past lover still hold a significant place in her heart. Even though the woman denies that, the man knows she still holds onto the memories and the thought of the other man just as tightly as she holds onto him.


The man then pleads with her to let go of the past and embrace their present. He asks her to leave the past lover out of their relationship and focus solely on their love. The man seems to be at a loss knowing that the woman he loves is still holding onto someone else. His desire for her love is evident as he wishes the woman would want him as much or even more than she wants her past lover.


The song is emotional and raw as it carries the theme of someone feeling like they are not enough for their lover. It's relatable to anyone who has ever felt like they are competing with their significant other's past or anyone who has had difficulty letting go of their past relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

We're here in the dark alone - the three of us again
We are alone together in the dark, but your memory of him is still present between us.


You and me are lying here with your memory of him
We are physically together, but emotionally, your thoughts are still focused on him.


You say I've lost my mind but you say that every time
You dismiss my feelings and thoughts by accusing me of being insane, even though I am not.


It's more than jealousy
My feelings go beyond simple jealousy.


I feel you holding him just as tight as me
I sense that your emotional attachment to him is just as strong as your attachment to me.


I beg you just one time Leave him out of this Don't throw it all away for somebody that you miss Wish you could want my love as much as you want his Make love to me tonight and leave him out of this
I plead with you to focus solely on our relationship and leave thoughts of him behind, to prevent jeopardizing our future together. I desire for you to reciprocate my love fully and express it physically tonight, without him coming between us.


I reach out to touch your face and pull you next to me
I attempt to physically connect with you, bringing you closer to me.


We're as close as we can get with someone in between
Our relationship cannot reach its full potential while you are emotionally divided between us.


You say I'm dreaming this - you haven't seen him since
You dismiss my concerns by claiming that I am imagining things and that you have not had contact with him.


He said his last goodbye But I know you're seeing him when you close your eyes
Although he has said goodbye, I suspect that you are still emotionally attached to him and think of him even when you close your eyes.




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: SUSAN LONGACRE, WALT ALDRIDGE

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This may be my favorite by him. His voice is so strong and clear here.

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By far my favorite country singer. His voice and energy are unmatched. WAY underrated in my opinion!!

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