First One To Know
Stoney LaRue Lyrics


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If I let you down, I'll be fast as lightening
Here and gone like the storm that you're riding
It won't take long, and I'll turn a stone

When I lift you up, I'll be slow and easy
And I can't blame you if you don't believe me
Hope comes along, I'll keep you safe and warm
If I'm not acting like myself lately, doing things that I don't
Not sure why, but you want to hate me, it's just a spell I suppose
When I'm back to my old self again my love
you'll be the first one to know

I guess we're all just getting older
Looking back in time over our shoulder
Right or wrong, there's two sides to every song

If I'm not acting like myself lately, doing things that I don't
I'm not sure why, but you want to hate me, it's just a spell I suppose
When I'm back to my old self again, my love
you'll be the first one to know




When I'm back to my old self again, my love
you'll be the first one to know

Overall Meaning

The song "First One to Know" by Stoney LaRue is a heartfelt ballad about a person struggling to keep a relationship intact while dealing with their own personal issues. The lyrics suggest that the singer is aware that their behavior might have changed and they may not be acting like their usual self. However, they promise to be quick to leave if they don't live up to their promises and be slow and easy when they uplift their partner.


The song opens with "If I let you down, I'll be fast as lightening, here and gone like the storm that you're riding, it won't take long, and I'll turn a stone." This set of lines imply that if the singer fails in keeping their promises, they will be quick to leave and not cause any further damage. The next few lines, "When I lift you up, I'll be slow and easy, and I can't blame you if you don't believe me, hope comes along, I'll keep you safe and warm," explain that when they uplift their partner, they will take their time to do it right and keep them safe and comfortable.


Furthermore, the following verse talks about the regrets of growing old and looking back in time. It suggests that every wrong has two sides to the story. The chorus is repeated twice, where the singer admits that they might be in a spell and not acting like themselves recently, but when they're back to their old self, their partner will be the first one to know. Overall, the song talks about maintaining transparency and honesty while navigating personal struggles and relationship dynamics.


Line by Line Meaning

If I let you down, I'll be fast as lightening
If I disappoint you, I will leave quickly like a storm.


Here and gone like the storm that you're riding
I will be with you briefly and then disappear, like a storm that passes by.


It won't take long, and I'll turn a stone
I will become emotionally unavailable and distant soon.


When I lift you up, I'll be slow and easy
When I support you, it will be a gentle, patient process.


And I can't blame you if you don't believe me
You have every right not to trust me, given my past behavior.


Hope comes along, I'll keep you safe and warm
When things get better, I will make sure that you feel secure and comforted.


If I'm not acting like myself lately, doing things that I don't
When I act out of character, doing things that don't make sense, bear with me.


Not sure why, but you want to hate me, it's just a spell I suppose
If you feel inclined to resent me, it's probably temporary and inexplicable.


When I'm back to my old self again my love
Once I regain my usual state of mind and behavior,


you'll be the first one to know
You will be the first person I tell.


I guess we're all just getting older
We're all aging and growing in experience.


Looking back in time over our shoulder
We reflect on our past, casting a glance behind us.


Right or wrong, there's two sides to every song
Regardless of who's correct or mistaken, there are always two points of view to consider.


When I'm back to my old self again, my love
Once I am myself once more,


you'll be the first one to know
You will be the first to find out.




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Rafael Evangelista

If I let you down, I'll be fast as lightening
[Se eu te desapontar, serei rápido feito um raio]
Here and gone like the storm that you're riding
[Vou chegar e ir embora como a tempestade pela qual você está passando]
It won't take long, and I'll turn a stone
[Não vou demorar muito e vou remover uma pedra]

When I lift you up, I'll be slow and easy
[Quando eu te carregar, eu vou devagar e com calma]
And I can't blame you if you don't believe me
[E eu não posso te culpar se você não acreditar em mim]
Hope comes along, I'll keep you safe and warm
[A esperança vem e eu te deixarei a salvo e aconchegante]

If I'm not acting like myself lately, doing things that I don't
[Se eu não estou me comportando como eu mesmo ultimamente, fazendo coisas que não costumo fazer]
Not sure why, but you want to hate me, it's just a spell I suppose
[Não tenho certeza do porquê, mas você quer me detestar, acho foi só um feitiço]
When I'm back to my old self again my love you'll be the first one to know
[Quando eu estiver de volta ao velho eu, meu amor, você será a primeira a saber]

I guess we're all just getting older
[Acho que estamos ficando velhos]
Looking back in time over our shoulder
[Olhando pra trás no tempo, por sobre os ombros]
Right or wrong, there's two sides to every song
[Certo ou errado, toda canção tem dois lados]

[Repete o refrão]
If I'm not acting like myself lately, doing things that I don't
I'm not sure why, but you want to hate me, it's just a spell I suppose
When I'm back to my old self again, my love you'll be the first one to know
When I'm back to my old self again, my love you'll be the first one to know



All comments from YouTube:

Jacksons Wilderness

Just saw him last Thursday, acoustic, at Dosey Doe in the Woodlands here in Texas. The guy is just awesome. It's a small venue so you are very close to him. He comes out and says "I'm here for you, what do you want hear first?". He sang for two hours and every song was a request from the crowd. He joked and told a few cool stories from his past and hung out with everyone afterwards. Such a personable guy. This was my fifth time to see Stoney and I have enjoyed them all but to see him acoustic is something special. It's a must if you ever get the chance.

Mike Corbett

You're absolutely right stoney with his acoustic guitar best by far.

Tim McDraw

This has been one of my favorite, and most played songs of the past years since you recorded it. It has been so essential to me, even though it’s so painful. I just want to thank you for putting it in the world.

1heitzman

Love Stoney's voice. Great song!

Joey Nelson

I think this is the first studio cut I have heard from Stoney that does justice the spectacular talent in that  man's soul!!
Best live show on the planet for the last 10 years... even solo acoustic 

Hanna Grant

I have to put my horse down June 8th. I have had him almost 8 years. This song means alot to me because I don't cry infront of anyone. Not my family or friends. So this song speaks alot for me right now.....
RIP Skooter
My shoulder to cry on all these years... <3

D'On Hensley

Way to go Stoney....this is awesome.  Going to go places with this one.

Hannah Walker

such a beautiful, timeless song

OlDozerMan

There's always a song that connects.. love it

Robin Brenner

I love his voice and the song is a story for many of us.  Iowa can't wait to have you come and light up our stages!  We have lots of dirt roads here too, you will feel right at home Stoney!!

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